Who am I? Self-growth Report-School of Electronic Information Engineering Electronic Information Engineering 0704 1 1438 Huang Jianwen Mail :chaonanwuxian@yahoo.com.cn, who am I? I'm afraid few people can answer this question clearly. Everyone thinks they can answer well, but it is easy to overturn their original ideas. Is this me? Am I such a person? This is a difficult question to answer, and it is also a question that everyone has to answer: who am I, how did I live to this day, how am I now, and how will I develop in the future. College students are the most important period in life. Answering these questions well is very important for our future life and development. From primary school to now, like most of my classmates, I have been admitted to key universities and junior colleges at the request of my parents. My idea at that time was to go to college according to my parents' expectations. A good university means a good job. I say this every day, and I follow my parents' instructions step by step. In the meantime, I don't have any ideas of my own. I tried to do whatever my parents said, and everything else was just like others, so I went all the way to the university. I went to college, left my parents, and then reached my low tide. At this time, I don't know how to communicate with people. I contact people all over the world, with different lifestyles, and I don't know how to deal with things in life. It seems that everything becomes difficult. You have to think and do everything yourself. I was confused and thought a lot. I used to be carefree As long as I study hard, everything is arranged by my parents Now you must take care of everything by yourself. I'm not used to it yet. At first, I was very unhappy when I slept with my classmates. At that time, I felt out of place with the life here. I always wanted to go home, and I was depressed every day. I'm smiling now. Now, I have thought a lot and changed a lot. I feel much better. I also thought about what to do in the future. So now I feel that college life is really training, and it is really a golden moment to shape a person. At this time, psychology is the most susceptible, and this influence will affect the later life. It was not until that moment that I realized that my life had just begun. Everyone's life has its ups and downs. I know that the past is over anyway, and the future is where I should seriously consider and fight for it. Who am I? My answer is that I am who I am, and my parents can only give advice, not practice. You can only rely on yourself. I am who I am, and what others do is a mirror to me. If the shoe fits, wear it. I am me, and my future is in my own hands. Everything I do is my choice. Right or wrong, the result can only be borne by yourself. I don't know if my mind has reached the level of an adult. But I know that I should judge my choice well and go my own way in the future. I think this idea is very important. At least, it gave me confidence and determination to keep going. Maybe I walked in a daze before I went to college, but I know that after four years, I will never walk in a daze again. I will definitely know my goals and significance in these four years. I can't imagine my future. Maybe my judgment is not enough, but I am full of confidence in my future. I know how to get there. I think everyone's lifestyle is different, and each lifestyle has its own reasons. We are not qualified to criticize other people's lifestyles and ask others to live like ourselves. So I never interfere in other people's lives, and at most give others some of my ideas. I think everyone has their own ideas. It is wrong and disrespectful to criticize others' ideas at will, so I never criticize others' opinions at will. I think lying will give people dishonest performance, and even joking is not appropriate, so I never lie, only joking. Everyone has self-esteem, and everyone is easily injured, so I never talk about others. I like being with others. Because I think everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, and with others, we can learn from others' advantages and learn from others' good places. No one in this world is an absolute villain, and no one is a good man. Neither a truly absolute villain nor a good man can survive. I think I should exercise my judgment. Why can't I see the advantages that others can see? This must be my own reason. Not only that, I think I still have some areas that need to be strengthened, such as the ability to communicate with people. Being willing to communicate with others does not mean that I can communicate well. There is also the courage to communicate with others. I still can't communicate with strangers calmly. And my psychological endurance needs to be strengthened. In college, failure and being surpassed are commonplace. Without good endurance, it is easy to give up on yourself. I personally admire Bill Gates, mainly because I think he is not only a successful man, but also because he has many excellent places. The first is his vision. He knows that the IT industry will develop rapidly in the future. He gave up the opportunity to go to college and engaged in the IT industry. The second is his way of doing things. He can solve the same problem in various ways and creatively. These are not the main things. There may be some congenital factors that make it impossible to learn. However, his psychological quality is absolutely good. The IT industry has always been ups and downs. He gave up without failure, and when he saw success, he predicted the next success. This is what I admire, not strength, but mentality. Through this semester's mental health education class, I feel some gains. Intuitively, my psychology is still relatively healthy, but after entering the university, all kinds of problems have flooded in front of me, and it is easy to have psychological problems. In this short semester of mental health education, I found my original psychological barriers. It's better to find the problem than to keep it in your heart. In this semester's mental health education class, I learned how to find, guide and prevent these psychological obstacles and spend these four years happily. But I know I only learned a little. I also want to know some practical methods to solve psychological problems and some practical skills of interpersonal communication. This practical knowledge is very practical and can be combined with theory. It is best to integrate theory with practice and strengthen understanding and application. I think the mental health education class is very popular with everyone, that is, it can communicate with you. Psychological barriers are also channeled through mutual communication. Maybe it's because everyone still refuses to say what they think. It's embarrassing. This is actually understandable. It is a process, and the development of society will definitely change people's ideas. You should know that mental health is a long process, and communication once or twice is not enough. I think if we can communicate with each other, we can strengthen this kind of counseling. If we can make friends, it is a good way to speed up mental health, and then everyone can participate in the classroom of mental health education, so that everyone can receive mental health education. There are also some movies about psychology, which can make everyone feel the same way and better accept this kind of psychological thoughts and arguments. You can not only receive some realistic education, but also have some psychological feelings. This can also better improve their understanding of psychology and reality. Reality and human psychology are interrelated. The outside world can influence psychology, and psychology can also have an effect on the outside world. I think it would be better if we could add some practical knowledge to the class. Because pure theory is boring, profound and difficult to understand after all. Combining some practical things can better improve the interest in learning. For example, videos about practice are good choices. Let the mind develop itself in a good way.