The same dress is beautiful to others, but not so elegant to you; The same hairstyle, displayed on other people's heads, is noble and charming, but transplanted to your head, it is very different; Lavender grows well in the north, but it is not suitable for planting in the south; Litchi grows vigorously in the south and will die when transplanted to the north.
Why? Things are different. Everything is different. It's just inappropriate.
Mo Bosang said: Life has never been as good or as bad as expected. Yes, everything in this world is not absolute, only relative.
We often envy celebrities and always feel that we are too ordinary. In fact, celebrities have their own troubles, and mortals have their own freedom and freedom. Living in a bustling city, you can laugh and indulge in the noise. Isn't this mortal freedom and casualness envied and expected by reclusive celebrities?
Shoes are not necessarily beautiful and luxurious, as long as they suit you, that is the best. Another example is marriage, another example is love. In the eyes of others, it may not be enviable or incredible, but if you feel happy, it is happiness; I feel happy, and that is happiness.
It is unrealistic and extravagant to aim too high. Sometimes, we always choose a path that is not suitable for us, and the result is always a fiasco. Even if we try to reach a destination, we still look confused when we look back, because the process is not what we originally wanted, and the destination is not as beautiful as we thought.
Life is a choice. Put yourself in a suitable position and choose a road suitable for your life and survival, even if it is not a big hit, rich or expensive, as long as you are happy in your heart, that is the best.
The French philosopher Diderot said: knowing what things should look like shows that you are a smart person; Knowing what things actually look like shows that you are an experienced person; Knowing how to make things better shows that you are a talented person.
The ruler has his strengths, an inch of land and gold, a vast world, and different lives, and there must be differences between people. Between life and life, there must be rich and poor.
Act according to local conditions, and don't let yourself get into unnecessary trouble. As long as you stand on the land under your feet, it is suitable for growth, no matter whether it is rich or poor; Just find your place and have fun all the way.
Since it can't shine on the earth like the sun, it shines like a star; Since it can't stand proudly like a towering tree, it will add a touch of green to the earth like grass; Since we can't be like the ocean, let's moisten everything like water drops. ...
What suits you is the best!