When others criticize, we need to learn to accept it with an open mind and make people progress with an open mind. People can't be proud, but always learn with an open mind to gain more knowledge.
Listen to suggestions from all sectors of society with an open mind. As long as they are reasonable suggestions and opinions, people should accept them with an open mind and sincerity. Accepting others' criticism with an open mind means respecting each other's opinions, and only with an open mind can we improve our inner cultivation.
Look at your own shortcomings with an open mind, and whether you are open-minded or not, you can see people's character.
Diligence: refers to work, practice and study. People who work hard are smart people.
Studious students study hard and get excellent grades. Diligence means not being lazy. For example, getting up early is a good student who studies hard in the eyes of others. Hard work can stimulate a person's initiative and creativity. Diligence can reap happiness.
Diligence and persistence are much like this. Diligence will eagerly absorb a wide range of knowledge and nutrition. For example, some people hold up their own sky from wage earners to general managers; Some work hard and eventually become rich and become working stars. Diligence is the only way to gain honor and success.
Diligence and progress can tell a person's character. Diligence is the ladder to success.
Thinking: it is the ability of human brain to operate, thinking to find the way forward.
Students can think independently and have the ability to explore independently. When you encounter a problem, think it over. Think about your life, think about your life.
When there is a problem, learn to think and learn to solve it. Thinking is of great significance to your life. Will mature in thought and sublimate in maturity. Thinking can produce the ability of accurate judgment.
When you meet a simple question, don't ask others in a hurry. It never occurred to you that people would look down on you. A person's wisdom is limited. Only by constantly absorbing reasonable and beneficial elements from other people's opinions to make up for his own shortcomings can he reduce his mistakes and achieve success. Therefore, being good at listening to other people's opinions is a character that every aspirant must have.
There is an idiom that says, "Listening is clear, but listening is dark." As early as the Han Dynasty, Wang Fu said in On the Hidden Husband. Light and shade: "you are famous because you listen;" Everything so black is biased. " The Biography of Wei Zhi in the New Tang Dynasty and Zi Tong Zhi Jian by Sima Guang have similar expressions.
Listen to both, that is, listen to many parties; Its "discerning person" has a vision. Idioms tell us that only by listening to many opinions can we distinguish right from wrong and correctly understand things; If you just listen to one thing, you will be confused and make one-sided mistakes. The reason is that things in the world are complicated, and people are limited by their own knowledge, experience, ideas, self-restraint and other factors, and it is inevitable that they will have insufficient opinions; If a variety of opinions are centralized, integrated, compared and identified, it will naturally be more fair and reasonable to discard the false and retain the true, abandon its fallacies and take its true interpretation.
In history, he was good at listening to Zou Ji's opinions, so that "when Zhao Yan heard it, it was all in Qi"; Emperor Taizong was good at adopting Wei Zhi's advice, so he had the "rule of Zhenguan"; If Liu Bang didn't listen to Xiao He's recommendation, Han Xin couldn't be a general. Why are there Han people? If Zhao She doesn't listen to Xu Li's advice, how can he defeat the plot of night attack, and how can he defeat Chi in leading the troops to resist US aggression and aid Korea?
There are still many people among feudal emperors and generals who understand the importance of "listening to all". Can revolutionaries turn a deaf ear? It is more necessary to listen to the opinions of others and be good at listening to the opinions of the masses. Comrade Mao Zedong is a model who is good at listening to the opinions of the masses. Chairman Mao warned us to go among the masses, "be teachers of the masses and be students of the masses first", encouraged the masses to "know everything and say everything", and taught every cadre to "listen to the opinions of the masses" and "correct what they have, and encourage what they have not". In Yan 'an, Chairman Mao listened to Mr. Li Mingding's advice on streamlining the army and simplifying administration, and achieved excellent results.
Listen to other people's opinions more, and also prevent the bad habit of abandoning words because of others. Don't listen to others because of their humble status or lower education level. As the saying goes, even smart people may make mistakes. A fool may give advice to a wise man. Mountains have their own lofty mountains, and stones have their own unique exquisiteness, which complement each other and achieve beauty.
When Chen Jingrun was a teacher in an ordinary middle school, he made some suggestions on the mistakes in the academic paper "Overlapping Prime Numbers" by the famous mathematician Hua. Hua was very happy to hear that. At an academic conference in Beijing, he read out the original text of this letter in public and suggested that the General Assembly invite Chen Jingrun to attend the academic conference. It can be seen that even well-educated experts will inevitably make mistakes; Even if you are a little-known epigenetic, there may be someone in his later years. Therefore, rivers and seas do not hesitate to drop, and mountains do not refuse fine stones. Listen to other people's opinions, whether morally or academically, you will benefit a lot. Reformers should listen to different opinions calmly, do not label others easily, and do not engage in ideological barrier lakes!
(1) The socialist reform is the first time in the history of China, the first time in the history of proletarian revolution in China and the first time in the history of international proletarian revolution.
For the first time, you may make some mistakes, pay tuition fees, others make some suggestions and make some complaints. This is a very normal thing. You made a mistake, did something wrong, and others won't even say a few words? Reformers should have this mind and let others speak their minds.
Deng Xiaoping
(2) Looking back on the reform and opening up in the past 30 years, there are indeed many things to reflect on.
Reflect on what? Is what Deng Xiaoping called "+if". Deng Xiaoping is the chief architect of the reform. If he is right, then why do other China people think that they have ulterior motives and oppose reform? Only by correcting mistakes can we persist in being correct. Therefore, if we want to carry out reform, I am afraid we must use reform methods to dispel the doubts of reformers!
(3) To study the 30-year reform, we must answer three questions with a realistic attitude:
All the measures implemented by the reformers show that the ass of the authorities is always on the people's side. The root of Menglian incident lies in whether the rubber contract protects the interests of rubber farmers or capitalists. Are government workers and police involved in protecting the interests of rubber farmers? I'm afraid whether all the reform measures are correct or not, we must first check our ass.
Second, in the process of implementing reform measures, whether the reformers take serving the people wholeheartedly as their behavioral purpose. This is the essence of the Shanghai Yangjia incident. Yang Jia viciously killed six policemen, wounded five others and sentenced Yang Jia to death. No one sympathizes with Yang Jia. People are worried that Yang Jia is crazy. Where does hatred come from? Yang Jia was not born against the police. Yang Jia's cruelty today must have his reasons. It is entirely justified for people to ask reformers to reflect on this issue. How can it be called "anti-police" or "anti-reform"?