I'm worried and sick, and I have to live on others. Daiyu lost her mother in her childhood and her father later, so she only lived in Jiafu. Because of her dependence on others, she became very sensitive and suspicious. Although the Jia family is the richest in the world, among all the sisters, Daiyu belongs to the consort (Baochai is also a consort, but she also has a mother and a brother, whose family is well-off and beyond Daiyu's reach), so she always feels dependent and helpless. She has a strong self-esteem. This kind of self-esteem is like a taut string, which is installed on Lin Daiyu, who is extremely sensitive. Whether consciously or unconsciously, as long as you touch it gently, it will vibrate strongly. In Daiyu's bones, she wants to have an independent personality, but in Jiafu, she is only the object of rescue and pity, which is the last role Daiyu wants to play. It is precisely because of this life situation that Daiyu's sensitive and suspicious character is caused. Daiyu is a sad and sick person. She was born with "congenital deficiency"; Take medicine if you can. As soon as I entered Jia's house, I felt uncomfortable all over. Because of her infirmity, no one really cared about her after entering Jiafu, and no special treatment was given, so the root cause of her illness was not removed, and her long-term depression led to her impetuous sensitivity. As Dr. Wang Taiyi, who treated Baoyu, said by the way, "I must be angry and suspicious when I hear that I don't do my own thing." I don't know if I doubt my good temperament. In fact, there is this disease because of the loss of liver yin and the decline of mood. "
Showing off the wisdom of the outside world is pure and flawless. Lin Daiyu's "heart is willing but unable" is beautiful inside and outside. Jia Yucun, her tutor, said that he, a female student, "speaks and behaves differently from any other woman." Because of his mother's name, Jia Min, "Whenever I read Min, I read Mi, and when I meet Min, I also subtract one or two strokes." When she arrived at Jiafu, she was still a child, but she knew that she was thinking and secretly examining. Words and deeds, courtesy and propriety. But we also felt that she was depressed from the beginning. She is good at thinking about poetry. When others write poems, they always think hard, but she "brushes them off". She said to Jia Baoyu, "If you can read ten lines at a glance, I can't?" Indeed, Lin Daiyu is famous for her cleverness in the Grand View Garden. She is good at touching scenes and making good use of topics. Once Baoyu went to see Baochai, who was between a "golden lock" and a "psychic". I didn't expect Daiyu to have waddled in. Seeing Baoyu, he said with a smile, "Ouch! I came at a bad time! " Baochai said with a smile, "What do you mean?" "If I had known he was coming, I wouldn't have come," said Daiyu. . Baochai asked again, "What does this mean?" Daiyu said, "What do you mean, everyone comes together, and no one comes; He will come today; I will come tomorrow, but the time is staggered. Won't someone come every day? It's neither too cold nor too lively. " Baoyu heard Baochai say that eating cold wine is harmful to his health. He put down his glass, and Xueyan just sent a hand stove. Daiyu quipped, "Who told you to send it?" Don't disturb him. -It's freezing in there! "Xueyan said it was from Zijuan, and she immediately said," You should listen to him, too! You turn a deaf ear to what I tell you on weekdays; How can you do as he says, faster than the imperial edict! "Clever frown, how sharp and subtle the way she expresses jealousy is, and double-click it. Baoyu once again looked at Baochai's white arm in a daze. At this moment, "I saw Daiyu pedaling on the threshold, smiling with a handkerchief in her mouth. Baochai said, "The wind can't help blowing, so why stand at that tuyere?" "Why aren't you in the house?" Daiyu asked. ? Just because I heard a cry in the sky, I came out to have a look. Baochai said, "Where is the goose? I also want to have a look. Daiyu said,' I just came out and he flew away with a loud noise. As he spoke, he shook his handkerchief and threw it at Baoyu's face. "This kind of alert, this kind of irony and banter, only Lin Daiyu can do so pure. There are several interesting mouthfuls in the Grand View Garden, such as Xifeng's mouth, Jia Mu's mouth, Qingwen's mouth, You Sanjie's mouth and Redjade's mouth. Daiyu also has a more interesting "mouth". Baoyu's wet nurse, Mammy Li, said, "Sure enough, a word from Sister Lin is more important than a knife." However, the "mouth" of Xifeng and others is different from that of Daiyu: Xifeng is mostly "secular teasing"; Daiyu is elegant and handsome. As Xue Baochai said, "What's more, there is a narrow mouth. He used the method of' Spring and Autumn' to describe vulgar language, summarize its essence, simplify it by deleting complexity, give an example, sentence by sentence. " Speak sincerely and skillfully. Daiyu is a person who pursues perfection, and her life goal is idealized. She doesn't look like a rational person. When she sees flowers and plants dying, she will think it is a natural law. Nor is it like an optimistic person who thinks that flowers will bloom again when they wither; Not like a pessimistic person, seeing the flowers fall will only make you sad. She buried flowers to give them a beautiful and clean ending, and also metaphorically buried her youth; Give the flowers a clean destination, that is, give their youth a happy ending. She will never give in to the pressures of reality and always maintain her lofty ideal of perfection and purity. It reveals a noble and lofty spiritual world to people and highlights the grandeur and loftiness of an independent personality.
