In my life, there are three kinds of people: those who value me, those who despise me and those who despise me.

I should thank those who value me.

It is they who have built up my confidence, strengthened my faith, and kept me on the right path. When I am in the spring breeze, a timely compliment can add a hundredfold enthusiasm to me; When I am frustrated, a timely advice will make my mind strongly shocked and my impetuous heart calm down again. I sincerely thank them, those who value me.

I also want to thank those who despise me.

They let me know myself like the back of my hand, and let me know that I still have shortcomings and dissatisfaction. They criticized me, laughed at me, abandoned me, whether well-intentioned or malicious, whipped me again and again like a whip, urging me to redouble my efforts and push forward desperately-although it would be painful, every spur accelerated my progress. No matter how they treat me, I will still sincerely thank them-those who despise me with a normal heart.

I should still thank those who despise me.

They neither denigrate me nor praise me. They ignored my existence, but gave me room for free development. If I am unwilling to be lonely and want to attract their attention, then I will achieve superhuman results. I know I'm just an ordinary person in this world. If I want to achieve superhuman achievements, I must make superhuman efforts. What they give me is invisible pressure, which will turn into motivation and push me forward. I sincerely thank those who despise me.

I thank everyone around me. Because everyone is urging me to keep going, going, going!

2. Persistence in loneliness

I admire gathering Tibetans. For more than a decade or even decades, I have given up all kinds of worldly pleasures, sacrificed my colorful spare time, spent a lot of time, money and energy, tried my best, kept on laughing and cynicism of others silently, explored secluded places with religious piety and persistence, searched for things, searched for gold in the sand, collected arms, and every little makes a mickle.

Successful routing is paved by loneliness. Success is not a louse on lazy people, you can touch it as soon as you reach out; Success is the ganoderma lucidum on the cliff, and only brave people who are not afraid of difficulties can pick it. Unless you are extremely smart and lucky, if you want to be outstanding, you must think more, do more, prepare more, take one more step and stick to it for a while; Sweat more, suffer more, and taste more loneliness.

Success is a long marathon, not a short sprint of more than ten seconds. There are too many hardships and reasons to give up, and too many temptations will dilute passion and ideals. Patience in doing small things and confidence in achieving great things are essential qualities for successful people. A person is on a tall building, looking at the end of the world, lighting at five o'clock in the middle of the night, insisting on the castle peak and not relaxing, spending all other people's time drinking coffee on their careers, sticking to their beliefs in the light of squandering flowers and getting charming eyes, materialistic, impetuous and not lost. Plain but not mediocre, ordinary and calm, thinking, pursuing and creating in loneliness and loneliness, far-sighted, a candle in the hole is dim. Because they understand that once the lively firecrackers ring, all that remains is scraps of paper.

Success comes from persistence and perseverance to create miracles. It is not that successful people don't know how to enjoy life. They just don't want worldly comforts to slow down their progress. They just don't want to watch their youth and passion burn to ashes like burning cigarettes in welcoming guests, chatting and banquets. So they took up their lonely bags and traveled quietly under the bright moon in their hearts until they reached a distant place that others could not see. With their lonely backs, they showed what it is to really walk with cows.

If you can be busy, you can get people to have nothing to do.

Loneliness is a kind of implicit beauty.

Being alone is often considered lonely and introverted, but it is not. Solitude itself is also a kind of beauty. It is a kind of relaxed, implicit and quiet beauty, which is different from loneliness and melancholy.

When you are alone, you can think about everything or nothing; You can recall the past and look forward to the future; You can read books; Or lie in bed, close your eyes and stay in your own world: a cup of light tea, let the soothing and soft, crystal clear melody overflow your heart, without any emotional color or disguise, let your mood fly, be yourself once, and then smile sweetly. ...

On a quiet day, a person watches the sunrise and the fallen leaves with a digital camera. With the elegant music of "mp3" stepping into the lawn by the river, you can enjoy a beautiful song, let the trickle quietly flow with brilliant notes ... and enjoy this happy and wonderful moment. What could be more memorable than this?

On the moonlit night, wisps of silver are touching your eyes through the window lattice, tempting you to stir and making you toss and turn, and you can't sleep for a long time. At this time, why don't you get up and walk out of the house, look up at the bright sky, the jade rabbit is in the sky, the moon is thousands of miles away, and the night wind is blowing on your cheek. Wandering in the bright moonlight, enjoying this infinite moment. Do you like the faint moonlight? ......

Many people have been looking for a peach circle in the world. As for me, I am also using my enthusiasm; My delicious food; My simplicity; My fantasy, accept it, appreciate it, describe it ... enjoy the peace.

True solitude is a state, not that there is no one outside, but that even in a busy city, you can get a quiet mind. "No indifference, no ambition; If you are not quiet, there is no distance. "

Because solitude itself is a subtle beauty.

Loneliness is like the fragrance of Gu Mo.

Loneliness is different from being alone. Fishermen fish quietly by the sea, hunters and drug farmers hunt and collect herbs in the deep mountains, and farmers transplant rice seedlings in the fields. Although there is no companion, it is not lonely. Loneliness is that a person has to leave the lifestyle of most people, work hard for a goal, and lock himself up. For example, students before the college entrance examination, as well as scientists and seekers from all walks of life.

