Having grown so big, I have naturally seen all kinds of doors, some of which are purely for decoration, but most of them are quite symbolic, making them the condensation of national cultural customs; There is also a special door that lives with the country. Just like the gate of China, it experienced the Opium War and witnessed the reform and opening up. Like a huge stone tablet, it engraved the rise and fall of the Chinese nation. Indeed, there are all kinds of doors, but the most familiar and unfamiliar is the heart door.

I remember one time Cao Cao went to see the newly-built house door. He didn't say a word, just wrote a word "live" on the door, and Yang Xiu knew that Cao Cao thought the door was too wide and ordered people to narrow it. Maybe people in China two thousand years ago liked to make a mountain out of a molehill, or where did they get the word "bosom friend"? Therefore, I sympathize with the minions of China. I ran into a master who was far-sighted and shrewd, and my life was gone if I made a mistake. So, I happened to see the master's "cheating wall" and knew that his master's heart was "all love" and the slave's heart was sweeter than eating honey. Every time I think about it, I am glad of my time and atmosphere. At least the people I contact are much simpler and more honest.

Among all kinds of heart doors, I like the half-closed heart door best, because it reveals half the mystery and keeps half the mystery. I think it is the best form for people to live in harmony. It maintains friendship and other friendships.

The basic function of the heart door is to protect privacy, but many people decorate it carefully, some are magnificent and some are simple, but every heart door is not 100% seamless. After a long time, there will be two kinds of people: "bully is always coward" and "hidden". Modern people of the same age have a hobby. When they see a few words, they assume that he has a heart. Seeing his smile, he called it a needle in cotton; After listening to his modesty, he reflexively called him a hypocrite and false modesty; It is ridiculous to think that he is disgusted with a little arrogance in his tone. If a person talks and laughs all day, he doesn't know how to be modest to show respect and how pride can enhance self-confidence, is he a wise man? Liu Bei was successful in mastering the human heart. He is hypocritical, but he is not a hypocrite. Shed tears, throw relatives and close their hearts; Saving Sichuan won the hearts of the people without robbing money; The kindness of the Queen of Hanzhong remains unchanged, which is the difference between Liu Bei and Liu Bang and Zhu Yuanzhang. The world says that Liu Bei is hypocritical and humble, and he is good at faking. This is fraud and is despised by gentlemen. Isn't Liu Bei the most resourceful person at that time? Otherwise, how can we "cheat" Wolong Feng Chu into being happy and willing to work hard? Therefore, even if the words and deeds of kind-hearted people are exaggerated, they are a hundred times better than those who are indifferent and numb. It is the so-called "gentleman does not stick to details."

Heart door, let kind people learn to protect themselves and cover up the fragility of nature; The heart door, in the rational mind, becomes an insurmountable boundary, becomes the principle of being a man, and restrains the master's luck and evil. However, the switch of the heart door is always in our brain. Open it with sincerity and calmness, close it with fatigue and vigilance, and operate it artistically. This is what people should pay most attention to.