The "speech ceremony", one of the "eight ceremonies and four discussions", seems to me to be a virtue. It is not only easy to understand, learn and do, but also enables us to grow healthily and vigorously.

I remember when I was a child, I liked to call people. Once I went to my grandmother's house for dinner, whenever I saw someone I knew on the road, I would call him and give him a sweet smile. People who don't like being called think it's a very tiring thing, but I don't think so. Because I am lively and lovely, many people praise me and say that I am sensible, from which I get a lot of happiness. My parents have taught me since I was a child that etiquette is the foundation of being a man. It's been so many years now, and this sentence is still deeply imprinted in my heart, and I can't erase it if I want to.

Another time, my pencil case was thrown to the ground, but I was not angry. I was just about to pick it up when a kind-hearted man picked it up for me at a very fast speed and put it on my study desk. She is my good friend &; Shy; & shy; & shy; & shy; -Li Duanmu, at that time, she said to me: Chen Zixuan, your pencil case was not broken by those guys! I said, no, thanks! She added: These little things are not worth mentioning. At this moment, the classmate who dropped my pencil case looked at me and Li Duanmu and said, "Sorry, we didn't mean to. Please forgive us. Be careful when you play next time and try not to affect other students. " . We laughed happily.

From these two micro-stories, we know that etiquette is actually very simple, but it is such simplicity that we can bring a warm and harmonious society to everyone.

Chapter 2: Eight Rites and Four Devices

I believe that everyone is usually very civilized. Let's talk about it Today, let's learn about the "eight rituals and four rituals" that we usually do!

First of all, we need to know what "Eight Rites and Four Instruments" are. Eight rites refer to "the ceremony of appearance, the ceremony of eating, the ceremony of speaking, the ceremony of treating others, the ceremony of walking, the ceremony of watching, the ceremony of sightseeing and the ceremony."

The ceremony of appearance, education and guidance of minors neat appearance, decent clothes, natural hair style, generous and decent.

Catering ceremony, education and guide minors to pay attention to hygiene, cherish food, frugal diet and elegant diet.

Speech ceremony, education to guide minors to use civilized language, calm, patient listening, sincere and friendly.

Treat people with courtesy, educate and guide minors to respect teachers and respect education, love their partners, be tolerant and polite, and treat people with integrity.

Walk with courtesy, educate and guide minors to abide by rules, comity, help the elderly and the weak, and voluntarily give up their seats.

Watch the ceremony, educate and guide minors to observe order, care for the environment, concentrate on appreciation and applaud politely when watching literary performances and sports competitions.

During the tour, education guides minors to be kind to the landscape, cherish cultural relics, respect folk customs and abide by public morality.

Etiquette ceremony, education guides minors to pay attention to civilized etiquette, so as to salute according to the rules, be in awe, be serious and solemn, and respect customs and habits. "Four Instruments" mainly means that when students are 7 years old, 65,438+00 years old, 65,438+04 years old and 65,438+08 years old, schools should organize entrance ceremonies, growth ceremonies, youth ceremonies and adult ceremonies for them, and educate and guide minors to strengthen civilized manners.

See you next time, bye!

Chapter three: the composition of eight rites and four instruments

One of the "Eight Rites and Four Instruments" is "Speaking Rites", which can help us understand many truths, help us deal with some difficulties in life, and make everyone think that you are an educated person.

I remember when I was a child, I often heard my parents greet their neighbors warmly when they went upstairs and downstairs: "Hello!" "Ah, have you eaten?" I was puzzled and asked my father, "Dad, why do you think they always talk so much?" Dad smiled and replied, "Be a polite person! You will understand later. " Seeing and hearing, I gradually developed a good habit of polite language. During the summer vacation of senior one, my family traveled to Yunnan. On the last day, we had dinner in a restaurant. Before the end of the dinner, I said, "I'm finished, everyone eat slowly!" " "Suddenly everyone gave me a thumbs-up and praised me in unison:" This child is polite! Have a good future! "With this encouraging experience, I later paid more attention to the gift of speech.

At school, once, I had a conflict with my best friend. We haven't said a word for three days after our quarrel. As his former best friend, I should apologize and shake hands with him. As the saying goes, "Calm down for a while and take a step back." I found him and said to him, "master, I'm sorry, it's my fault." I shouldn't quarrel with you. " Hearing this sentence, he seemed to become the same as before, and said with a smile; "It's also my fault. Let's make up and stop arguing. " After that, the two of us held hands and ran to the playground together, having a good time.

The gift of speaking is very important to us primary school students. If we don't have the talent to speak, what should we do if we encounter embarrassing scenes? Let's be polite people together!

Chapter Four: Eight Rites and Four Devices

Since ancient times, China has been known as "the state of etiquette", and the ancients once said, "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand". The so-called "eight rituals and four ceremonies" refer to: the ritual of appearance, the ritual of eating, the ritual of talking, the ritual of treating others, the ritual of walking, the ritual of watching, the ritual of sightseeing and the ritual of ceremony; Admission ceremony, growth ceremony, youth ceremony, adult ceremony. But in real life, it is really not easy to achieve "eight rituals and four instruments"! Let me talk about the "impoliteness" around me!

