Empathy composition 1 Everyone has different ideas, and everyone thinks from different angles. This has also caused many unnecessary misunderstandings. Sometimes, do we try to put ourselves in others' shoes?
Empathy and effective communication are indispensable. First of all, we should learn how to get along with others. If we communicate well, we can get to the crux of the problem and find its root.
When solving problems, such as quarreling with my parents, I always find myself right. For example, when discussing with my classmates, I always think that others are wrong and I am right. Actually, we just lack communication.
When we don't understand others and have conflicts with others, we should learn to put ourselves in others' shoes and understand what they are for, what they think and what is the significance. This will make us more calm and rational.
Do to others what you don't want others to do to you' is a sentence in the Analects of Confucius. It contains the meaning; Don't impose what you like on others, treat others with equality, respect and friendliness, and think about how to treat others. If you are the other party, are you willing to be treated like this? If not, then we can't treat others like this.
We all have misunderstandings. If we put it in our hearts, we will have a knot in our hearts. If we can understand each other's inner world deeply, we may be able to reach an understanding.
The essence of empathy is to pay close attention to the communication object. It is both an understanding and a concern. More appreciation means more understanding, more friendliness means more love. Therefore, empathy, understanding first and being kind to others are indispensable in our lives.
Empathy Composition 2 Napoleon Hill is a world-famous inspirational success master. One year, he needed to hire a secretary, so he advertised in several newspapers. As a result, the application letter flew like a snowflake. But most of these letters are the same. For example, the first sentence is similar: I saw your advertisement for a secretary in the newspaper, and I hope to get this position. I am XX years old and graduated from XX school. If I can be selected by you, I will work hard. ...
Napoleon Hill was very disappointed. When he was considering whether to give up the recruitment plan, a letter arrived late, which surprised Napoleon Hill and determined that the secretary must be the girl who wrote the letter.
The girl's letter reads like this: "Dear Sir, your advertisement will definitely attract hundreds of applications. I believe that your work must be very busy, and you simply don't have enough time to read it carefully. So, you just need to dial this number gently ... I'll be happy to help you organize your letters, which will save you precious time. You don't have to doubt my work ability and quality, because I have 15 years of secretarial work experience ... "
Later, Napoleon Hill said: "If you know how to put yourself in others' shoes, you can really look at and consider problems from others' standpoint, and you can really help others solve problems. The world is yours. "
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The same cover letter, if you can write an innovative letter that makes recruiters shine, you will naturally win their favor more easily. Too many job seekers care too much about external packaging and make their resumes gorgeous, but fail to think from the perspective of recruiters: helping them solve practical problems is what they need most. Don't take the usual road and look at the problem from the other side's point of view. By doing so, you will succeed faster.
Empathy composition 3 Empathy will make us understand many things that we can't figure out. Looking at many things from different angles will have different results and different views.
From pessimist to optimist.
Pessimists believe that if you fall, you can't get up. Better not get up. On the other hand, an optimist still looks forward, and nothing can stop him. I once met a man. He is a pilot. In eight years, I had four accidents and six operations. However, five years later, I still fly to the blue sky with the joystick in my hand. Do you want to know why? Because he had a belief in his heart that he would fly to the sky again anyway, but he got his wish and realized it.
Friend, if you have difficulties, please look at the problem from another angle!
Look at the optimist's thoughts from the pessimist's point of view.
Imagine: a person, from a beautiful morning, the alarm clock rings. Now stop, stop, stop thinking. Pessimists will think like this: Oh! God, it's morning again, and then turn off the alarm clock in a discordant way. At this time, he may touch his toes when he gets up, or pour his toothbrush into the toilet. This will be a vicious circle. Let's take a look at the optimist's morning. He will treat everything with a happy mood, because he knows that a good start can affect his day, and it is true. He may receive delicious afternoon tea or beautiful wishes. ...
My friend, the same day. Two kinds of beginnings, two kinds of situations, which do you want to choose?
Remember, every thought you have is affecting your life. Choose one that helps you. Come on! Friend, go and start your happy day!
Not long ago, I saw a news on the Internet: In order to make huge profits, people inserted catheters into many wild female bears to get bile. This level is more than 20 years. Make the mother bear miserable. Later, mother bear gave birth to a little bear. In order not to let her child suffer the same pain as her, she killed the child herself.
What does this mean? The maternal love of animals is equally great. Animals can love their children in this special way. Maternal love has no boundaries, and animals also have great maternal love. Our human mother washes and cooks for us, so she takes good care of us ... Mother Bear can kill her children without making them suffer ... This is actually a kind of love, a great maternal love.
