I once heard a story about a girl who liked a man very much and was willing to do anything for him just to see him every day. Her sincerity touched God, and God said, "Son, do you just want to see him every day?" I can satisfy you, but you must spend 500 years alone. "The girl agreed without hesitation. So she became a stone. Stand quietly on the road he passes every day and spend a morning and a night with him. But what he didn't know was that he never stopped by her side or even looked at her. In this way, 500 years have passed. God asked her what she wanted, and she said, "I just want him to be with me, even for a minute." "As long as I am alone with him for a minute, I will wait for a thousand years." God turned her into grass again. She still stood quietly, expecting a beautiful encounter. This situation has been going on for many years. One day he came. A sad face, sitting under a big tree, sitting next to her. He lit a cigarette and was silent. She was so excited that she kept shaking her body, hoping to attract his attention. But he finished smoking and left without nostalgia. She was left standing alone on the grass, watching the familiar figure go away with tears.
God asked her, son, do you have any other wishes? The girl said: I have been waiting for him 1500 years. I watched him every day, and he never left my memory. These memories are enough for my future memories. I am very satisfied. God said: When you become a stone, the stone next to you has been waiting for you for a thousand years. When you become a grass, the big tree beside you has been waiting for you 1500 years. He just doesn't want you alone, and he loves you very much, but you never know it.
On the way of life, we always miss something while waiting. Some of them are even unforgettable and hard to give up. Many times, we just rush forward and forget to look back. Therefore, we will constantly forget or miss some important things in life. I can only be sad in later memories. For example, love in this city is like fast food. Someone once said: Love is like waiting for a bus. The car you want to take can't wait for you, but the cars you don't take pass by one after another. More often, we have to wait. You never want to see if you are at the wrong stop, or if the bus you are waiting for never passes by.
Black people face such and such choices in life. Just as you choose to wait or leave, when we make a choice, we also mean to be chosen. Once, I thought something was forever, but after many years, I found that it gradually disappeared, and we always regretted our original choice. What we choose is not necessarily what we want to have, but what we miss is like water flowing through our fingertips, which is gone forever. Our hearts have been aching. Pain is a kind of strength and a catalyst for maturity. You can feel the changes in the world around you in pain, and then look at the sun, the moon and the stars, and you will understand the sadness of existence. The greatest sorrow of the living is the sadness of memories and the loneliness of words caused by living too long, and it is your pale state of mind when facing new choices. If you miss it, you can't choose again. The insurmountable distance between reality and memory. The furthest distance in this world is to dig a deep ditch for the past you missed with a cold heart. I can't go back, and I can't pass.
Cherish all the feelings around you and don't use disappointment. Lonely eyes staring at the distance. Maybe what really belongs to you is around you. With a pair of sad eyes and a careful heart, the house is looking forward to your review.