One weekend, my father and I went shopping. On the road, I saw a young man walking east and west for a while, walking like an S-shape, and almost all the sidewalks that were not spacious were owned by him. Dad said, "Look, this man walks badly. You can't obey the traffic rules when you walk like him. One must have the gift of walking!

Once our family went to a relative's house for dinner, and everyone just took their seats. One of the children picked up chopsticks and put a pot of his favorite food in his bowl. Several elders here said that the child was too rude, but his mother said to me, "In fact, the child doesn't know the' dining ceremony'!" " "

I don't know if you still remember the news we saw last year: Last summer, it was suddenly reported that an China citizen was doodling on the pyramids while visiting Egypt! I remember when I heard the news, I heard angry voices. At the same time, I feel that people around me are cursing this unconscious citizen and are ashamed of his behavior. His words and deeds not only humiliated himself, but also humiliated the people of China. He made foreigners look down on us and made foreigners feel that China people have no quality. In fact, he doesn't know "the gift of sightseeing"!

Of course, there are countless bad habits in our daily life. After all, people who are polite will be respected and liked by others. On the contrary, not knowing manners will only make people not want to be near you, and you will lose friends. As we all know, the Youth Olympic Games will be held in Nanjing from 2065438 to August 2004. As the host, we will show the world the excellent manners and virtues of Nanjing people. Let's join hands, start from ourselves, start from the little things around us, and be a civilized and polite student.

Chapter Five: Eight Rites and Four Instruments Short Stories

Eight rites and four ceremonies are eight kinds of ceremonies, among which etiquette includes: etiquette, food ceremony, speech ceremony, governance ceremony, salute, observation ceremony, sightseeing ceremony and ceremony; Rituals include: entrance ceremony, growth ceremony, youth ceremony and adult ceremony.

There is a little story about etiquette in my happy childhood. I always forget to help the bowl when I eat, so I am often educated by my mother, but I can't remember it. One hot noon, I ate my lunch slowly and forgot to bring the bowl again. My mother came up to me and said, "Why did you forget the bowl again?" I'm telling you, eating is also polite. "I asked my mother curiously," Is there any etiquette for eating? " Mom said, "Remember to hold the bowl with your hands when eating, or pick it up, so that the bowl will not move and will not affect the people who eat next to you." "Also, after dinner, remember to say hello to others before leaving the table:' So-and-so, take your time.' Only in this way can we be educated and polite. "

I picked up the bowl and thought while eating, I want to do what my mother says and obey the etiquette. After dinner, I said hello to my family before leaving the table. The whole family looked at me with a smile and praised me for growing up and being polite. My heart is full of joy.

The Youth Olympic Games will be held in Nanjing soon, and friends from all directions will gather in Nanjing. I want to be a good boy with good manners, and abide by eight etiquette and four etiquette in my life, so as to add luster to the Youth Olympic Games and win glory for Nanjing.

Chapter 6: Eight Rites and Four Instruments in my heart.

China is a country with a long history of etiquette. Xunzi said: "If people are rude, there is no life; If things are rough, there will be no success; If the country is rude, it will be restless. " . Our elders taught us from an early age: "Don't talk when sleeping, don't talk when eating", "Old me and old people, young me and young people". Gifts such as appearance, dining, talking, treating people, walking, watching people, sightseeing and ceremonies educate each of us to be a civilized person at all times.

This spring, I went for a spring outing with my father. I met such a little brother on the tour bus. It is very dangerous for him to make a scene in the car and not listen to the driver's advice to run casually in the car. He also robbed other children's video games and pulled my hair. What he did seriously affected other tourists.

I think this little brother's behavior does not meet the requirements of "eight rituals and four rituals" at all. We should take this as a warning and strive to be civilized pupils.

Chapter 7: The micro-story of "Eight Rites and Four Instruments" around me.

"Eight Rites" is a good moral character that each of us must possess, and everyone should practice it well. China is a country of etiquette. If you can't even do these basic manners, what qualifications do you have to be a China person? However, there are many problems around us, which are caused by many reasons. Let's look at a classic example.

In China, many people like spitting. In order to save trouble, they casually spit. But in Singapore, spitting can be fined several thousand yuan. If you are found many times, you may be whipped. But I had a personal experience before, that is, one day I went to school and suddenly coughed, and some thick phlegm came out of my throat, like a monster invaded me. I feel very uncomfortable. I think: solve on the spot. Just about to vomit, I suddenly remembered the consequences of spitting: if everyone spits everywhere, wouldn't the asphalt road become a phlegm road? I immediately took out a napkin, vomited on it, and then found a trash can and threw it away.

The Eight Rites are the basic rules that we China people must abide by, and the Four Rites have witnessed our growing footprints. I'll stop here, thank you!