On the internet, there is a saying:? The most embarrassing thing is knowing that you are a spare tire but still reluctant to leave. ?

Those men who know they are spare tires still can't let go and give up their loved ones.

Because in a man's mind, a seemingly unattainable woman has become an obsession, a habitual love, which drives him to pay for it.

That woman has become perfect in his mind. She sat high on the throne and manipulated her servants at will.

However, some men are unconsciously regarded as spare tires by women, and they haven't even found out yet. Men think he is the only one for her, and he is her special.

But in fact you are just one of her spare tires, an ordinary spare tire. Men should pay more attention to their love life. Women who use men as spare tires usually do this.

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When a man is in love, he will actually subconsciously block out the bad news, and it is this subconscious that makes you miss the opportunity to discover the truth.

Today, we are going to tear open the bloody wound, look directly at ourselves and her, and understand that women who take men as spare tires usually do this to speed up the wound healing.

She will only come to you when she is hurt.

When a woman is hurt, she will not choose to swallow the bitter water silently, but hope to find someone to talk to. Some people will find girlfriends, some people will find friends, and some people will find spare tires.

This kind of woman will pour you a pot of bitter water on the grounds that we are friends, cry and lean in your arms, draw closer the intimate relationship that does not belong to friends, and give men the illusion that we can go further.

When she is sad because of another man, she makes you feel that you can have another chance. She will hug you, depend on you and be sweet in front of you.

However, when she is coaxed by another man, it's time for you to return to the boundaries of friends. Now when you ask for confirmation of the relationship, she looks surprised.

We're just friends! ?

She will say that she doesn't want to fall in love recently.

After a woman breaks up, it is the most depressing and desperate period. She will feel the sky were to fall, and think that the world is gloomy, there will be no sunshine and no rainbow.

When you comforted her, she looked so delicate and touching, so pure and moving. This kind of woman will look at your eyes tightly with deer eyes.

I tell you, she was moved by you and couldn't find a better man than you.

When you spend that happy time with your sweetheart, when you want to announce to the world that you have finally caught up with your goddess, she is everything to you.

She will shake her head with embarrassment and say that she doesn't want to fall in love recently and don't want to be public because she is still sad.

When you are useless to her, she will draw a line.

If the spare tire, for that kind of woman, is the comfort when bored, the comfort when lonely, the tool when difficult.

She may be busy writing a paper recently, but she can't start; She may face a performance appraisal, but she is at a loss.

You may have the skills she needs and the qualities she needs. So you became her target.

After the difficulty, you became a useless person, useless to her. She will reduce contact and never see you again. Sometimes, she will pass by like she didn't see you.

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Women who use men as spare tires usually do this.

When men know this, they should be sober and stop being played with.