The endless nagging reminded me once again: "Honey, it's time for breakfast. Hurry up, dad is waiting for you, and he has to take you to school! " Oh, why don't you come out? I'm gonna be late! "This boring and repetitive nagging has already become a landscape in our home every morning! This sentence has flown out of my mother's mouth dozens of times this morning. Isn't it the first time to secretly try the truth schoolbag? It will definitely take a little longer. You don't have to shout every few seconds, do you? Can't you just pretend I'm sleeping?
At this time, my long-winded mother came into my bedroom and said in a very concerned tone, "Son, why are you still sorting out your schoolbag?" Why didn't you say your schoolbag was not packed? Come on, mom will help you clean up! "Say that finish, I dodged all the textbooks in my hand, pushed my schoolbag in front of me, arranged it meticulously, and spat out a few words from time to time:" If you have anything in the future, just call mom, understand? "I don't understand this sentence, mom. Why do you always take care of the disabled? I don't want to depend on you all day! Because you make me feel useless, like a puppet, always manipulated by others ... I tried to refute: "Mom, can't you let me do something by myself?" Mother said kindly, "daughter, just concentrate on reading a good book!" These, when you grow up, you will! Ok, you go and have breakfast! "The mirror of my heart seems to be broken in an instant. I grabbed my schoolbag from my mother, put on my sneakers and rushed out of my paradise home, leaving my father behind. Mother's puzzled eyes ...
Maybe I am too headstrong, but I have the right to choose. I have my own ideas; Maybe I am too weak, but I also have the right to be strong. Independence! Mom, what you think is so simple: independence, how can it be not now, but later? Becoming independent can't be cultivated overnight! Mom, I know you care about me and love me, but too much love will turn into doting. I don't want to lean in your arms all day, enjoying the warmth you gave me, like a puppet that will never grow up, leaving me alone to feel the cold when I have nothing. ...
We need to cultivate independence, because one cannot live in a greenhouse forever. In the cradle, you will eventually leave these dependencies and build your own warm wooden house in the outside world. A person who lacks independence is like a rigid body without a complete soul. Therefore, we need independence. Students, if you are still a person who enjoys all the warmth and has never experienced ups and downs, please try to leave these warmth and experience the ups and downs of the outside world. I believe you will have more!
I am the little sun at home and the apple of my parents' eye. I have everything I want except free space. My parents have kept me at home like a bird since I was sensible. Therefore, books and TV have become my ways to kill time. I seldom go out, and my parents always say there are many bad guys out there. If something happens, it's too late to regret it. So even if I want to go somewhere, I am guarded by my parents, as if afraid that bad people will rush out and take me away.
I didn't agree with my parents before, because I think children all over the world are praised by their parents in this way, but since I read this article about Uta, my thoughts have completely changed. This text is mainly about a 14-year-old German girl who traveled to Europe alone. When I read this article, I was very surprised. Because in China, it is impossible to travel all over the city where you live, let alone travel to Europe at the age of 65,438+04. Especially reading that Wuta can earn money to buy gifts for his parents and younger brother, I think it is "impossible". It is beyond my imagination to earn money to buy gifts by myself, let alone buy them abroad. At home, I want to buy things, and my parents "go out" by themselves. So I know nothing about the quality and price of goods, let alone know the price of goods like Uta. The first time I bought something by myself was 10 years old. That day, in the "Good Housekeeper" supermarket, my mother gave me a "sacred" task, which was to buy three bags of red wine for my mother. After listening to this, I jumped three feet with joy. Because I finally have a chance to show my talent. Mother carefully said the name and place of origin of red wine three times before letting me buy it. She also said that she would wait for me at the cashier. I happily found the red wine I wanted to buy and ran back with three bags. But when I got to the cashier, I couldn't find my mother. I turned around like an ant on a pot. Later, I found my mother through the radio. Looking at my mother, she seems to be crying. She saw me and scolded me, "Where have you been? I am worried to death. " I haven't bought anything since then.
Now that I think about it, I feel that my mother is so tight that she doesn't even give me room to show freely, as if I were a wax figure. As soon as she let go, I melted. That's why I don't know what to do when I encounter problems. Here, I appeal to parents who can't let go of their children: please don't leave their children at home any more, it's not good for them. Only by putting them in a vast space can they fly freely and be independent!
Chapter 3: Learn to write an 800-word argumentative essay in an independent high school. Once, I heard and witnessed such a thing at the gate of a school: a mother handed her daughter a bag of food and a paper bag and said, "This is what you like to eat, and there are shoes that have just been brushed." The daughter also handed her mother a bag of things and said, "There is a dirty dress in it, and the button has fallen off. Don't forget to help me nail it after washing. "
In children's minds, parents are like a wall that never collapses. However, no one will always be a child, and no one will always stand under the roof of the family. Stepping into life, leaving the harbor of parents and the help of relatives and friends is the road to growth of life. We must learn to be independent.
You need independence in life. We are not adults yet, and we don't need to work to support ourselves for the time being, but our basic independent ability is to take care of ourselves, manage our pocket money, do our own thing, cook for ourselves and so on. As an adult, you should know how to support yourself. There is a saying circulating in the society: "Parents who really know how to educate their children give their children not great wealth, but an independent and self-reliant spiritual wealth." Mr. Stanley is the president of one of the 500 largest companies in America and the richest man in the world. He teaches children how to manage money, how to make money and how to treat money. At the same time, he told them that their hard-earned money is the most precious, and they should learn to be independent.
You need to be independent in your studies. Nowadays, many students don't take learning as their own business, and often let their parents supervise and blame them. Some people complain that their parents are not college students and take it for granted that they are behind others, but in fact, learning ultimately depends on themselves. It is true that it is not uncommon to "muddle through" at all times and in all countries. Madame Curie's daughter is a scientist and a Nobel Prize winner. San Sutong was one of the "Eight Masters in Tang and Song Dynasties" ... They were influenced by their parents since childhood and became interested in a certain subject, which is one of the reasons for their success. China mathematician Zhang Guanghou's father was an illiterate miner and his family was poor. However, Zhang Guanghou has made great achievements in mathematics research through his own efforts and diligence. It can be seen that their success is not inherited by their parents, but the result of their own efforts. As the saying goes, "the master leads the door and practices in the individual." Parents and teachers have pointed out the direction and learning methods for us, and they can't accompany us all our lives. Further study and research depends on yourself.
You need to be independent at work. As the saying goes, "depend on your parents at home and your friends when you go out." But this sentence is no longer applicable in today's society. Today's society needs competition, real materials and DIY talents, and people who "enter through the back door" have no place. Be independent at work, know how to find a job by yourself, rise step by step by relying on your own strength, be good at showing your talents in front of leaders, don't lament your talents all day, complete tasks independently, solve difficulties independently, and be brave in trying. As Hugo said, "I would rather rely on my own strength to open the future than seek the favor of the powerful." Believe that "I am my own master!" When Yang Lan was a senior, she applied for the job of CCTV host. In the face of such a strong player as Lin, she resolutely said to the judges: "Whether you choose me or not, I must show it today." She did so, and as a result, she defeated many strong players and got her wish. Su Xun, a famous essayist in Song Dynasty, once showed his 22 carefully written articles to Hanlin Ouyang Xiu for appreciation and recommended them to the imperial court.
I remember a Latin American proverb: "Self-reliance is better than the hand of God." A person's growth is inseparable from the upbringing of parents, the upbringing of society and the teaching of teachers. However, these are external factors, and learning independence is the key. Only when a person attaches importance to independent ability and strictly demands himself under favorable conditions can he move towards the other side of success!