Love is the embodiment of two people's congenial feelings. Love is willing to pay for the other half without asking for anything in return. Love is a soul with three views, and can talk and communicate without boredom. As far as I know, love is a sufficient condition for marriage, and only a marriage with love can be happy. The premise of love is friends. Only when we meet, get to know each other and get along for a period of time can we brew a pot of warm wine, and it is you and me who drink at each other. The love that happens to me is like the spring of the four seasons. Everything is brand-new and bright, and it also has the hormonal breath of youth. My husband and I are high school classmates, and we officially started dating during college. Our love began with long-distance love, and after six years of long-distance running, we finally entered the sacred palace of marriage. For the rest of my life, snow is you, and dullness is you. Join hands and experience more life. Marriage is not a child's play. Later, marriage is actually a matter for two families, so marriage is to pair up families. Only a family where men and women are evenly matched can reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles and troubles in the later marriage life. In the process of getting along with my other half, I know that marriage is like a company we run together. Our interests are always linked. It is said that home is the harbor of the soul, because home is a safe haven for both husband and wife to make decisions together, and it is necessary to weigh the pros and cons through consultation and face challenges together. Home is a place that can't be carried out for special reasons. Because feelings are more dominant, blindly arguing about right and wrong when quarreling will eventually lead to a scene of mutual loss. This explanation is not clear. Only after you have experienced it can you understand it clearly. In short, if you haven't passed the exam, please give up the opportunity and right to do it, be more understanding and tolerant, be more patient and have a harmonious family. Marriage must be based on solid love, and then we can talk about and deal with rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea and all kinds of secular things together. This kind of love is actually called intimate love in spirit. Therefore, whether it is material or spiritual, it is necessary to be evenly matched, and the love between husband and wife can be more stable for a long time. The humbleness or arrogance of either party can easily make this balance lose its original balance, which is also the difficulty in managing love and marriage. Marriage is a lifelong practice between two mature adults. It needs to go through all kinds of ups and downs, even 81 difficult trials. Finally, we can cultivate: grow old together and have a sense of security. All experiences are precious, and all hardships are aimed at achieving better self. After listening to a lot of truth, I still can't live well. After all, it's not that I didn't understand it, nor that I forgot enough. Otherwise, the world will be quiet, okay. Behind the appearance of all this, it's just that someone is taking the fall for you, and you chose to turn a blind eye. What you can say is bitter, but you can't complain. Only by swallowing the bitterness can we polish ourselves more tenaciously, and then face the challenges of the real world, calmly deal with them, not escape, strive for what we want through hard work, bring a happier life to our families, and accumulate them to bring positive influence to more people. The understanding of love and marriage is 800 words. In fact, the word "love" has faded my life and even my memory for many years. Last night, I went to the reading time 8760 reading salon to talk about books and regain "love". Of course, this is only written by Mr. Qian Zhongshu, in the explanation of Teacher Guo and the sharing of book lovers. Love in girlhood basically comes from novels. At that time, my family was poor and I couldn't afford to buy idle books, and there was no decent library to borrow at school. Most of the novels I read come from good classmates. I remember when I was in middle school, I borrowed a book "Song of Youth" from my classmates. I stayed up all night, crawled under the covers and watched it in one breath under the dim kerosene lamp. This should be the first impressive love novel I have ever read. I remember the heroine's name was Lin Daojing. I got married and had children as an adult, but I still have no resistance to love novels. Tolstoy's anna karenine, which I have read many times, was once beautiful, charming and sincere. Anna, the heroine, was moved to tears in love, but when she was old, I watched this love story again and felt that the heroine was a little irrational and even incredible. As Volynski's mother said, "She is a bad woman anyway. What's the point of this desperate enthusiasm? It only proves that she is special than others. She ruined two people, her husband and my poor son. " There is also the love between Julian, the hero in Red and Black, and Madame de Rena, and the love and marriage of Scarlett, the heroine in Gone with the Wind, which left a deep impression on my memory ... As for Fortress Besieged, I haven't watched it carefully, and even the TV series has watched several episodes intermittently. My understanding of Mr Qian Zhongshu mainly comes from his wife, Mr Jiang Yang. I like Mr. Jiang Yang's words very much. They are simple and warm, straight into my heart. What I admire more is her attitude towards life and their enviable married life. Mr. Qian Zhongshu described his wife and marriage like this: "I never thought about getting married before I met her." I have been married to her for decades, and finally regretted marrying her, and I never thought about marrying another woman. " From these words, we can see Mr. Qian Zhongshu's firm belief in love and marriage and his deep love for his wife. This kind of love is by no means the so-called "love" of a moth. In this passage, Mr. Qian Zhongshu used "marriage" instead of "love". I think the word "marriage" not only contains the love between men and women, but also the responsibility for marriage and the belief in life. Understanding of love and marriage 800 words 3 In this world, most people want to have a beautiful love and a perfect and harmonious marriage, and so does God's creation of human beings. However, the more valuable things are, the harder it is to get. God said, do you want to be happy? I can give it to you, but you must pay! This is true of every love marriage that gets along well with its son. For love and marriage, there is no established model, and there may be no obvious road signs, but every couple who make a positive result must go through a process of getting to know each other, knowing each other, running in and being harmonious. On this road, you may be at a loss, but you can't get lost. The following understanding of love and marriage is 1. A love that attracts you is a good start, but it may also be a mirage; A reluctant feeling may put you under more pressure, but it may not be fruitless; Marriage is a task that can never be completed. If you start a relationship with this mentality, then you have entered a dangerous gambling game. You must think of the worst consequences and be prepared for them. No matter who interprets love and marriage, you can learn from it, but please don't take it as truth. The so-called "honest officials can't break housework", not to mention those people don't understand your love and marriage at all; 4. Marriage needs management, and management should pay attention to strategy. If you want to turn her (him) into your ideal partner, it's not impossible, but you can't rush it. You not only have to pay, but also need guidance. The key is to wait. Sometimes, just like educating children, there will be happiness and pain during this period. 5. When you enter marriage, you must make an agreement with her (him) and make your own marriage principles. These principles are the bottom line of your marriage and the foundation for maintaining it. Once it is violated, marriage may be destroyed. But above this grassroots level, more tolerance and understanding are needed, which is an indispensable "nutrient" for marriage. 6. Don't simply understand marriage as "a matter of two people". Remember the tears in parents' eyes at the moment of marriage? If you have children, would you like to see his innocent smile turn into dull and hateful eyes? If you don't care about all this, you can divorce without hesitation. Love and marriage are pure and beautiful. If it becomes an unbearable burden for us, you can unload it. But if you are just tired of giving up for it, it is irresponsible, because God once said, do you want happiness? I can give it to you, but you must pay! This is true of every love marriage that gets along well with its son. You, too!