I heard that there is such a little story:
A 22-year-old junior, many people asked him why he didn't fall in love. ...
He said: when I was a student, everyone around me was about the same age, so my values were similar. They all want to have a good job and a good lover in the future. Just because their ideals are similar, two people will be very happy together and it is easy to get together. As for whether love will affect learning, there are both positive and negative effects, which vary from person to person.
However, after graduation, due to the needs of work or postgraduate entrance examination, two people must be separated for a long time. Even if you swore before breaking up, there will be few opportunities to meet again. Don't say you will insist on love. You can't make yourself better by being distracted under the pressure of your career. When your career is at a low ebb, people who help you will often make you feel grateful, and you will find that this person is the most important person in your life. And the person you loved hated you from the beginning of love, but you lost a good friend. Therefore, if someone wants to associate with you now, it is estimated that they are also people who have taken a fancy to the immediate interests and have not taken a long-term view. After all, falling in love costs more or less, and money is the living expenses given by parents. You can't make money yet, and you don't have your own business. Why can you spend money indiscriminately? In a sense, your parents are helping you fall in love, and you don't rely on your own strength to pursue what you love. If you associate with such a person, if you are an enterprising person, you will break up sooner or later; If you are not an ambitious person, she will break up with you sooner or later. Because social competition is cruel, not making progress means being eliminated.
Lovers don't look for each other because they can temporarily change themselves to attract you before they fully understand each other, and once you fully understand each other, breaking up is just around the corner. Therefore, love should be a long-term love, and naturally come together after knowing each other very well, even if there is no confession. Don't compromise easily because the other person is nice. Being kind to people is not the whole of love. You must plan for the future of love.
If you meet a girl you love deeply and you think she likes you, most people will start dating directly. The consequence of this is the above, and finally lose a relative. You should care about her as a friend, keep in touch after graduation and work hard for her. Go to her after you have achieved something in your career. If she is still waiting for you at this time, then you are right, and you are wrong about someone. Girl, if a boy likes you soon, he will like others soon. If love comes late, it won't leave too early. We don't need to grow up through lovelorn, we should use other people's lovelorn experiences to grow up.
Love in school is ignorant, love in society may have a purpose, and love that continues despite adversity is eternal. Love is not being with a person who suits you best, but being able to keep your promise to the person you love when you meet a person who suits you better. Love is not looking at each other, but looking in the same direction.
Online "Love you and do these things for you" looks very touching, because most people are not in this kind of love. Love is not a trend, you should have your own opinion. When your ideal lover doesn't appear, you should have the perseverance to choose to be single instead of looking for a substitute. When you do this, those things uploaded online are very basic in your love.
Boys, when you are in love, don't break up with the idea that it is inappropriate. You must think carefully that your girlfriend is your future wife. Marriage is just another useless piece of paper. Marriage is not the lock of love. True love never needs any bondage. Once you choose to fall in love, you must have a sense of responsibility. You are responsible for your parents' son, your wife's husband and the father of your future child!
There is nothing wrong with being single. You can also care about the person you like and make the public think that you are a good friend. And people in love, caring about others will lead to jealousy. From the perspective of love, they are not loyal enough to love, but if you don't care about others, you will lose a lot of friendship. Once you break up, you lose your wife and your soldier. So being single now doesn't mean that you don't yearn for love, but that you are infatuated with her in the future.
An excellent person's singleness means that this person is excellent enough, and an excellent person's puppy love means that this person's Excellence is only superficial. What you really want from each other is to care about each other silently. The best promise is not to love you for ten thousand years, but to have no promise at all.