This paper discusses the importance and practice of time management by using the theory of time management, aiming at making us wake up early and live a regretless college life.
Keywords: time management tendency, life planning
Time management is to help people finish their work and achieve their goals with skills, techniques and tools. Time management is not to finish everything, but to use time more effectively. With the rapid development and change of society, the research on time management has been highly valued by many scholars and enterprise managers, but it has not attracted the attention of college students. Mr. Kai-fu Lee said: "In my memory, college is the most beautiful and important time. However, in the exchange exhibition with some college students, I always feel that many students have not fully exerted the potential of the university for four years. " Don't say that you have no choice or no time just because you are running away-no one is short of time, but everyone allocates time in different ways.
First, the general confusion and current situation of college students' time management
After entering the university, the students put down the burden of the college entrance examination for the first time, stayed away from their hometown, began to pursue their ideal interests, and learned to make their own choices and decisions in the face of various temptations. For the first time, they don't need their parents to arrange everything in life and study, so they have enough time to deal with all kinds of problems in life and study freely and control all their time.
However, in the process of this transformation, some students, after being admitted to the university, suddenly found that their disposable time suddenly increased, but they did not know how to manage their time and control themselves. These people often indulge in bad hobbies such as online games because they are not strict with themselves or careless in making friends, and eventually neglect their studies and delay their future. Some college students are faced with various popular ideas and values on campus, such as business, entrepreneurship, going abroad, politics and so on. Feeling at a loss or following other people's advice, I have completely lost my position and opinion. I don't know how to spend my time.
Chinese scholars Huang Xiting and Zhang Zhijie put forward a new concept-time management tendency from the perspective of personality psychology: it is a dynamic painful feature of individuals, consisting of time value, time monitoring and time efficacy, which reflects people's attitudes and values towards time and promotes individuals to move towards certain goals. People often say that there are two kinds of people in universities: talents and scum. Many college students, who have no goals, have a lot of time but are at a loss: lying in bed in the dormitory, chatting on QQ and fighting in online games. Everyone feels that they have a lot of youth and college days, so they start to relax themselves and sometimes become confused. ......
Second, the reasons for college students' time waste
There are many reasons why college students waste their time, both subjective and objective. Subjective reasons are the root of a person's waste of time, so let's look at subjective reasons (1). (2) Procrastination; (3) Lack of focus and failure to grasp the focus; (4) Pay too much attention to details; (5) doing things with a head and no tail; (6) Chaos, lack of conciseness and complication of simple things; (7) Do everything yourself, and don't know how to authorize; (8) Will not refuse other people's requests; (9) negative thinking.
All these make us college students unable to control their own lives, make good use of their own time, move in their own direction, and even get lost in a hurry. Go back to the dormitory at night and turn on the computer. When I think about doing my homework, it's time to sleep. Time management is extremely unreasonable.
Third, the importance of time management
Whether a person can succeed depends on his attitude and thinking method. Attitude determines action, and way of thinking determines direction. In other words, if a person moves in the right direction, he will certainly succeed. In other words, effective actions and correct thinking methods are the guarantee of success. If you want to succeed, managing your time is a very important and key factor. A person's achievements are in direct proportion to his time management.
Four years of college is a dream time for young people and the most influential stage in life. Undergraduate study is a process of talent reserve competitiveness, a process of preparing for sprint and a process of brewing essence. Although Microsoft wizard Bill Gates dropped out of school in his junior year, he said after his brilliant career success: "My experience at Harvard University was an extraordinary experience. It is the experiences and people I met here, as well as the ideas and concepts I have generated that have changed me forever. " Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and Pixar Animation, also dropped out of college, but he also said, "With curiosity and intuition, many things I chose to participate in and accidentally set foot in in college proved to be very valuable." He suggested to Stanford University students, "Your time is limited, so don't waste it on living other people's lives. Don't let other people's voices drown out your inner voice. The most important thing is to have the courage to listen to your heart and intuition. " Thomas wilson, the 28th president of the United States, warned college students in his speech at Princeton University that four years of college life can never be rebuilt and is unique in everyone's experience.