Based on my half-life experience, I don't think I need to ask three questions about the soul.
0 1. What kind of fish we enjoy near the garden depends on our value orientation.
2019165438+129 October, Shangrao Intermediate People's Court of Jiangxi Province sentenced the defendant Wang Moujian to death for intentional homicide and deprived him of his political rights for life.
When a daughter tries to protect herself for a while, she will bear the shadow and trauma for a lifetime.
Public opinion has two levels. For a time, a "good father" image of "willing to forgive and hate" won the sympathy of many parents.
Do you envy such a "fish" with mixed feelings?
A girl who has just entered the workplace is highly valued by her boss and always takes it with her when socializing. In less than a year, the girl's position jumped two levels in a row.
Do you envy the "fish" who got promoted so quickly?
Man next door, who studied all the way, went to key primary schools, key middle schools and 985 universities, but lost his job and eventually suffered from depression.
Do you envy such a "Xueba" fish?
We will all find such him, her and them from around us. They are flowers and applause, that is, money, power or status, which can satisfy most of our vanity
If we have correct values, we will find that there are all kinds of unbearable behind us. A "good father" who is willing to forgive and hate destroys family and freedom, and a girl who is promoted quickly tramples on her dignity and youth. man next door needs a long period of treatment to recover.
Once we clearly believe that justice will never be absent even if it is late, that career achievement requires practical efforts, and that children's growth and physical and mental health are more important, with these correct values, it is not difficult to choose between the two.
The fish we saw in the forest garden need us to make up our minds and see if they are really worthy of our envy, as our pursuit direction and example.
02. It is more important to quit the network, and how to log in is more important.
1984 before the los Angeles Olympic games, bob Goldman, chairman of the Canadian anti-drug organization and a steroid expert, once asked such a question:
"If I have a magic drug, it will make you invincible in all competitions including the Olympic Games within five years. But please pay attention! You will die after taking this medicine for five years. Are you willing to accept it? "
He asked 198 outstanding athletes from all over the world, and as a result 103 athletes replied: I would like to eat!
Doping scandals never have only one protagonist.
Our common media have all kinds of negative news, such as plagiarism, academic fraud, simple and one-size-fits-all epidemic prevention and control measures and so on.
In their eyes, there may be many roads to that peak, but what they want must be the fastest one.
Mr. Jiang Yang once said that only by taking the path of choice, not the path of easy choice, can you have your true self.
The road we need to choose may be stormy, full of thorns and full of traps. Although it is not the fastest, it will be the one with the richest content, the most generous payment and the most comforting heart.
There is a good saying, after all, you have to pay back when you come out to mix. Even if you are Wang Sicong, you won't succeed casually.
No one can succeed casually. Edison said: "Genius is 99% sweat+1% inspiration.
Hua, who studies hard in poverty and illness, Su Dongpo, who knows all the words in the world and is determined to read all the books in the world, and Su, an Asian flying man who keeps breaking through, are many examples, which are examples for us to really learn and the light we are chasing.
Therefore, retreat and network formation are of course the key, but what path is more important.
03. What kind of network is temporary or lifelong?
Success is not easy, and it is worth celebrating. Maybe there will be a moment of ecstasy, which is also reasonable. After getting carried away, thinking that Laozi is the best in the world will inevitably become a joke.
In the past, Jiang Lang would be tired and Zhong Yong would be sad; How many complacent stars have fallen behind in the clearance operation since last year? Ning Zetao, once a world champion with infinite scenery, has also become a flash in the pan.
Be complacent in the face of achievements, forget to return in the face of honor, leave the sweat in the past, but forget it. No one can sleep on the credit book forever.
100-year-old Jiang Yang is still publishing books, and 9/kloc-0-year-old Yuan Longping is still making progress, determined to push China's hybrid rice technology to the world; There is no limit to China's speed. Sue will not be afraid of age and challenge to surpass it again and again.
These deeds, these glorious figures, inspire us all the time, and they never stop, let alone us?
Retreat and net, net for a while, fish for a while; A net for a lifetime, a fish for a lifetime.
Life is not to surpass others, but to surpass yourself.
Having a correct goal, firm belief, not afraid of setbacks and difficulties, and constantly climbing the peak of my heart is my humble opinion that "nothing ventured, nothing gained".