-Fisher's post-growth feeling in Rushing Out of Adversity.

Case introduction:

The hero rushes out of adversity and is a 25-year-old active sailor. He often gets angry because trivial things can't control his emotions. He fought with his superior colleagues and was demoted and confined many times, but he refused to change his mind. Finally, the officer had to send him to the naval psychiatric hospital for psychological evaluation to decide whether to keep him in the navy. Under the treatment of the therapist Jerome, he recalled the past and uncovered all kinds of unfortunate experiences in his childhood. Experienced a difficult and painful psychological growth process, in this process, I got the selfless support, encouragement and help of the heroine Cheryl to find my family together. In the end, Fischer completed his own transformation, rushed out of adversity, sublimated his mind, returned to humanity, and lived according to the requirements of humanity.

Growth process:

For the convenience of analysis, I divide the process of psychological growth into five stages.

First, the pretreatment stage:

At present, Fischer has been demoted and imprisoned for fighting many times, but he has never changed, and it is due to others. This is just "teaching them". It can be seen that Fischer's self has been alienated, and he often seeks self-consistency by distorting and denying experience, rather than relying on physical evaluation to evaluate experience and realize self-realization.

Second, the treatment evaluation stage:

This is the beginning of contact therapy, and it is also the beginning of understanding Fischer's psychology, and a good consultation relationship has been established at this stage.

After the first treatment, Fischer refused to receive treatment, always thinking that he was not troubled by any problems, but was forced to come, not voluntarily, and spoke to the therapist with an uncooperative attitude, which was the usual way of doing things for his colleagues and superiors. As far as my personal feelings and knowledge gained from books on psychological counseling and therapy are concerned, everyone who receives psychological counseling and therapy will contact the therapist in his usual way, and a lot of useful information can be analyzed from this initial relationship.

Fischer's second treatment was brought by the guards. This time, he aroused greater resistance and his emotions broke out. But out of command and previous experience of confinement, he thinks silence is the best way. The whole process was spent in silence.

The third treatment was a turning point. Fischer began to be silent, but because of his cough, he was actively concerned by the therapist. Fischer may think that the therapist's reaction at this time is different from others (superiors and colleagues, that is, he will be punished after being angry). He not only has no punishment but also gives positive attention to his reaction. As a result, he reduced his guard and began to communicate with the therapist in a more cooperative manner, hoping to leave as soon as possible (emphasizing three courses of treatment, perhaps because he was afraid of establishing close relationship, as can be seen from the following story, he repeatedly avoided Cheryl's active contact, and had few friends, let alone good friends, after Jesse's death). Under the guidance, Fischer expressed an important feeling that childhood was like a rainy day, and talked about his childhood being abused at Mrs. Tate's house and being called a nigger. I remember two sentences deeply, "I tried many times to make her like me, but I never succeeded." "Mrs. Tate once turned us (three adopted children) against each other, so we began to hate each other, but now deep down, we hate ourselves." This reminds me of the value conditions such as care and respect of people-centered therapy. It is precisely because of such a thing that Fischer's self-development as a child was hindered. He repeatedly experienced these value conditions from the consequences of his actions, and finally internalized and alienated himself. This has also become one of the fundamental reasons for Fischer's symptoms. In this treatment, there can be a turning point, which should be conducive to the response of therapist Jerome, who fully embodies the characteristics of people-oriented theory. Such as * * * understanding, sincere recognition, unconditional active concern, without any diagnostic criteria, that is, not judging Fischer by external standards, creating an atmosphere in which he can feel emotions and explore himself freely without feeling threatened and restricted.

The following treatment was not carried out in depth, because the evaluation time of three courses of treatment had ended, and Jerome thought he could still stay in the navy. But I think Fisher has been given great hope after this treatment. Moreover, I have great trust in the therapist, that is, I have established a good consulting relationship and laid a good foundation for further treatment. This can be seen from his careful reading of Slave Society at the suggestion of the therapist, and from his conversation in the office after the fight, "I think I am just the beginning!" "What should I do, commander? Because I don't know what to do, I don't know what to do. " Bank of China confirmed.

