Let nature take its course and wait and see, life is not smooth sailing; Happy-go-lucky, a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. Let it be, you see, when the water is flowing, it doesn't choose the road, but the trees are swaying in the wind. They all know the truth of letting it be, so they are happy. Don't people understand? Of course not. The heart of comparison and jealousy, like two sticks, stir in people's hearts, making it difficult to find inner peace. Actually, why bother No matter how beautiful things are, the result is the same-good or bad, high or low, beautiful or ugly, big or small, and there is no difference in feeling. There are a lot of things, even if you do your best, it still doesn't help, just let yourself. Enjoy the comfort in the process of struggle, that is happiness and happiness. This process is a situation, an irresistible objective reality, and you can only let nature take its course. Of course, happy-go-lucky is not passive waiting, happy-go-lucky is not at the mercy of fate, more precisely, happy-go-lucky is to seek the balance of life. Who can reach this state, whose life is beautiful, whose life has quality. There are many things in life that are not good for us. As the saying goes, "Nine times out of ten things will go wrong", we rarely really feel that our life is smooth and open, so we have to admit that life is beyond our personal control! In the complicated and changeable environment, the only way to make us feel uncomfortable is to let ourselves "go with the flow". To tell the truth, I have always wanted to be a person who knows how to take things as they are, and I also warned my friends that my son should know how to enjoy what he has now and cherish the new, instead of blindly pursuing what does not belong to him.
Happy-go-lucky is a state of being a man. Ding Ling, a famous late writer, once said that when she was classified as a rightist, she worked in the Great Northern Wilderness and was "resigned". "Encounter" is of course an unfavorable situation, and "safety" is also a last resort. What if she is not "safe"? In that case, why not let go? As Beijingers say, "self-deception". Of course, this is not completely self-deception. Life is interesting. If a person can keep a happy mood no matter what happens, it will be more blessed than having a million dollars!