In contemporary society, if a person wants to achieve development, he must not only have lofty aspirations, but more importantly, he must combine his own characteristics, give play to his own specialties, and proceed from reality in order to make a difference.

I once saw such a fable in a book. The book says: a crow envies the eagle to catch sheep, so he goes to learn from the eagle to catch sheep. As a result, the sheep were not caught, but fell into the hands of herders. When the child asked the herdsman what kind of bird it was, the herdsman said, "It's a bird with unknown name." I was deeply moved by this story, especially the last sentence of the herder, which made me understand a truth: the crow failed because it just imitated the eagle's practice and was not suitable for its own conditions. Crow's ambition is too great, and it is doomed to failure if it does not proceed from reality.

In fact, in real life, there are many people around us like crows in the materials. They always envy other people's skills and firmly believe that as long as they do it themselves, they will be able to achieve something like others. However, when they really do it, they realize that it is not that simple. It can be seen that you can't do anything just according to others, without really considering your own conditions, especially your own shortcomings. Of course, such people can't get into the door of success. This gives us a profound revelation: we must proceed from reality before we can really open an account.

In fact, there are many successful examples from reality in life. I saw an example on a variety show: the invited guests were once called "working emperors" by the outside world. He is Tang Jun, CEO and CEO of Microsoft China. When the host asked him the secret of his success, he smiled and said, "It is because I started from reality, played my special skills and worked hard that I got here step by step. I have thought about what kind of person I want to be before, like those successful people, and I want to imitate them, but when I do this, I always fail again and again. Later, I finally came to the conclusion that I want to learn from them, but that doesn't mean I want to imitate them. Instead, I want to learn their advantages, proceed from my own situation and specialties, make continuous efforts, and make achievements. " Tang Jun's words condensed the essence of his life experience, deeply inspired me and benefited me for life.

Yes, as long as we pay attention to proceeding from reality, give full play to our advantages and show our style in our life and career, then success will wave to you and you will have your own world in this real life!