The sharpness of false family relations and the threat of a beautiful marriage. The Jia family where Lin Daiyu lived is a typical feudal declining family, and the traditional forces are stubborn. Here we can find many unreasonable phenomena in feudal society. For example, Wang Xifeng's disgusting "filial piety" is like "colorful clothes with dramatic effect"; Baochai's attentions to Mrs. Jia in eating, wearing, playing and guessing, her flattery to Princess Yuan in writing poems, and her actions in front of the maids; Mrs. Wang's crocodile tears in front of people; The legacy of feudal society such as "Aunt Xue's sweet words comforted her". Although Lin Daiyu, as the initiator, is a weak woman, she chose the life path of "being clean is better than being trapped in a ditch". The existence of her noble and true personality, which refuses to compromise and flatter, is a kind of rebellion in itself. The theory of "golden jade and good marriage" once made Daiyu "think twice before you act". She was anxious to know whether Baoyu attached importance to this "heresy" and whether he was deeply distressed by it. Whenever there is an opportunity, she keeps measuring love. She seems to torment Baoyu endlessly. The more worried Baoyu is about denying it, the more she suspects that he has the idea of "golden jade" in his heart. When she "drove the honest Baoyu blue in the face", she secretly felt guilty and painful. This ominous remark cast a thick shadow over the relationship between Daiyu and Baoyu, making them quarrel and laugh or be silent and angry in the Grand View Garden for most of their lives. Daiyu thinks highly of herself, keeps away from all her sisters, and has few intimate friends, only Baoyu is a confidant. How to resist Baoyu is another kind of "lover", making her love and hate, so she has to lock her boudoir and sigh, feeling sad secretly, Lacrimosa. What's more, she likes Baoyu, and it's not convenient for her to say that Baoyu doesn't understand, and she can't find anyone to make decisions for her lifelong events. Therefore, a cavity can only be hidden in my heart, but there is no one to say, and I can only send it in poetry. Her Peach Blossom Walk and Flower Burial are the true portrayal of her life experience and personality. The middle of the poem is lonely, and every word is lonely. What a lonely girl! She is in her prime! This is probably the reason why Daiyu is moody to Baoyu. If you say that there is no strange fate, you will meet him again in this life. If you say there is a strange fate, how can your mind be empty? "
Knowledgeable and noble-minded. Daiyu depicted in Cao Xueqin's chest is a poetic talented woman. She is versatile: she is well-read and knowledgeable. She loves books, not only reading four books, but also reading corner plays The West Chamber, Peony Pavilion and Peach Blossom Fan. She is not only familiar with the works of Li, Du, Wang, Meng, Li Shangyin and Lu You, but also has rich research experience. She is not only good at playing the piano, but also knows music. Cao Xueqin seems to be interested in integrating some characteristics of talented women in past dynasties, such as Xue Tao and Li Qingzhao, into Lin Daiyu's character. For example, she wrote Apricot Curtain in Sight. The details of Baoyu's rescue are easily reminiscent of Li Qingzhao's and Zhao Mingcheng's anecdotes. "Embedding Compassion and Singing Tales" and "Burying Flowers in Leng Yue" compare Daiyu to the leaves of the Jin Dynasty and the Ming Dynasty. Daiyu, on the other hand, is completely different from talented women in previous dynasties, which is the personality characteristic endowed by Cao Xueqin with tragic fate and rebellious spirit. But to some extent, this personality is expressed through her poetic temperament and poetry. In the Grand View Garden, she and Xue Baochai are far above others. In terms of knowledge, she may be slightly inferior to Baochai, but in terms of quick thinking and novel poetry, Lin Daiyu is really outstanding and unique. Every time the poetry club competes for poetry, her poems are often praised by everyone, so she has always won the championship. The reason why her poems are well written is that she has extremely sensitive sensibility, extremely strange imagination and penetrating power into the scenery; Even if it is a grass, a tree, a mountain or a stone, as soon as she touches it, she immediately produces rich imagination, novel ideas and unique feelings and opinions. What is especially commendable is that she can melt her soul into the objective scenery and express her painful soul and tragic fate by chanting things. For example, her poem "Bai Haitang" not only expresses the charm of Haitang, but also expresses the love of girls. Especially the sentence "Who is shy and who is affectionate?" It is the most vivid: this is not only a description of Haitang's demeanor, but also a monologue of her own mind. She has something engraved in her heart, but because of the oppression of the environment and the bondage of self-feudal consciousness, even Zi Juan, who lived and died together, and even Jia Baoyu, her confidant, are ashamed to say it, so she has to keep it in her heart and suffer for herself. This makes it more lonely, lonely and painful. Her "catkin words" are touching, beautiful and moving, with many puns. Every sentence is like catkins, and every word is really yourself, expressing your wandering life and lamentation and indignation at the despair of love. In particular, her "Chrysanthemum Poetry" sang three songs in a row and won the championship in one fell swoop. Her poems are not only "new in title, poetry and conception", but also full of emotions and feelings. Among them, "Who will tell Qiu Xin about the problem of self-pity?" "Who is lonely and proud, who is hidden?" And other sentences, but also wrote the girl's noble character and painful soul. Her "Flower Burial" is her life experience after entering the Jia family, and it is the representative work of all her lamentations