In the process of learning communication, I talk about my understanding of interpersonal relationship in the process of communication, and focus on the influence of communication on interpersonal relationship.
Keywords: communication interpersonal relationship
1 definition of communication and communication
Communication is a process of information transmission. In this process, in a certain social background, the sender and the receiver use appropriate channels (ways and means) to transmit information to each other, communicate with each other and influence each other, so as to achieve the purpose of information sharing and mutual understanding. In fact, communication is a process with five basic elements (sender, receiver, information, channel and mutual understanding). It can also be divided into one-way communication and two-way communication.
2 interpersonal relationships in the process of communication and exchange
2. 1 Main differences between interpersonal communication and mass communication
Interpersonal communication is an activity. It refers to the face-to-face information exchange between people. Interpersonal communication includes not only verbal communication, but also non-verbal communication. Compared with mass communication, feedback is one of the main differences. Compared with interpersonal communication, the characteristics of mass communication are as follows: 1. Mass communication is generally spread through the media, and interpersonal communication is often face-to-face communication. 2. Mass communication is one-way communication, and feedback is difficult; Interpersonal communication is a two-way communication, and feedback is easy. 3. Mass communication has a large audience and great influence; Interpersonal communication has a small audience and little influence. 4. Mass communication information spreads quickly, while interpersonal communication information spreads slowly. 5. Mass communication can strengthen the expressed information, but interpersonal communication is weak. 6. Mass communication has poor selectivity to the audience, while interpersonal communication has strong selectivity to the audience. 7. Mass communication is beneficial for recipients to acquire information and knowledge, and interpersonal communication is beneficial for recipients to change their attitudes and behaviors.
2.2 Identity of interpersonal value
A person's success, 15% depends on professional knowledge, and 85% depends on interpersonal relationship and ability to do things. Communication stems from the awareness of each other's existence. The communication between people occurs because there is a self-expression relationship between people, which is manifested in the attraction of the same kind. As long as there are people, there will be communication and communication. If introverted communication is not included, only the forms of communication between people will be discussed. As long as people are aware of each other's existence, information exchange and communication behavior will occur.
Roadside milestones don't communicate with passers-by, billboards erected on the roadside or the names of restaurants, or slogans inviting pedestrians to stop for dinner, but if someone needs and notices this symbol, they start to communicate with each other.
It is also very important to realize the value of interpersonal communication. Once people begin to communicate with each other when they realize each other's existence, individuals will influence each other through communication. Communication refers to the creation based on our own thoughts. In other words, in communication, we care about other people's reactions. This relationship is sometimes influenced by the distance between people. Therefore, the communication and communication products produced are more prone to errors.
2.3 Communication in the process of interpersonal art.
2.3. 1 Frequently analyze the factors that affect interpersonal relationships.
There are four main factors that affect the intimacy of interpersonal relationships: (1) spatial distance. (2) The frequency of communication between people. (3) Similarity of people's ideas and attitudes. (4) Complementarity of human needs. In addition to the attraction of the four elements, there are several aspects worthy of attention. (5) Whether the quality structure is good. (6) People's personality, morality and temperament are different, which is also an important aspect that affects interpersonal relationships.
2.3.2 The art of adjusting interpersonal relationships should be diversified.
Based on the complexity and subtlety of interpersonal relationship, its adjustment methods should also be varied. There is no panacea that can be applied to people with different qualities and different environments. It varies from person to person to adapt to the mechanism.
Effective communication is a combination of two people's interests. Communication not only requires one party to have a certain motivation to communicate, but also needs it, so that communication is possible. Let's go back to the beginning. Communication begins with realizing the existence of the other party and emphasizes the communication motivation of one party. If one party is not interested in the other, communication will not be effective. In a sense, communication is a process of giving or receiving each other. Because communication takes time and energy.
In the process of communication, I think interpersonal relationship and communication are also very important. The two will influence each other, complement each other and help each other. Good interpersonal relationship and smooth communication. Good communication can also promote the harmony of interpersonal relationships. On the contrary, bad interpersonal relationships increase communication and difficulties. Poor communication leads to bad interpersonal relationship.
3 summary analysis
People who are not good at communication must strengthen interpersonal relationships to make up for their own shortcomings. People with poor interpersonal relationships, in order to improve interpersonal relationships, it is best to cultivate communication skills. In fact, improving one of them will help both. The basic condition of interpersonal communication is to have a sense of existence in your heart that these people are gathered together, and to communicate with everyone with respect. You can't be partial to some people, make others feel left out, and you can't just care about yourself and say whatever you want, because such communication can only be regarded as expressing your own views, and there is no concern for interpersonal factors at all. People who are good at communication must always consider possible interpersonal relationships, so as to avoid inadvertently destroying their interpersonal turmoil and causing bad communication effects.