"Love is not a sweet talk in the shade of flowers, a sweet talk in a peach garden, a faint tear or a stubborn compulsion. Love is based on mutual understanding. " Only love based on mutual understanding is firm and sweet.

(2) factual arguments

Pei Shuying refused to get married.

Pei Ju, a senior official of the Sui Dynasty, married his daughter Shu Ying to Li. The position of military attache Li De is not high, but the husband and wife have deep feelings and are very affectionate. Later, Li offended the emperor, was dismissed and sent to Guangdong and Guangxi.

Pei Ju saw that something had happened to her son-in-law. In order to show his loyalty to the emperor, he asked the emperor to allow his daughter to divorce Li, and the emperor immediately approved it. Li thinks he is ill-fated, and he is afraid of implicating his wife. He also advised her to obey her father's orders, divorce and remarry. Shuying said that she would never change her mind and asked her husband to take good care of himself and wait for the reunion in the future. After Li left for more than ten years, Shuying repeatedly refused to remarry. Her father tried to force her to marry a man named Herry Liu. She cut off her hair and fought to the death, but finally she had to give up.

Deeply moved by the news that his wife was faithful to love, Li hurried home to reunite with Shuying.

The power of love

Elizabeth Barrett,/kloc-a famous British poetess in the 0/9th century, was a poet when she was a teenager. /kloc-at the age of 0/3, she published four volumes of epic poems about the Greek marathon. 15 years old, accidentally broke his spine while riding and was paralyzed in bed. Before she died, she insisted on poetry creation with tenacious will and wrote the far-reaching Children's Voice.

Bai Langning, a young poet six years younger than her, admired the poetess's character and talent, and they forged a profound friendship with each other. After four years together, Bai Langning deeply fell in love with the paralyzed poetess and made a passionate and firm confession to her. Barrett knew that he was disabled and thought that the other person was just a kind of sympathy, so he flatly refused the other person's courtship.

Bai Langning's love for Barrett is unshakable, and their correspondence is more frequent. Both sides feel that no one can live without anyone. Inspired by the power of love, a miracle happened and Barrett gradually got better. Soon I will be able to leave the hospital bed for more than 20 years and walk downstairs. When browning proposed to her for the third time, she readily accepted.

After they got married, they lived a very happy life.

Yan Ni and Marx are in the same boat.

Yan Ni was born into a noble family, smart, beautiful and gifted. Despite the opposition of her family, she fell in love with Marx, who was born in an ordinary lawyer family.

1843 In June, when Marx was persecuted by the reactionary German government and prepared to go into exile, she resolutely gave up her luxurious and comfortable family and married Marx. After marriage, due to Marx's drift from place to place, life was extremely difficult, and sometimes he could not even pay the rent. Their youngest son died of disease and hunger. But her unswerving love for Marx never wavered. She often says proudly: "I am very happy, because Marx is around, and he is the pillar of my life!" " "

(3) Theoretical argumentation

[Theoretical argument]

People must live, and love is beautiful.

Lu Xun's Wandering. Mourn the past. "

Two times two is two times two is two times two. This is the samadhi of love.

Chen Wangdao's My View of Love

Without love, there will be no happiness.

Guo Moruo's Tang Dihua

True love marriage, no matter how simple, will always be a sacred marriage.

Women's Issues in Chen Wangdao

Love conquers everything.

Virgil's pastoral [Rome]

Youth is freer than birds. Who can stop love?

[Russia] Pushkin's Wind Man

Love can overcome death and fear of death.

Turgenev's sparrow

Without love, all the beautiful scenes will be eclipsed.

The Ordinary Story of Von Chalov [Russia]

As long as two people love us to the end, why covet my Heron?

Song and Qin Guan's "Queqiao Fairy"

The love between men and women is the warmest emotion, so it is the highest and truest emotion.

Wen Yiduo's Winter Night Review

Life is limited, and love is infinite.

Song. Yan Shu's Walking on the Beach

Love is the crystallization of the whole personality.

Mao dun's new work

Love is the fusion of moral feelings, so only people with great personality can have great love.

Chen Wangdao's My View of Love

The pace of love is unstoppable by anyone.

[Ukraine] O. Voncher's "The Destination of Love"

Where there is fear, there is no love.

[Russia] Chernyshevski "How to Do"

Love is deep in my heart, but the surface of pain is fake.

Rou Shi's Mother of Slaves

Divorce is only the last resort to clean up the mess of honor, decline and love.

Introduction to Free Marriage in Chen Wangdao.

Love cannot be simply cultivated from the sexual attraction of animals. The power of love can only exist in the non-sexual quality of human beings.

Makarenko's "Parents Must Read" [former Soviet Union]

The law of love is the law of sacrifice.

Li Dazhao's dark movement

Love must be constantly renewed, grown and created.

Lu Xun's "Regret for the Past"

Only love can maintain and extend life.

Turgenev's sparrow

Without truth and trust, there is no love and friendship.

An Ordinary Year in Prilezhayeva

Love and deception are incompatible.

[Russia] Nasedekin's The Test of Emotion

Trust, respect and treat each other sincerely-this is the foundation of establishing true love.

[Russia] Nasedekin's The Test of Emotion

Love is not taking, but giving; Not a dream, not a dream-ah, love is not like this-it is kindness, honor, a harmonious and pure life.

Van Dyke. H "love"

Acacia is a thousand miles away, and a book is worth a thousand dollars.

Twelve farewell poems by Li Bai in Tang Dynasty

When a girl marries a rich man, it is not love. Property is the most insignificant thing. True love can only endure the pain of separation.

[Russia] Tolstoy's Our Relationship with Girls

True love is the best thing in the world.

Arabic proverb

Love should be learned from seniors, not from willow trees.

Chinese proverb

I like it not because I am beautiful, but because I like it.

European proverb

The power of love is so great that everything in the world is eclipsed.

Left, a light blue book.

I miss you so much that I am old.

History of the North, Biography of Birds in Korea

Falling in love is good, but it must be true love, because true love can make a person noble.

[former Soviet Union] stanislavski quoted from the director.

Love should know how to cherish, and cherish it more with the years.

[Russia] Love Poems by Stitch Bachov

If there is no love in life, it will become boring and literature and art will be eclipsed.

[Japan] Saneatsu Mushakoji's life theory