If it involves the traditional thinking of parents, such as the problem of how many children are born at home, the thinking of preferring sons to daughters. If these ideas can't be changed, then I respect their ideas. But I will never give up my thinking to identify with them. I think the so-called accommodating parents means respecting their position, not letting go of their own. At this time, parents and we will have conflicts, real conflicts. This is a protracted war. You should always find enough reasons to prepare for the debate with your parents. Over time, even if their thinking will not change, they will accept your thinking, such as gender equality. If you indulge your parents' ideas, they will ask you to take action. Secondly, if parents are allowed to think deeply without debate, their thinking will never change. Of course, not everything needs to change. If parents' thinking has little influence on their real life, for example, they think that children should be taken care of by the elderly. As long as there is no strong opposition in your mind, there is no need to argue, but it is necessary to reach an understanding.
I just want to say once again that everyone is an independent individual and does not belong to anyone. If a person can even give up his own thinking, then he is not a complete person.