Family is the cell of society, and the scope of family education is very wide, including all aspects of children's education. Although school education educates students to develop morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically in an all-round way, it often only pays attention to the education of knowledge and skills, that is, the skills of learning to survive, while ignoring the all-round development of individuals. That is to say, the two are not a level comparison. It can also be said that family education is well done and can show unique personal qualities in schools, society and work units. Therefore, basic education, all education, is based on family education and has a far-reaching impact on children's life! The ultimate goal of family education is to educate and cultivate individual children (if the whole society does it together, it will be extended to everyone) and become a good person who contributes to society and is meaningful. If family education is done well, the country will be peaceful and the society will be harmonious.
I recommend you to watch the documentary "Sage Education Changing Destiny" of the large-scale public welfare forum on Chinese excellent traditional culture education. There must be the answer you need, which is really a rare classic program of family education! This program will be the best one-on-one tutor for us and our children, and it is also a very good family education network resource, and it is completely free. The reality is that adults and children are prone to various problems, such as lack of perseverance, greed, rebellion, disobedience, internet addiction, strong dependence and inattention. These problems can not be fundamentally corrected by a simple method or measure, and become a filial and obedient child. Instead, we need to carry out macro family education in an all-round way and start from the root causes in order to treat both the symptoms and the root causes. In this film, many experts and teachers tell it in person, and report to the public with their unique experiences to enlighten parents. Their educational concepts will directly affect their children's family education. Therefore, it is recommended that parents and children watch together. The family education they received from childhood will affect their children's life, and they will certainly get unexpected gains from it!
There is a classic saying: good people have good news, and bad people have good news! This shows the importance of family education!
However, at present, we are facing various realities: serious lack of social integrity! Various media exaggerate and mislead, and the environment where children grow up is constantly being destroyed and polluted. It is difficult to do a good job in family education! Parents are getting worse. To tell the truth, many parents don't know how to be parents, so they bring their children into this world and put a lot of educational responsibilities on schools and society. However, parents are children's first teachers, and many growth experiences require parents to set an example. They shirk their responsibilities, how can they educate their children well? Really sad!
As children, we often can't understand our parents' thoughts and real experiences, just for our own convenience and enjoyment. To tell the truth, it's a bit of a violation! When we are parents, we can truly understand this feeling, but it is often too late to regret it, alas. ...
Many so-called generation gaps in our lives are caused by the disjointed and inconsistent education received from generation to generation. Nowadays, too many people are eager for quick success and instant benefit, only paying attention to their own enjoyment and ignoring the feelings of others.
You know, all education should start with roots, just like a tree needs roots to grow trunk, branches and leaves, and flourish. If we abandon the fundamental virtue education, everything else will be just castles in the air. I would like to recommend friends who are predestined friends here. No matter whether you have seen it or not, please take time out to watch the excellent program of China Traditional Culture Education Forum: "Sage Education Change Destiny" (which can be searched and played on Baidu video or Youku Tudou). I hope everyone who has seen it can get real and meaningful benefits from it and continue to benefit others. Let's work together to create a harmonious social environment.
I hope my answer is helpful and enlightening to you.
Sincerely bless you!