A gentleman's journey is quiet to cultivate one's morality, and frugal to cultivate one's morality. Loneliness is not ignorance of entertainment and leisure, nor inability to enjoy it. Loneliness is like drinking a cup of tea alone during sex and meditating on your heart where you enjoy a good song. Lonely people are practitioners who are willing to be poor.

The pavilion is loose on the mountain and caressed in the valley. Loneliness is the cultivation of one's mind. The heart is more lively than the limbs, the mind can't stop, and the desire can't calm down, so it is called "the spirit in the heart." To cultivate one's mind is to calm down and concentrate on one place and ask for nothing else. It's hard. The hardest thing in the world is a person's heart. If you control your heart, you control your eyes, ears, nose, tongue and body. Generally speaking, there is nothing wrong with pleasure. If pleasure is not allowed, there is no need for human beings to build a beautiful home. Anyone who scolds pleasure is either a hypocrite or a fox who can't eat grapes. But time won't leave leisure for people who are interested in their careers, so they are lonely. The opportunity cost in economics is only used here. Unhappy doesn't mean unhappy, but the cost is too high to control your heart. That kind of taste is called loneliness.

Don't be too far away from the ends of the earth, but be willing to throw a whip. Lonely people will not succeed because of loneliness, just as an alchemist may not be able to make real gold, and fishermen may not be able to catch koi fish. Anything meaningful coexists with risk. No matter how hard you work, no matter how tenacious you are, no matter how hard you work, you may not get the corresponding reward. But success must be inseparable from diligence, perseverance and hard work, and there is loneliness with you.

Wealth will change a person, opportunity will change a person, and loneliness will also change a person. Loneliness can change personality, not make people feel weak or timid, but make people calm, awake and patient. Not to mention success or not, a person with calm and patient personality is a great gain. Better than real money. When you are lonely, you don't have to complain, and you don't have to complain. You'd better accept it quietly Yes, loneliness is also exercise, although loneliness is silent. If loneliness is an ingot of ink, it must be Gu Mo, which contains the essence of pine smoke and clear water. It is smooth and quiet, and reveals an indescribable fragrance.

Step 5 sign innocently

Naive, originally refers to simple-hearted, straightforward, unpretentious, unpretentious, but once upon a time, it became synonymous with innocence and was despised by smart people. Naive people often encounter secular eyes and coldness. I often suffer so many losses, big and small. Naive people may live a dull and obscure life, but they can do things in a down-to-earth manner and be upright, not trapped by fame or lured by profit. Naive people have no embarrassment after the lie is exposed, no ugliness after the mask is removed, no regret after the incident, only endless loneliness of money; Naive people are contemptible without hypocrisy, terrible without talent, and hateful without duplicity. Naive people, some just look at the clouds and clouds, watching the flowers bloom and fall calmly, freely, quietly, fully and happily. Naive people, though ordinary, are real; Although busy, but very full; Although poor, it is simple.

At the beginning of life, human nature is good. Innocence is the most beautiful character endowed by God. However, with the continuous growth of age and the increasingly rich life experience, people have produced many new understandings, new ideas, new understandings, new calculations and new strategies about people, things, things and scenery. Therefore, they gradually forget innocence, abandon innocence, and become more and more sophisticated, sophisticated and calculating. As a result, the generation gap appeared, the gap appeared, the contradictions intensified and the struggle began. Even for a little petty gain, a false name, cleverly set up organs, secretly set traps, intrigue, deceive the world and steal names, and seek personal gain. Everyone should defend his heart from time to time and everywhere. "They only say three words to everyone" and often feel insincere. They have to wear masks and do things without conscience.

Actually, it's not necessary We should keep a naive, childlike innocence, frankness, innocence, truthfulness and seriousness, work hard, hold our heads high, open our hearts, drink the rain and dew of family, bathe in the sunshine of friendship, welcome the breeze of love, embrace everything with a broad and inclusive heart, and extend the innocent flowering period to every spring, summer, autumn and winter of life.

Sign a contract with innocence, praise and criticize your own spring and autumn.

Sign a contract with innocence, you can have a happy, happy and chic life, please believe it.

Shake off fatigue and sleepiness, get out of the shadow and barriers of the world, and sign a contract with innocence decisively!

6. "Be an excellent gyro"

Most of my friends when I was a child could make gyroscopes. So we often organize gyro competitions spontaneously. There is no special prize. Whoever can spin at any time without whipping and spin for the longest time is recognized as the best gyro. Being able to evaluate is the highest reward.

That is, from that time on, I understood that only those gyroscopes that can keep rotating with a light whip are the best gyroscopes.

I don't know when it started, but life suddenly became busy. Busy every time. Life is running at a high speed and life is busy. This busy life suddenly reminds me of the gyro I played when I was a child. Come to think of it, we are constantly busy, which is not much different from a high-speed spinning gyro.

