Some people are desperate for work, while others are too comfortable with comfort. Long-term struggle at the expense of health is worthless, but it is also a waste of life to be content with the status quo and not make progress.
What kind do you belong to?
Today, let's talk about how much long-term comfort has affected a person and how serious it has eroded life unconsciously.
Comfortable, technically a neutral word, depends on the stage. It's been almost four years since I returned to Heyuan, a small city from Guangzhou, and I've become accustomed to it. Comfort is like a person's comfort zone. If you stay in the comfort zone for a long time, you won't want to go out, just like a quilt in winter makes people reluctant to open it.
Long-term comfort can easily lead to weak compression resistance. People who are too comfortable often get emotional first, fear their hands and feet, look ahead and think about difficulties. They feel that they can't do it before they start work, and they are afraid of trouble and are unwilling to take steps. In fact, this is also a wake-up call for myself.
An ordinary runner can easily run five kilometers, but a non-runner will be out of breath if he runs less than two kilometers. A person who is in a comfortable state for a long time is just like a non-runner who is too comfortable, which will lead to a person becoming more and more unwilling to move and becoming lazy.
Zeng Guofan said:
"All the mediocrities in ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, were defeated by a lazy word."
This will inevitably bring potential to the yellow land, so there is an aphorism that "someone dies at 30 and is buried at 80".
When I was young, I didn't want to toss or was afraid of tossing. Basically, I saw the head at a glance.
Only when you are short can you show how long you are, and only when you are low can you show how tall you are. Comfort can't reflect its value without efforts, just like a person immersed in honey for a long time and can't feel the sweetness. Better sex between men and women will not only empty his body, but also become more and more tasteless, so breaking up is better than getting married. This is also to use the appropriate restraint of quantity in exchange for the improvement of quality, and so is comfort.
Health and comfort should be precious and a reward. Only by working hard during the day and striving for excellent work and study can we have a sense of fulfillment, feel the comfort and pleasure of lying on the sofa and drinking a cup of hot tea and reading at night, and feel what a wonderful time it is to watch movies or TV with our lover and children.
But if you live a comfortable life on the sofa every day and watch a drama every day, how can you feel the preciousness and beauty of this time?
A relaxed, civil and military way, only a combination of work and rest can last long.
Life lies in experience, and everyone will die, but don't let the bed become your own grave, don't be timid and pamper yourself, don't be afraid, and strive to create the future, just do it.