Of course, the young people who say that they are lying flat are actually desperate. They are really confused and anxious. But the burden of life forced them to move on. I talked about lying flat after 00, but my life is very hard and I am very motivated. There are mainly the following nodes.
1. The burden of family. Most of the post-00 s are married now, and the responsibility is very heavy. They can be allowed to grumble and complain, but in life, they are not allowed to lie flat.
2. Work pressure is high. Staying up late and working overtime has basically become a representative word after 00. The job competition is fierce, and you will be eliminated if you don't work hard. Faced with great work pressure, you have to work hard and roll up your bedding.
3. Take care of the elderly. 00 is an only child, taking care of the elderly on both sides and making them tired. If you don't make progress and work hard, you can't take care of the elderly and let them enjoy their old age.
4. Huge investment in children. Children's education costs a lot. If you choose to lie on your back, you have already lost on your child's running line. So, just talk about lying flat but dare not really do it.
Lying flat is a popular online hot word in recent years. Up to now, many people always mention lying flat. The so-called lying flat originally refers to a state of lacking self-motivation in social struggle and preferring to give up on oneself rather than strive for the upper reaches, such as lying flat at work and fishing in troubled waters.
Nowadays, the workplace is becoming more and more complex. In addition to the reason why the demand of enterprises has decreased because of fierce competition, the biggest reason is that there are more and more people struggling in the workplace. Many people's efforts are invisible to you, and many people can't do what they have experienced personally. A person quietly prepares for the postgraduate entrance examination, quietly prepares for the job interview, quietly makes a PPT when he comes home from work, and quietly communicates with customers.
Everyone is verbally talking about lying flat, and they always advise others to lie flat. As a result, everyone is working "secretly" or quietly, especially in the workplace. Many times now, everyone will have an illusion: why is the competition in the workplace becoming more and more fierce, and why is the demand for post talents increasing? I think there are too many people, but it's not that there are too many people, but that you are weak.
Many times, when we look at the job requirements of enterprise recruitment, we feel that we are qualified and capable. However, when we submitted our resumes, we found nothing. In fact, this is not because you don't meet the requirements, but because there are people who are more qualified and capable than your past experience. Your substitution is too strong, so the company chooses not to hire you.
Give another simple example. Many years ago, there was a job that was very popular. Later, it was changed to network operation, then to website operation, and then to user operation. If you are still immersed in the general ability of network promotion, do you think it meets the demand?
Especially now, the 35-year-old midlife crisis in the workplace has made many people work hard and fear being replaced by others and losing their value. Your lying flat is definitely the biggest irresponsibility to yourself.
Lying flat may be a way for everyone to laugh at themselves, or it may be a way to relax. But if you really choose to lie flat, Yu Zi may suffer soon, because everyone is working hard, and only you are still standing still.
So Yuzi wants to say that young people should not lie flat easily, let alone believe what others say, because you can't afford to lie down at all.