I am the mother of an autistic child who was misdiagnosed. Child 10 years old, very smart. Like many parents who were mistaken for autistic children, I once sent my children to an autism rehabilitation institution school for three months. Later, my insistence on my own way of thinking and beliefs changed the fate of my children. Think about it, if I am not exhausted, if I have been studying in the so-called autism rehabilitation institution school, the consequences will be unimaginable. I shared this story with some confused parents. Our children only know them best, and we are their first teachers, so we must make correct judgments, take fewer detours and think in the right way. Sharing this story just wants to help some confused parents give inspiration.

I don't deny that I have autism, but some pseudoautism or language retardation, which is what we usually call late talking, is also related to family education. If parents accidentally confuse the way of thinking and label it, it will be a terrible thing, which will lead to different educational methods for children and ruin their future. I gave my children an education class at the autism rehabilitation center school for three months, and then I didn't go there again. At that time, the school teachers and the person in charge advised me, including parents, not to give up my children's education, let me stay in the so-called rehabilitation center and let my children continue to go to school. For the sake of my children, I can't be stubborn and brainwashed. I insist on my opinion. When the children go to kindergarten, I will send them directly to kindergarten. Did not listen to the teachers and managers of rehabilitation institutions to let children stay in rehabilitation training schools for training. I treat children like ordinary children of the same age. Children are happier and better after they go to kindergarten. He is not a problem child at all. Later, he found that the child spoke late. Later, he talked more and more. Sometimes he plays jokes on me, and I think he talks too much, which is annoying. It was very correct to leave this rehabilitation institution school that year. Many parents in the Book of Songs are afraid to leave school for fear of missing their children's golden education. This is a terrible reverse thinking, Luo Ji. When I was in the autism rehabilitation center, I had two easy-going parents. Because they believed me and left the institution one after another, I also saved their two children to continue their studies. At present, their children are all in primary school. They said, thank you very much. They were afraid to take that step before. Although I am not an expert or a doctor, as parents, we are the children's first teachers, and then we paved the way for the children. If we go in the wrong direction, the consequences will be very painful. Whether a child's future path is good or not is closely related to parents' bedding and education methods. If parents mistakenly put their children in another position or label, he is a normal person, and the misplaced environmental education is different. They are not stupid, they are all stupid, and they will become problematic because of their sensitive environment, which is equivalent to putting a normal person in a mental hospital for a period of time, or some people will come out after a few years. Can you imagine its appearance and ending? That's terrible!

Parents must be very clear about the details. They should know about children and observe all aspects carefully, instead of others saying that children have problems and they really believe them. They are afraid of missing the real golden sensitive education period, and mistakenly label their children's precious sensitive period with different labels and put them in different environments. They always thought it was for the good of their children, but in fact they accidentally hurt them without knowing it. This is the happiness of a child's life. When I was in the autism rehabilitation center, many people didn't agree with me, including my parents. They are afraid to try and leave school. This was instilled and brainwashed from the moment I stepped into the school gates of these institutions. Every day, parents accompany their children to class and are brainwashed by teachers in so-called institutions. They all talk about similar professional knowledge. Over time, I lost my judgment. I think there is something wrong with this child. If the child really speaks late, he will learn all the behaviors and habits of some really problematic children during such a sensitive period. This period also happens to be a sensitive period for children, and it is also a period to imitate this. Because the idea advocated by autism is that the sooner the intervention, the better, and you can't miss your child's golden education period. But what if it's not really misdiagnosed and misleading? This will lead to different ways of educating children and ruin their lives. Just because some children don't talk so early doesn't mean they have a problem. This must be carefully observed in parents' life, and it also has a certain impact on the family environment. Don't think that what others say is what they are, but trust your own judgment, because some parents think that their children have problems, which will lead to that kind of behavior and action, and will also force their children to receive education and lead to collapse. Children are also under pressure, and sometimes they are affected by the environment and close themselves up. That's it. Now we adults also have some, because we have experienced some blows, because of depression and so on. Adults will be hit and stimulated, but they can't let go. Some adults will become insane and neurotic when stimulated by injury. Not to mention children? Parents' behavior will also bring problems to their children's growth. In this process, I studied in rehabilitation institutions for three months and learned about the darkness of rehabilitation institutions. I may have offended some institutions and schools, but for the sake of justice, I still have to say this. I remember watching a news on TV a few years ago about a parent who sent his child to an autism rehabilitation institution school in a city for training. The child died because of too much intensity during training. At that time, when I saw the news, I felt unspeakable sadness and helplessness. Teachers in rehabilitation institutions do not have professional school qualifications. Instead, the boss of the organization directly hires ordinary people or school interns to work after school training. Some teachers are very young, never married at all, never have children, and only come into contact with children when they come to school for training. How do they judge autism? They are full of professional questions and mislead their parents. I was misled at first, but later I found out that the so-called institutional teachers could not judge themselves at all. Sometimes when I don't understand the question, maybe he is bored and doesn't know how to answer it. They calmly kept instilling in their parents to stay in school. Parents also don't know the difference and judgment because of fear, because they are too nervous about their children and emotionally unstable. At the same time, they are also extremely worried that their children have missed the best expectation of gold, and judging the wrong direction will make mistakes again and again. This is very important. If the child only talks late, or it is caused by some family reasons, it will also cause harm to the child's life. I met some parents in an autism institution, and I was very nervous when my child was two years old. I thought my child was autistic and had attended intervention classes for several years, but I didn't attend kindergarten. If it is really misdiagnosed, what will he learn after several years of intervention classes in these so-called autism schools, that is, in the best period of children's germination, learning and imitation? Imagine for yourself how terrible it is. I spent three months and paid a quarter of the money. I found many problems and loopholes in rehabilitation institutions. At that time, the teachers of the organization kept brainwashing parents to let their children continue their studies and make better progress. If they miss the golden work, they will expect their children to be late, and they will face the view that if they miss the golden correction period, they cannot be corrected. That is, before the age of seven, it is the golden correction period for children. However, have you ever thought that before the age of seven, it is also a critical moment to emulate the sensitive period. What can you imagine if you put a normal child in an abnormal environment during this period?

I met two parents in this school after my experience, because I can talk to them at ordinary times. They followed me out of this trap. Now the children are fine and normal. If they dare not go out of this environment, you can imagine how terrible it is. I firmly believe in my principles, and I am glad that I made this decision in those years, otherwise the child's life would be over. Today's children 10 years old are very smart, and their social emotional thinking logic is clear and reasonable. I just talked about a mother with two children, and now all the children are in primary school. After leaving this school, I also contacted one of my parents who had been studying in an autism rehabilitation institution for more than half a year. Because she believed me, I encouraged her, and later she wanted to jump out with me. The situation is also very good. Later, I went directly to kindergarten. The teacher outside didn't think there was anything wrong with the child at all. This is the key. There is another child, because he intervened for more than two years earlier, and he was not used to it when he transferred to kindergarten at once. Why not? Because he stayed in this rehabilitation school for too long. Pay attention to me and I will always tell you why. Share more details and let parents know more about the reasons. Some inside stories about autism schools are dark. I hope you can find the cause of the problem and judge the real factors behind it, and I hope you can help the confused parents. About how I saved my child. Please pay attention and thank you for reading.

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