In today's society, many girls are beginning to look forward to their economic independence and their own careers.
But yesterday's news made many graduate students, doctoral students and even undergraduates just start their careers unable to sit still. That is:
Expert research shows that the best childbearing age for women is 22-28 years old.
Many graduate students and doctoral students can't sit still:
"What, don't let me go to school!"
"I was a child? How to have children? "
"My career has just started, I can't support myself, and I have to have children?"
"Is this a large-scale forced delivery scene?"
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Some netizens even pointed out: Give birth to a child at the latest at the age of 28, then I will be pregnant at the age of 27. Then I have to spend two years alone before I get married, and I will get married at the age of 25. Talk about love for at least a year before marriage to see if the other person is suitable. Then I have to have someone when I'm 24. But at the age of 24, I'm still revising my thesis.
Netizens have their own opinions, but many have expressed their dissatisfaction, that is, it is really too early to have children at this age!
Indeed, when the news first appeared on the screen, I felt a little anxious spontaneously.
As netizens said, most people aged 22-28 are at school, looking for jobs, or just starting their careers. They simply don't have much energy and money to get married and have children. It's really a little too hasty.
It can also be seen from this news that many women at this stage are quite anxious, super sensitive to this topic and have a great reaction.
Mostly resistance-don't want to get married and have children.
I have to say that the pressure on women in today's society is also considerable:
Getting married and having children, all these need women to do with their work.
If you lose one or two years, the industry may upgrade, not to mention the rising occupation. After giving birth to a child, you may need a mother to raise it. Once married, family affairs can easily distract women.
Because they all say that after marriage:
Male = working
Female = work+care for husband+care for family+care for children+handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law …
At the same time, the golden age of women is particularly short. After almost 30 years, she is called an older woman, and it is not easy to find a partner. At this time, pressure from all sides will also sweep through.
So many women must finish their studies, work, be financially independent, get married, have children and have families …
Yes, I am in a hurry. Therefore, I can understand that you will have so many contradictory feelings when you see this news.
However, not all girls want to spend their good youth on these.
Therefore, many unmarried people, people with double income and no children, have also begun to appear.
Many girls want to be financially capable and have the ability to control their own lives. Instead of pinning your life on marriage and men.
Because, as we all know, this is the riskiest investment.
We all hope that when our marriage breaks down, we can take the initiative to leave, get away with it and choose our own life again.
Instead of crying and begging him to change his mind.
Marriage is a matter for two families, not two people.
No matter the best age for marriage or how early the childbearing age is. But if that person is wrong, it is not the best age for marriage and childbearing.
If being together is like torturing each other, why not travel happily alone?
There are too many opinions in the world. Only by being yourself can you live your own wonderful life!