The gyro keeps turning, which is not determined by the gyro. We are very busy, which is not up to us. Nobody likes to be busy, but they have to be busy. Busy is actually a normal life. When you are young, you should be busy reading, playing games and building colorful fantasies. As an adult, I am busy working and saving money. After getting married and starting a family, you should be busy having children, building a house and buying a house, and taking care of your life. After the establishment, we should be busy struggling, busy socializing and busy socializing. Even at retirement age, you should be busy looking after your children and grandchildren, taking care of flowers and plants, and keeping fit. Life is always busy and nothing is busy, and few people can get rid of it. This fatalistic busyness makes us have to keep spinning like a top, and keep spinning and being whipped by life. The busy day is over, and then rises with the sun, which is another busy day.

So, we complain about being busy, we are tired of being busy, we hate being busy, and we even avoid being busy.

However, whether we really calm down and think about it carefully is actually the busyness that no one likes, which enriches our lives and enriches our lives.

Because the years are busy, there are spring and autumn alternating, and there are new fabrics. Because the season is busy, there are spring crops and autumn harvests, full ears of wheat and fragrant rice. Businessmen are very busy, but they are rich in money; The market is prosperous because it is busy.

Busy land is never barren land; Busy birds are birds that will never go hungry; A busy machine is a normal working machine; Busy thoughts are the most energetic thoughts.

The most prosperous place is also the most dynamic place; The busiest industry is also the industry with the most potential and hope.

Only those discarded things are idle. There is an 89-year-old woman in the United States who won the swimming championship for three consecutive times in Evergreen Group. When the reporter asked her what was the secret of a long and healthy life, the old woman smiled and said, "Let life go forward and exercise like swimming." Then she said, "Don't stay there all the time, or you will sink!" " "

We should embrace the busyness that life has given us with gratitude, because every busy day is extremely rich and dense.

Again: Only those gyroscopes that can keep rotating with a light whip and rotate for the longest time are the best gyroscopes.

8. Enjoy the pain

Pain is a person's shadow, faithfully accompanying a person's life.

Men have men's pain, women have women's pain, children have children's pain, and old people have old people's pain. Ordinary people have pain, big-name stars have pain, and the emperor will have pain. Poverty and poverty, hunger and cold are pain; Being rejected and unsuccessful is painful; The danger of life and death, falling into despair is pain. A person may have nothing, but it is not without pain.

This kind of pain is as strong as the sky were to fall and as weak as Sanskrit. The pain is as big as the vast universe and as small as raindrops. Facing the pain, different people have different attitudes. Some people take the attitude of rejection, backlog and compromise, and the pain may turn into a demon and devour fresh life; Some people use the methods of absorption, decomposition and transformation, and use the alchemy of spirit to put the injured soul in the eggshell transformed by pain and hatch new life.

Pain is a hotbed of success. The creator often endows humble bodies with noble souls, puts their favorites among inferior people, lets them run humble jobs, keeps them away from money, power and honor, and lets them survive in pain. Meng Ziri: "Therefore, the sky will fall on the Sri Lankan people, so we must first suffer their minds, their bones and muscles, starve their skins, empty their bodies, and mess with their actions. Therefore, we should be patient and have benefited from their incompetence." Pain makes people stand out in a meaningful and valuable field.

Pain is the root of wisdom. The depth of a person's mind is directly proportional to the degree of pain he endures. When God gives you pain, he is measuring the depth of your heart. The hoe of pain digs your heart, leaving a deep hoe in your heart and sowing the seeds of wisdom in the hoe in your heart. Looking at life itself in pain, the buds of youth are sprouting from the depths of scars, and your flowers of wisdom will surely bloom proudly.

Literature is the bitter fruit of life. Whoever has been an unfortunate person in life has the conditions to become a lucky one in literature; Whoever lets the bitter water of life soak repeatedly may become a blessing of light and joy. Life robs you at will and gives you literary talent. Li Sao, Zhuangzi, Historical Records, Caotang Poetry and Li Houzhu Ci are all products of pain. Faulkner, an American writer who won the Nobel Prize in Literature, brought people into pain and pulled people's spirit out of suffering. Faulkner used the characters he could convey to make sounds from all corners to save mankind. He found an indestructible spirit in too many deep survival misfortunes, which is the other shore he has been looking for all his life. He told readers that no matter how you are trapped at the bottom, your spirit should be supported so that you may not fall down. What Faulkner wants is not the quality of life, but the power of life. Pain contains steel, and the soul placed on pain must be tenacious life. The hardest thing is not the material, but the spirit, which is stronger than the sword.

Since ancient times, people with lofty ideals have always been concerned about the country and the people. Since Qu Yuan, intellectuals in China have been "mourning for people's livelihood". Russell outside China also said: Three simple but extremely strong passions dominated his life. It is the desire for love, the desire for knowledge, and sincere pity for human suffering. Love and knowledge brought him to heaven, but pity brought him back to earth. The cries of pain echoed around the world. He felt pain because he didn't help mankind.

Pain enriches the life of every emotion and thought. Without pain, life will lose all its luster, not to mention happiness. When the pain strikes, don't refuse, don't be afraid, just learn from the pearl shell and bite the pain tightly, and you will turn it into a beautiful pearl. Pain is a sacred human sport.