It's not easy to live alone all your life. The seemingly smooth journey of life is full of thorns, which often makes people miserable. Pain is like a strong wind to a humble house, a huge wave to a lonely boat. Endless vicissitudes of life, I do not know how many narrow-minded people have been devastated by setbacks and magnified the pain; The world has lived for thousands of years, and I don't know how many weak-willed people are depressed because of setbacks and pains. I don't know how many cowardly people died in the abyss of perdition because of setbacks ... In the face of setbacks, don't magnify the pain, but face life squarely and reduce the pain until the day of success.

"hale and hearty, would rather move the heart of a hoary head? If you are poor, you will think about it, and you will not lose your ambition. " Wang Bo, one of the four outstanding figures in the early Tang Dynasty, was "troubled". However, in the face of setbacks, he can understand life and smile at it. Imagine, without Wang Bo's broad-minded mind, how can you sing the eternal swan song "However, China keeps our friendship, and heaven is still our neighbor"?

"Oh, how can I bow and scrape to those who have high status and high positions? They will never tolerate others showing them a sincere face. " Poet Li Bai, was he silent after his career was not smooth? Are you depressed? No. Laughing hurts, "Chang 'an went to a restaurant to sleep"; In the face of setbacks, he left and traveled all over the world, finally achieving his eternal romantic feelings!

In the face of setbacks, don't indulge in the shadow of pain and setbacks; In the face of setbacks, don't immerse yourself in the quagmire of sadness and pain all day; In the face of setbacks, don't be decadent for a long time and lose your immediate direction. It is a wise choice to meet setbacks and reduce pain.

After experiencing the pain of losing her daughter, Zhou wrote a documentary literature in memory of her dead daughter: Niu Niu: A Father's Note. From this literary work itself, it is not difficult for us to realize that he has always remained silent, revealing the author's love and sorrow for his adopted daughter, as well as his heart-wrenching suffering in the shadow of death. But Zhou's spirit of facing up to suffering and defining it as "ordinary suffering" is really admirable.

However, in the face of the frustration of losing his second brother, Liu Bei couldn't let go of his brother's feelings and amplified his pain. As a result, he made a wrong decision in pain and rushed to send troops to attack Wu, which led to the eternal tragedy "Bai Di entrusted an orphan". Pathetic! Pathetic!

The ancients set too many examples for us and left too many regrets. In the modern society with increasingly fierce competition, setbacks are everywhere. If you magnify the pain because of a temporary setback, you will regret it all your life. When you encounter setbacks, treat it as a breeze and let it blow gently from your ear; When you encounter setbacks, treat them as insignificant small waves, and don't let them set off stormy waves in your heart; When encountering setbacks, treat pain as a dust in your eyes. Blink your eyes and shed a tear, which is enough to drown it.

When encountering setbacks, don't magnify the pain. Wipe the sweat from your forehead, wipe the tears from your eyes and move on! I believe that one day you will see blue sky, white clouds and green grass, and there will be a sweet smile on your mouth. ...