There is an old saying in China: It is a blessing to suffer. When I was young, I didn't think so. Lose money? Why suffer? Modesty? Why should I humble you? Fulfill? Why should I sacrifice to fulfill you? When I was young, my attitude towards losing money was simple and direct. No wonder he was arrogant when he was young. Modesty, sacrifice, fulfillment, these words in today's modern world, the attitude and expression when interpreted can probably be imagined. They must not hold champagne glasses and laugh, but should be a gesture of forbearance. If you must laugh, you should have no teeth, your lips are closed, you smile lightly and lonely, and look away. Everyone has become radical and hurried in this rapidly changing world, and only by truly grasping it can we feel at ease. To take a step back, forbearance will never be taken seriously in everyone's eyes for the sake of the smiling face that has no practical effect and an invisible tomorrow. Once, it was the first rule of life to think that you could not suffer losses or be bullied. So, you can throw books and argue with professors in class, you can argue with vendors for a little profit when traveling, and you want to leave the company if you are a little unhappy, so you can start over. Feelings, too, subconsciously always ask him to treat me better than me. If feelings are scales, I always let him use seven points and I use three points. At most, I feel that I have invested too much. The small alarm clock in my heart reminds me repeatedly: I can't suffer! I can't regret because of my personality, but time has passed, and I still remember the main deeds of trying my best not to suffer, only to find that everything can find a better way. The consequence of quarreling with the professor was that he didn't get good grades in the last class. Anger on the journey diluted happiness. Leaving your job in anger is a long regret after you calm down. As for feelings, I always care about gains and losses and never dare to try passion. Calm down and re-examine the word "lost", and I have already felt a little more inside. A woman who doesn't understand tolerance at all, a woman who is always aggressive, will only make people feel boring after a long time. Sometimes, take a step back and let yourself relax in the vast sky. Both mood and human feelings have been compensated in the process of seemingly losing money. Moreover, sometimes, too much care, too much gain and loss, but will give up the basics. When mistakes are placed in front of us and lessons are discovered soon, we should solve this problem quickly. Too much care will make us fall into depression about the past, which will inhibit our confidence and even affect our judgment. Therefore, bearing losses is also a sign of confidence. At a deeper level, loss actually includes openness and tolerance, and it also increases reason and self-restraint. Being calm in the face of loss is a kind of self-confidence based on personal ability, but not everyone has this kind of self-confidence. Of course, there is a limit to everything. We are weighing again and again: what is the loss? Dare to give? Still confident? Or long-term vision? We don't have much, what is important is whether there is a gain and loss criterion to help us find that simplicity in complexity and that basis in hesitation. If you take losing as a way, it really takes courage and strategy. Add the two together, and you will gain self-confidence, not worry about being swayed by considerations of gain and loss.