In the relationship between secretary and leader, interpersonal relationship belongs to the general category of social relations, which means that people perform duties such as consultation, assistance, remuneration and service. Secretarial staff almost always develop and establish interpersonal relationships in the process of material and spiritual communication, and they have to deal with all kinds of people at all levels every day. It embodies the heart-to-heart work between people. Therefore, establishing a good interpersonal relationship between secretaries not only reflects the theoretical distance, but also shows that individuals or groups find a heart to meet their needs, which is an objective need and necessary environment, and also a secret state. When the two sides meet each other's needs in the communication process, it is very important to do a good job as a secretary, maintain this psychological intimacy and meet the quality requirements of clerks. On the contrary, there is a connection. If the party's needs are not met, this relationship will be terminated, because the secretary is directly serving the leadership, and the work is mainly far away or even tense. To provide comprehensive auxiliary services for leaders, therefore, the interpersonal relationship between secretaries and leaders comes from the sociality of human life. Among the interpersonal relationships of secretaries, the relationship between directors is particularly important. For example, Marxism holds that man is the sum of all social relations. How can people correctly handle the relationship with leaders and shorten the psychological distance between them? As soon as they were born, they fell into the network of various social relations. People can't work in harmony and give full play to their compensation function without cooperation. This is a meeting, and it is inseparable from interpersonal communication. Especially in modern society, every secretary should think seriously. ..... It is suggested that China HowNet have papers on the same topic, but downloading is conditional.