Third, in-depth stage:

While reading the Slave Society given to him by the therapist, Fischer clashed with other sailors and got into a fight again. He ran to Jerome's office and got angry. At this time, he felt cheated because he trusted the therapist so much, but he didn't help him solve the problem. He is still the same, an angry and excitable nigger. It can also be seen that Fischer has realized his own problems and wants to change, but he doesn't know how to do it. His inner conflict is very serious. Jerome is very clever. He realized this and decided to spend extra time helping Fischer. He showed a strong sense of responsibility and sensitivity, which made him sincerely express his feelings and thoughts. On this basis, the consultation relationship of sincerity, understanding and trust has made the treatment enter a deeper level and the treatment effect has made a qualitative leap. This is also conducive to promoting three things that happened in this process.

The first thing was that Cheryl accepted Fisher's date. Cheryl's initiative and enthusiasm made Fischer experience a kind of intimacy that he had never experienced before, and felt the body evaluation of his body wisdom feedback, so he returned to his true self. At this time, he has been facing the therapist and himself with a positive attitude and emotion, being able to frankly exchange previous experiences and experiences, accepting them with an open attitude, and being less selective, distorted and denied.

The second thing is that in the Gulf of Mexico, an entertainment and leisure place was locked up because of a "virgin" sex joke and a fight. After this incident, it was discussed in depth that Fisher was sexually assaulted by Mrs. Tate's cousin when he was a child, which was a very important growth, because this period was also a crucial period for his relationship with Cheryl. This greatly promoted the process of his change, as can be seen from his association with Cheryl.

The third thing is to be invited to Jerome's Thanksgiving Day. This time, he was deeply stimulated, because home has always been so eager for him, but he dared not face it. The therapist deeply realized this and suggested that he go to his family. Only through experience can he liberate himself, that is, accept himself completely. Fischer at this time is also very real, achieving self-consistency Basically, the process of returning to human nature has been completed, and the therapist is aware of this. A beautiful poem "Who Crys for that Child" very accurately expresses his healthy psychological characteristics after accepting himself and taking responsibility for himself.

Fourth, the end stage:

Fischer graduated from a Japanese class, and his treatment should be over. Therapist Jerome knows this very well. But when the therapist explained to Fisher that it was all over, he became emotional again and felt abandoned. Therapists are smart. He sensitively grasped the cause of Fischer's outbreak, realized his inner contradiction, and then discussed the death of his good friend Jesse, which Fischer didn't say, and its influence on him. Let him look at the whole thing with a mature eye now and correct his alienated self. This outcome is successful and the therapeutic effect is remarkable. But Fisher himself still has a long way to go.

Five, after the stage:

Fischer has been very clear about his problems and solved most of them after treatment, but there is still the most difficult step to go by himself and find his family and mother. Only after this step can he be completely liberated. His courage is commendable. With the help of Cheryl, he began a difficult search. He returned to Mrs. Tate's house and found his uncle's house and his mother. In my uncle's house, I realized my dream, a warm and lively home. Fischer was completely liberated at this moment and rushed out of adversity. As he said, "I am not a saint." "That's so happy. I found my family and mother. I have forgiven her from the heart. "

Yes, a successful case of people-centered treatment is over. But the road to learning counseling and treatment has just begun. There is a sentence in Mr. Jiang's lecture: "Perhaps, the best way to learn people-oriented therapy is to participate in the treatment in person as a party. A complete treatment experience is much more useful than a written description. "

I have read many books about psychological counseling and therapy, and I know a lot about the theory, but I have never experienced it personally, and I always don't understand it, let alone contact it. Although this case is not personally involved, the film vividly and concretely shows the whole treatment process. I have uncovered all the mysteries in my heart and gained a lot of insights about the consultation relationship, self-formation, psychological barriers and psychological adaptation barriers, and the requirements for therapists. Only in this way can I feel the authenticity of psychological counseling and treatment.