There are many similar examples in life, but there are also many self-pitying. Being a reader is the most obvious here. "Desperate literati" is often interpreted by such people: "I have wisdom, but I was born at the wrong time and my fate is not good. I am experiencing the blow of suffering and love. " I sigh and want to change the reality. Therefore, for such a person, without self, success will often be farther and farther away from him! For an individual's life, everyone is the shaper of his own life destiny, and the result of relying on others will eventually be his own collapse. The vines under the towering old trees will come to an end without the support of the big trees.