Nowadays, young men and women seem to attach too much importance to ceremony and romance when pursuing love. Pay too much attention to appearance, because people's ideas may change gradually with the changes of the times, but this change of love concept is definitely not for the better, because when all love is based on face value and economic conditions, this love is not true love. In the previous love, although there were parents' instructions, two people paid more attention to the tacit understanding of getting along together. If two people can be happy,
If you want to be a couple now, you have to have a house and a car, have the approval of your mother-in-law, and meet relatives and friends from all walks of life. It can be said that it is too difficult. People are more and more influenced by external ideas and some movies and TV plays. They think that love should be perfect, romantic, ceremonial and make them feel very happy. But in real life, love is often so cruel that it can't reach the ideal state, because reality is reality, and works of art all come from life and are higher than life, so it is basically impossible for us to reach the kind of love state expressed in literary works in real life.
Love should be down-to-earth, and it is normal to have certain cognition and requirements for each other's basic conditions at first. But this requirement should be based on self-equivalence. Only when you can meet that requirement can you ask others, just like saying that people want to find a perfect partner, then you should also be a perfect self.