Zhang Xiaoxian said: "If you have not been loved by others, you will cherish those who love you in the future." Jane Eyre is an orphan and was adopted by her uncle's family since she was a child. After my uncle died, my cousin bullied her and my aunt abused her in every way. /kloc-at the age of 0/0, she was sent to a semi-charity school with difficult conditions. In the eight years at school, she learned to be strong and forbearing, and she is a girl who dares to love and hate.
Michelle Ye said: "Sometimes, apart from love, the origin of marriage may have the most realistic dependence." Eight years later, she wants to experience life outside. She met Mr. Rochester, an ugly man nearly 20 years older than herself, but in her eyes, Rochester was not ugly at all. She commented that Mr. Rochester is a man full of melancholy, sometimes arrogant and sometimes peaceful, sometimes enthusiastic and sometimes indifferent, sometimes serious and sometimes indulgent. People who are always full of melancholy and eccentric hobbies.
(2) Jane Eyre fell in love with a man
When Jane Eyre knew that she was in love with Rochester, love brought great pleasure to her life. Only she understands Rochester, she makes Rochester feel warm, she shows Rochester hope, two people encourage and support each other, and two lonely souls spark love. Everything seems so beautiful and happy. Zhang Xiaoxian said: "The person you marry is the person you think is the most suitable for you when you are most vulnerable." Jane Eyre chose to marry Rochester. She thinks Rochester is the most suitable person for her.
When Jane Eyre and Rochester are about to enter the marriage hall, Jane Eyre knows that he has a crazy wife. She said to Rochester in sadness and despair, "You have a wife. You can't deny it If you describe me as your lover, if you don't admit it, then you are lying to yourself and arguing with yourself. " There is no doubt that Rochester will commit bigamy if they get married.
Jane knows that even if she loves someone again, she would rather not have a happy marriage if she violates social laws. Jane Eyre is a woman with thoughts, pursuits and longing for freedom and equality in life. She still loves Rochester deeply, but this kind of marriage is not what she wants. She chose to forget and leave.
In reality, we all have the possibility of loving or being loved. If we fall in love with such a family, can we face it calmly? There is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone, and there is nothing wrong with wanting to be with her. Do you want to live like this? Don't you think this insecure love is self-deception? Liang Shiqiu said: "Marriage based on love is unparalleled happiness in the world." Everyone has his own view of love, and life is short. Try your best to pursue your happiness. May everyone meet the right person at the right time, have pure love and be happy forever.
(2) Jane meets a man who likes her.
Jane Eyre later met someone who liked her. Missionary St. John is a beautiful perfectionist. St. John likes Jane Eyre very much and helps Jane Eyre in life. He urged Jane Eyre to study hard. He hopes that Jane Eyre will become his wife and go to all parts of the world to do sacred missionary work with him. Jane Eyre is not happy with him. Jane Eyre thinks that St. John is ruthless and often feels depressed when he is with St. John. St. John can say that he doesn't know Jane Eyre. Jane Eyre is a girl with thought, dignity and pursuit of freedom and equality, which is inconsistent with St. John's spirit of career supremacy, with different aspirations and ways. Jane Eyre finally refused to be with him.
Gorky said: "Marriage is the combination of two people's spirits, and its purpose is to overcome all difficulties and hardships in the world." Two people with different personalities, different ambitions and different views will not be happy together. Therefore, if you don't love each other and stay with each other, it is a kind of torture for yourself and an irresponsible attitude towards each other. Plato said: "If you are unhappy, if you are unhappy, let go;" If you can't let go, it will be painful. "So I'd rather be single than marry someone I don't love, because only with someone I love, you will be full of youthful vitality, life will be full of hope and life will be full of happiness and warmth.
The power of love
Finally, Rochester's crazy wife died in a fire, and Rochester was blind. At the darkest time of Rochester's life, Jane Eyre decided to take care of Rochester, and Jane Eyre became Rochester's lawful wife. They live a happy life, and the power of love can never be measured. Love makes Rochester see the light again. Liang Shiqiu said: "Marriage based on love is unparalleled happiness in the world." May we all meet a person who loves each other, stay with us for life, hold your hand and grow old with your son.