At the same time, this incident also shows that human beings are ruthless in seeking huge profits. This is also worthy of our consideration. I think humans just use animals as a tool to make money. For money, humans don't mind destroying happy animal families. They will take everything that can be exchanged for money: ivory, leopard skin, antlers, tiger bones and all kinds of wild animals are put on the table ... human beings put all their satisfaction on the pain of animals. This kind of behavior is selfish and undesirable. Will slowly destroy the ecological balance, the world will lose its vitality ... if there is only one creature left in this world, will you be satisfied?
Which is more important, animals killed by humans or money? Wealth can always be owned. Once animals are extinct, they will never come back.
I watched the news and I can't forget it for a long time. ...
Empathy composition 5 In life, when we don't know whether what we are doing is right or wrong, we should learn to put ourselves in the other's shoes. Not long ago, something happened at home that made me very angry: on my birthday, my father and grandmother quarreled over something.
At noon that day, we were going to eat hot pot. Everyone found grandma didn't come up. Dad was very angry and said, "It's always like this! We need her for dinner! " After a while, grandma came up. Dad said to grandma in a rude tone, "You always do this. What did you do? " Grandma said quietly, "I'll cut clothes." "I can't wait to smash your sewing machine every time I cut clothes!" Dad is nagging again. This time, grandma was angry. As soon as she struck the table, she said, "If you break my sewing machine, I'm dead!" " ""you love it! " Dad said without concession. After listening to their speeches, I was sad and cried, and then I hid in the room. After a while, I was persuaded by my grandfather.
When I got back to my seat, I cried and said to my father, "You, don't talk about grandma yet. I can't help calling you at ordinary times, and more than once! " Dad listened to me and couldn't say anything.
It seems that everyone should learn to put themselves in other's shoes! A small matter, think about whether you are wrong or others are wrong. If you do something wrong, you must change it; If others do something wrong, help them understand.
Empathy Composition 6 In real life, if everyone can learn empathy, quarrels and frictions will be reduced.
People who can put themselves in other people's shoes can think from other people's point of view, starting from other people's position, rather than just considering their own interests. Put yourself in the other's shoes, you can understand the difficulties of others, and quarrels will naturally decrease. However, in life, there are very few people who can really put themselves in each other's shoes. Learning to put yourself in the other's shoes requires us to remain calm when we encounter something. As the saying goes, impulse is the devil, and people's wrong actions and decisions are often made under impulse. After we calm down, we will analyze the problem. We should start from ourselves, find the root of the problem, and see our own mistakes and faults first, instead of looking at others critically. Secondly, we should imagine from the perspective of others how we would deal with this problem if we were on the other side. At this time, you will find that you may not even have the ability and fairness to deal with problems. Sometimes when two people quarrel, their roles are reversed, and then what they just quarreled is interpreted again, so both of them will think what they just did is ridiculous. This is the charm of empathy.
Learning empathy can not only help us reduce quarrels and frictions with others, but also make us more tolerant. People who can do great things are broad-minded and tolerant. Therefore, if we want to succeed, the first step is to learn to put ourselves in others' shoes. Only those who can feel others' difficulties can achieve great things!
Empathy Composition 7 This composition is mainly about a special kind of "empathy". I'm sure everyone knows what empathy is, but I don't know what happened to Uncle Scott. Now, let me solve this problem for you.
Empathy with water
If I were water, I would cry loudly for those salty and fresh water creatures who died because of wastewater pollution.
If I were water, I would speak loudly, because sewage polluted my white and pure face.
If I were water, I would stand up and warn people not to use floods to discharge waste water.
Second, "empathy" with animals
If I were an extinct creature, I would educate mankind. Why don't we cherish it when we are prosperous and regret it after extinction?
If I were an endangered species, I would angrily ask human beings, did you consider us when you destroyed the ecological environment?
If I were a vibrant creature, I would think with fear that mankind is still being destroyed and we are about to leave this world.
Third, "empathy" with plants
If I were a big tree, I would think with sadness and a little anger, but what we do to shelter human beings from the wind and rain is destroying the environment, alas.
If I were a little flower, I would say angrily that I have made a lot of contributions to mankind. They not only don't thank me, but also pollute my beautiful body, hum.
If I were a crop, I would say loudly and angrily that you have polluted the air and prevented us from growing normally. We didn't say anything, and you called the food stale. Think about yourself.
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You should all know what special "empathy" means. If we all ask ourselves this question, will the above things happen again?
Empathy Composition 8 Sometimes in life, you have to put yourself in the other person's shoes. If you do this often, you will find it very meaningful. ...
In the hot summer, a takeaway brother continued to deliver takeout as usual. Alas! The weather in summer is like a child's face. It changes when you say it. When I went out, it suddenly rained cats and dogs, but the customer asked for it to be delivered within half an hour, so my little brother had no choice but to put on his raincoat. ...
