However, everyone has limitations, and not every parent can teach everything to their children before they become adults, so we may be perfect in education, but we should have a basic educational goal, that is, to let children be responsible for themselves independently when they grow up-to explore the truth that parents have not told you and master the skills that parents have not taught you. Therefore, to evaluate whether a family education has passed the test depends on whether the children of this family will return to their parents when they grow up!
Let me not say what a good education is, but what a qualified education is. I'm not saying that I think education should only do this. I want to tell parents and teachers here that only by doing this can you be qualified to talk about other achievements. As long as the children grow up and enter the society, you pass the education and you fail. This is not refuted!
Then let's take a look at Mr. Xiao's education and failure. First of all, although Mr. Xiao's children have been admitted to Tsinghua Peking University, have their children really been honed in society? We don't know. What did his children say about his education? We don't know. So did Mr. Xiao pass the education? The answer is clear-who knows! So far, we outsiders, including so-called experts, are not qualified to evaluate Mr. Xiao's educational methods. Even Mr. Xiao himself is not qualified to say whether his educational method is good or bad. We outsiders only have the right to question.
However, Mr. Xiao has already started to show off his educational experience with a chicken blanket and a book on TV! It's like saying you're a champion because you don't know who was eliminated in the knockout. I mean, what's the difference between this and shameless?
Although we are not sure whether Mr. Xiao passed the education, what is certain is that Mr. Xiao's mother successfully educated Mr. Xiao in those years-just look at Mr. Xiao's evaluation of his mother! Otherwise, Mr. Xiao would not learn from his mother to educate his children. Who are we outsiders to talk about his mother?
Therefore, as long as Mr. Xiao's children grow up and treat his father well, we outsiders are not qualified to evaluate the quality of his education. If this is the basis, his children praise his father, and we outsiders have nothing to say, but as long as his children depend on him, all of us are entitled to scold him.