The inner volume undoubtedly adds a lot of burden to students' study and life. Think about it. When you are playing games, chasing dramas and watching variety shows in the dormitory, your roommate suddenly takes out his book and starts studying ... Can you continue playing with peace of mind?
From our questionnaire on the social phenomenon of college students' involution, we can clearly see that most students hold a neutral or disapproving attitude towards this trend.
1. Face it with a normal heart
We should realize that competition exists naturally, everywhere and all the time. Don't have the idea of eating and drinking. When you are unfortunately involved, all you have to do is to get out quickly and don't let others disturb your rhythm. Others may only care about the present, but you should care about your future goals and don't blindly follow suit.
Don't take the present situation and near-term goals as life goals. For example, being admitted to Tsinghua of Peking University is not the goal, not the end of life, but the starting point. When you take being admitted to Peking University Tsinghua as your life purpose, your life will be over when you are admitted. You will enter out-of-control mode later.
3. The opportunities are limitless.
There's always another chance. Don't focus on the opportunities provided by others, such as the number of places for insurance research and the position of a certain unit. There will always be enough opportunities in an open society, and there will always be many ways to develop an open life.
It is definitely wrong to refuse to lie flat, give up, admit defeat and let others win easily. People can relax, put down, and don't lie flat.
Verb (short for verb) breaks the rules.
Change the rules and not be bound by them. For example, after graduating from college, in addition to graduate students majoring in insurance research, there are also graduate students from other schools and other majors, research institutes, enterprises, entrepreneurship, partnerships and institutions.
6. Give play to your own value
Give full play to your own value, don't passively accept tasks and accept assignments. Actively seek opportunities and solve problems. In any position, the choices before you are actually endless. If you passively accept the task, you actually didn't choose the tower. But you gave up on yourself. 7. be absorbed
Social diversity naturally exists, convergent thinking leads to involution, and creative thinking brings new opportunities, so we should always be curious, think from another angle and try new solutions. No matter academic or industrial, innovation is the right way.
Eight. Learn to let go.
If you have lofty ideals, but you don't know what to do with the involution in front of you, then you must learn to let go and be a normal person. Most science and humanities are not involved. When you participate in the involution, you become ordinary. Since you are an ordinary person, why don't you feel at ease and be a mortal? Be a good mortal first, don't care about many things, and then slowly work towards your goals, don't expect to succeed in the short term.