Facing the wind and braving the rain, the takeaway brother suddenly found an old man crossing the road when crossing the zebra crossing at the intersection. Little brother came to an emergency stop quickly. Because of the inertia, the little brother smiled and watched the takeaway fly out like a bullet. It was really a rainy night! This single takeaway can't be delivered to the customer on time, and his salary will be ruined ... Turning to look at the old man who is faltering without wearing a raincoat, the little brother took off his raincoat and put it on the old man to help him cross the road. Then, pick up the half-spilled takeaway. ...
Maybe my brother's behavior touched the sky. At this moment, the rain stopped! My little brother was soaked in the rain. Thinking of this order, he made a phone call with a feeling of anxiety: "Sir, I'm sorry ... I knocked over your takeaway order to avoid an old man crossing the street in the rain when crossing the zebra crossing ..." To his surprise, a caring voice came from the other end of the phone: "Oh! I see. Forget it, I know this business is not easy for you. If you knock over the takeaway, you will be deducted. I can understand, it doesn't matter, I will just order another one! " My little brother's mood at this time suddenly became as relaxed as the sun. ...
Empathy, empathy, can make troubles disappear and gain infinite happiness. ...
Empathy composition 9 "Little Shark" is what everyone calls my deskmate Wang.
He is tall and thin, as if a gust of wind could blow him away. If you think so, you are all wet. "Little Shark" looks thin, but he is a sunny boy who loves sports. He not only loves sports, but also loves reading and is rich in knowledge. More importantly, he is a boy with delicate feelings and especially likes small animals.
We have been playing together since the first grade, and it has been four years. The most impressive time was catching geckos.
"Little Shark" said that he loves to catch geckos. Since the first grade, we have been looking for the hiding place of gecko together, but we have found nothing. After a long time, we searched every corner of the teaching building and all the tree holes in the school, and finally found the place where the gecko might stay on a stone wall.
Then, almost every time we go to physical education class, we will take a twig and poke a crack in it. We also made many traps on that wall, and we tried our best to find one. He insisted on releasing the gecko. I was very angry, so I asked him why he released the gecko we worked so hard to find in an autumn. What he said at that time impressed me deeply. "Every creature has its own way of life. If we don't let it spontaneously ignite, it will. " To my surprise, we just want to have fun. I didn't expect my deskmate to think from the perspective of small animals.
Your deskmate is a good friend worth learning.
Empathy composition 10 Today, several students in our class were seen by the teacher, who asked them to copy one more text. A classmate made a mistake in basic training and the teacher asked him to copy the text. Students are like frightened birds, nervous, and no one dares to take it lightly.
When I got home, I said to my mother, "Today is really bad. My classmate only made a little mistake, but he was severely punished. " I told the whole story to my mother today. Mother asked, "If you were a teacher, what would you do?" I said, "I think what I said in class should be criticized. If I do something wrong, I should correct it five times. " Mother said, "If so, I dare to talk nonsense in class and do my homework so-so." After this incident, I understand that sometimes teachers seem to punish students with heavier punishment in order to make them have a deeper impression on their mistakes. The purpose is to warn students that as long as they make subjective efforts, they can avoid some small mistakes; Second, the next time you encounter a similar situation, you should be vigilant and avoid making mistakes on the same issue again. Thought of here, I didn't understand the teacher's practice.
In fact, many times, when we think that others are doing something wrong, we should put ourselves in their shoes and think about what we would do if we encountered such a problem ourselves. If everyone can be calm and empathetic when encountering something, then many contradictions around us will be reduced and the goal of a harmonious society will be realized.
Empathy composition 1 1 In life, everyone will have conflicts with others or themselves, and I am no exception.
My parents are not strict with me. Finish your homework every day and review for an hour, then you can watch TV. But there was a lot of homework that day and I didn't finish it until about six o'clock. I want to watch TV and have a rest first. That time was also the broadcast time of my favorite sports news, so I didn't review it.
After watching it for about ten minutes, my father suddenly said to me, "Why are you still watching TV?" Go review! "I am very unhappy:" I have a lot of homework today. I just finished watching it and want to have a rest. "
"no! If you watch for more than one minute now, you will have to watch for less than ten minutes later ... "Because of my father's verbosity, I went to review impatiently.
When reviewing, I was absent-minded and kept thinking: I will never talk to my father again, and I can't watch TV for a while! I even want to run away from home, leave this house and never come back.
But this negative attitude disappeared in my heart as soon as it appeared, because I put myself in my father's shoes and thought: I hope I can study hard and have a good future.
Think like this, dad is right and I am wrong. So I apologize to my father. After that, we were as good as usual, as if nothing had happened.
From this incident, I got a revelation: resolving contradictions is not as difficult as I thought, just as the saying goes, "take a step back and broaden the horizon."