A tree can build a house and make a pen; A penny can be discarded or donated, with different values. Things can't determine their own value, but people and things are different, and their own value can often only be determined by themselves.
The value is the same as that of flowers, and the flower season is different. Whether it blooms in the right season depends on whether you can wait. Waiting is a long process, just like a car, which is always more expensive than a bicycle. Because the processing time is different, the value is naturally different. So do people. College graduates are often eloquent, while primary school graduates are often unable to express their ideas, which is a direct manifestation of the different values of whether they can wait for others. If this period of education is compared to the embryonic period, then knowledge is like nutrition. In the process of waiting for the flower of success to bloom, it is lonely and painful, but there is no way and no patience to wait. How can there be a bright future? Without the passage of time, how can there be gorgeous flowers of success? But there are still some people who can't stand loneliness and wait for these years. These are dropouts. Learning is not as good as playing, but they choose to give up, give up waiting, give up the opportunity to wait, which means giving up the moment of blooming. So how to realize the value? Therefore, waiting is the premise of realizing one's own value. Learn to wait, this is the first step of your own decision!
Value also depends on how people realize it. The same drop of water, ordinary people may think there is nothing to waste, but for people trapped in the desert, it may be life. A drop of water, why is there such a big difference? Because of different ways, the degree of requirements is also different. There are many ways to realize human value, most of which depend on the degree of processing. For example, an orange may not be worth a few dollars, but if it is made into orange juice, its value will double. The same is true for people, depending on which way they choose. This process may not be fun or painful. "Bao Jianfeng comes from sharpening, and plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold." Only when people are not afraid of the "handling" of life will they have a hard time. "Jade is not cut, it is not abrasive", and people can't realize their own value in their own way without suffering. Therefore, the value largely comes from a person's choice, whether to choose hardship or comfort. In short, without the processing of life, you can't realize your value well. The method always depends on you.
Value comes from waiting, and only by waiting will there be the glory of "ten years of cold window without asking, becoming famous at one fell swoop";
Value comes from the way. Only by choosing the right road can we have the freedom to "be proud of horseshoe disease in the spring breeze and see all the Chang 'an flowers in one day".
Value is always determined by yourself!