Mencius once said: "fish, what I want, bear's paw, what I want, can't have both." Give up the fish and take the bear's paw; " Life is what I want, and righteousness is what I want. You can't have both. Those who give up their lives for righteousness are also. "Mencius explained from the perspective of weighing that only by learning to give up can we gain something. At all times and in all countries, how many celebrities know how to give up and can give up, so as to shine in history. Zhaojun gave up luxurious food and embarked on the road of the western regions with yellow sand all over the sky, but it was praised by the world and future generations. Li Bai gave up his wealth, but maintained the integrity of "being flexible and being honest with others"; Gou Jian, the King of Yue, gave up his temporary dignity and endured humiliation, but regained the world. Sima Qian gave up his dignity and wrote a magnificent epic Historical Records with strong grief and indignation. Qian Xuesen gave up his generous treatment in the United States and resolutely returned to China to become the father of "two bombs and one satellite"; Former German Chancellor Brandt gave up the post of Prime Minister, fell on his knees and made atonement for Nazi Germany's crimes, and finally won the praise of people all over the world. In life, we find that many people hurt themselves deeply because their brains are too messy, their load is too heavy, their troubles are too dull, and they are tempted by too many things. They don't understand that giving up is a philosophy of life, a skill, an attitude and a realm. If you want to be happy and achieve something in your career, you can't let too many things tempt you, too many troubles accumulate in your heart, and you can't let your efforts spread. You should simplify your life and give up your life and some inner greed and desires. Give up meaningless entertainment, unnecessary busy pressure and easy-to-get ill-gotten wealth, and your body will be more free; Give up stale friendship, failed love and broken marriage, and your mind will be more free; Give up personnel disputes and intrigue, and the spirit will be more free. Only by giving up weeds and pests in Yuan Ye can we get something that really suits us. Giving up is a breakthrough in spiritual barriers and a clean-up and burden reduction of life bags. Throw away those burdens that are not worth taking away, unload those burdens that drag you down, smash those shackles that bind you, and go into battle lightly, so that the journey of life will be more enjoyable, you will climb higher and go further, you will see more and more beautiful life scenery, and you will realize your life value in your contribution to the people and society. Learning to give up is not about not seeking progress, not pursuing, and treating life with a passive attitude, but simplifying life. To simplify life, we must first keep our minds simple, and don't let too many desires and distractions drag us on the road, don't struggle in the net of material desires, and don't let too much vanity keep twitching at the top of life. In short, indifferent to fame and fortune, quiet and far-reaching

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