One,
We should fully understand the importance of family education;
In the process of children's learning and growth, there are two issues worthy of our consideration:
1 Same teacher, different students: Is it the difference in family education?
② Once cute students are not cute or even hateful: Are there any problems with the methods of family education?
Question?
Education has no chance to correct mistakes, so it must be correct from the beginning!
Because in the process of educating students, especially problem students,
We deeply understand the extreme of family education.
Importance, but many parents don't realize this:
Many times there is a feeling that children are good children, cute and smart. If parents do it again,
Pay attention to some methods
Maybe it will be better! Can grow better! Maybe there will be greater development! In our
In the process of contact, I was a little worried about some of my parents' ideas and practices.
For example, sending children to school is a teacher's business;
I have no education, I can't educate my children, and the teacher will bother more;
I'm so busy that I really don't have time to educate my children.
Many parents only care about their children's food and clothing, as long as they give money, everything will be fine. Children have their own emotions and opinions.
Divide and read, they lack true love even more! We don't think parents should give money to their children, and neither should family support.
It is only material, and more importantly, psychological and spiritual education.
There are also parents.
Think that children don't study well
I don't care whether the children study or not.
Let the school watch!
Parents give up first! Can children not give up?
Parents' educational responsibility comes first.
The ancients all said: if you don't teach, your father is wrong; On the road of children's growth, the influence of family education is not only
First, first, it is also for life; A three-year school can never resist the influence of parents.
We believe that:
Children's success is the greatest success of the family, and any success is not as good as children's success; Children's failure is family.
The biggest failure, any failure is less than the failure of family education; No success can make up for the education of children.
It failed!
The role of parents is irreplaceable and the responsibility cannot be shirked! Family is a child's first school,
It is also a lifelong school; Parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers!
Irresponsibility to children is also irresponsible to society!
Second, the most effective means of family education:
Communication, praise, appropriate punishment, strict and moderate, let the children stay at home.
Service and example;
The success of family education has nothing to do with cultural or material conditions.
We believe: parents are
100%
Love their children, but there are too many parents who don't! (used with overlapping verbs) Suit yourself.
It's just instinct, and it's also a science. We should talk about methods.
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The biggest difficulty for parents to educate their children today is not poor conditions or illiteracy, but self-sufficiency.
I know nothing about children! ! ! If you don't know the cause, how can you prescribe the right medicine?
Parents who don't know their children
, like a pillow
Closest to the child, but I don't know what the child is dreaming!
The fundamental reason for not understanding children is that children are not treated with respect and equality, and there is no real communication! Dog
Communication is the most effective means to educate children;
Good boy likes to brag. What children need most is not material things, but true love. Spoiling is neither love nor harm.
Bad children are used to it; Now many parents say that they can't control their children. Why can't they? because
I've been spoiled since I was a child! Therefore, spoiling a son is like killing a son. On the other hand, it is said that there is a dutiful son under the stick, which is justified.
Yes! What now? Communicate, and communicate with children equally! Communicate with children calmly!