about her life experience and tragic fate. She expressed the traitor's grief and indignation with tears in her face. "The willows and elms are mixed with wheatgrass, no matter whether the peach is floating or Li Fei", which embodies the indignation over the coldness of the world and the attachment to the warmth and coldness of human feelings. "360 days a year, the wind, the sword and the frost are pressing each other hard", isn't that an indictment of the ruthless reality that has persecuted her for a long time? "May slaves grow wings and fly to the end of the sky with flowers" is the desire and pursuit of a beautiful ideal. As for "Nong, who buried flowers today, was laughing. Who did he know when he buried them?" Let's see the residual flowers of spring gradually falling, which is the time when beauty dies of old age. There are no sad songs for me, I don't know when flowers will fall and people will die, and so on. Several sentences in the book are repetitive and particularly emphasized. Through the description that parrots can sing, we can see that the author is of great significance: the fate of flowers is also the fate of Daiyu. This is a heart song written with blood and life, and it is a battle to break with this evil world. It truly reveals a spiritual world full of pain and contradiction, but it also holds a high degree of purity and immortality, highlighting the beauty and loftiness of an independent personality. This is why "mourning poems" can arouse strong resonance among readers. In addition, such as her Journey to the Peach Blossom Daughter, Autumn Window Storm, Tipa Poetry and Five Beautiful Songs. They all contain profound meanings. Poetry is like a person, touching. Lin Daiyu, full of poetic temperament and poeticization, is always accompanied by her poetic soul, and always exudes refreshing fragrance from her heart and body at any time. "There is no resistance to the poet's invasion", which is her personal experience. Poetry, for her, is indispensable. She vented her pain and indignation with poetry, expressed her joy and love with poetry, and expressed her determination to protest and resist with poetry. Poetry shows her pure moral integrity, her independent personality, her beautiful and holy soul and her charming artistic brilliance! It can be said that without poetry, there is no Lin Daiyu.
Love the music of poetry and calligraphy, and reflect on the alienation of ethics. Lin Daiyu was born in a "scholarly family" and a "noble family" among the hereditary Marquis. Bureaucratic father mentioned the only daughter to the treatment and upbringing of men because of "sighing the desolation under his knees", taught her to read and write since childhood, and loved her like the apple of his eye. She had a spoiled and unrestrained childhood. Because of her mother's early death, the aristocratic bureaucratic family didn't have time to give her more class education, and didn't have time to let her fully feel all that society provided for women, leaving her with an empty and warm life memory. After she entered the Jia family, no one taught her how to be a person and how to study. She has an educational vacuum, so she can keep her straightforward and naive character. Daiyu is well-read and familiar with the poems of Li Bai, Lu You and Tao Yuanming. Most of these poets are noble, quiet and uncontroversial. Daiyu likes their poems, so she is subtly influenced by them in temperament. In addition, she likes music, which can cultivate and purify people's hearts and souls. Therefore, Daiyu's inner world is always a quiet place, which forms her frank personality.
Loyal love faith, the defense of free personality. The love between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu is a new type, which has never existed in history and belongs to the future. The most fundamental feature of this kind of love is that it is based on mutual understanding and consistent thinking, and it is very pure, sincere and loyal. Lin Daiyu was originally a "lover" and "lover". She, born to love, died for love. Love is her life. She loved Jia Baoyu sincerely, persistently and consistently until death do us part. But their love happened, developed and survived in an environment where love was forbidden, which made Daiyu very painful and "shed tears" again and again. She wept for her love. Love has killed her several times. When their love of the same life was finally destroyed, she "burned the manuscript" and "lost food" and sacrificed her life. What kind of love is sincere and firm, pure and holy, earth-shaking, making people cry, touching their hearts and shocking people! How many people shed tears of sympathy, regret and indignation for her! Lin Daiyu, who lived in Lacrimosa all her life, smiled before she died, and finally shouted out the unfinished words of "Baoyu, Baoyu, hello-"-leaving a thousand years of resentment! Lin Daiyu is a perfectionist. She will never give in to the pressures of reality and will always maintain her lofty ideal of perfection and purity. As a person who pursues perfection, Lin Daiyu has a rebellious spirit of "preferring death to surrender". Her choice is absolute, either zero or all. Since we have to be apart in the end, it is better not to be together. Since you want to thank the flowers, it is better not to open them. Never compromise even if the ideal cannot be fully realized. She demands everything by this standard. She devoted everything to her emotional pursuit, and at the same time wanted Baoyu to devote himself to their love as she did. Daiyu never compromised with the "polygamy" of the society at that time. If she can't get complete love, she would rather have no broken feelings and a strong sense of modernity. Lin Daiyu insists on her innate noble essence and the protection of free personality. Love is just a part of Lin Daiyu's life ideal. Daiyu pursues not only the freedom of love, but also the freedom of personality and equality of personality. In her own words: "I did it for my heart!" " " .