Learn to be patient and believe that everyone has had the experience of arguing with others? But how many people will think about why there is a quarrel afterwards? If we can all bear our anger, will things develop in a good direction? If we all learn patience, can a misunderstanding that could have been avoided be forgiven? The answer is yes. Learn to be patient, and our life will be warmer and more peaceful, with less useless storms. Look at the living examples around us, and you will find how important patience is. It often happens in school and in our study and life. When your classmates accidentally touch your books or learning tools on the ground and get dirty, you have two choices. Different choices will bring completely different effects. Scene 1: You look at books or learning tools all over the floor and gnash your teeth and scold "You don't have eyes!" "or" you are blind! "Which classmate will refuse to obey, so you two will outdo each other, make a scene in public, and even fight and beat you black and blue. So, you two were invited to the office by the teacher, criticized, and perhaps invited your parents to make them blush. As a result, you and your classmates who were supposed to be good friends turned out to be "enemies" who ignored each other. Scene 2: You look at books or learning tools scattered all over the floor. Although you regret it, you didn't have an attack. No one is embarrassed to get up. He said to you, "I'm sorry, I accidentally knocked off your book." "You smiled and said," It doesn't matter. "So that classmate helped you pick up the book that fell to the ground. So every time you meet, you will smile at each other and gradually become best friends. From these two scenes, you can easily see that because you lack the spirit of tolerance, often a small matter will lead to a big mistake, and when you have the realm of tolerance, a thing that is easy to cause disputes will be invisibly resolved by your smile, making you more attractive and winning friends. I think if you are smart, you will definitely choose the second scenario. Learning to be patient will bring a beautiful scenery to our society and make our society better. In the world, there will inevitably be bumps between people, and you may encounter some episodes on your way to work, school and shopping. I believe that such a fragment will not be unfamiliar to everyone. Two cyclists collided. After getting off the bus, they helped each other and apologized to each other, then got on the bus and went their separate ways. Two taxis collided. Although only a little paint was scraped, seeing two drivers spitting at each other, shouting at each other and then scuffling together not only blocked the traffic, but also delayed the business. Why bother? There is one more thing that I will never forget. This happened at Lao Zhang's house next door to my house. One day, Lao Zhang rode a bicycle with his daughter who was going to college for business, and accidentally bumped into a male college student riding a bicycle. The two sides immediately scuffled. After dinner, Lao Zhang asked her daughter to call her son. After his son arrived with several people, he beat up which college student, which led to serious injury and death. As a result, Lao Zhang's son was sentenced to death, Lao Zhang was sentenced to life imprisonment, and Lao Zhang's daughter was also sentenced to probation. As a result, a small matter turned into a catastrophe. " Oh, why bother? If you just bear it, nothing will happen. "After what happened at Lao Zhang's house, grandma sighed and said to me. Yes, if Lao Zhang and the dead college students can bear it, if Lao Zhang's son comes instead of fighting, will there be such serious consequences later? The answer is obvious. The ancients said, "Take a step back and broaden the horizon" and "A little tolerance leads to great mischief", which is the best interpretation of tolerance. In our social life, if we all learn patience, how many contradictions will be eliminated between people and how peaceful and beautiful the world we live in will become. Tolerance is important, but not everything. There is a limit to tolerance, and tolerance should also have principles. No matter between people or between countries, tolerance should pay attention to one degree and one principle. For things that seriously infringe on national interests and personal rights and interests, we should stand up and do the opposite, defend national interests and protect our own rights and interests. Back in those days, when the United States set fire to the Yalu River, which posed a serious threat to China's security, the young Republic, which had just been baptized by war, refused to retreat in the face of an enemy armed to the teeth, decisively sent troops to North Korea, fought bloody battles, and finally the fierce enemy crossed the 38th parallel. When the United States criticized China's human rights issue again and again at the United Nations Human Rights Conference, China refused to give in, refuted it according to reason, and finally failed the American plot again and again. This is true between countries and between individuals. We can't shrink back and tolerate people and things that seriously infringe on our rights and interests. We should take up legal weapons and resolutely safeguard our rights and interests. Tolerance makes our mind calm, makes our life beautiful, and is beneficial to our work and communication. Friends, let's all learn to be patient!