First of all, we have absolute strength in our own professional field.
She is a very powerful doctor in starfish hospital, and competitors also rely on her to find information papers; In the face of ups and downs and unfairness in her career, she took on the task that her opponent ignored, wiped her tears and smiled, and on the other hand seized the opportunity to achieve herself; When she was sent to uruk for a mission, she was strong enough and was entrusted with the important task of captain of the medical team.
In addition to female number one, female number two and official number two Yin Mingzhu were asked when chatting with the male host, "Why not open a clinic in Jiangnan and come to a place like uruk?" They patted their chests and replied heroically, "I have ambitions, too. I want to be a general!" " As a senior and elder, the man's face also showed a approving smile.
More than once, a man said to a woman, "You are sexiest when you wear a surgical gown." Countless people are fascinated by this man's military uniform. Here I really want to discuss the interesting topic of "uniform fantasy": soldiers and doctors, why are these two kinds of people in uniform so attractive? Because uniforms originally represent professionalism, formality and discipline. Coincidentally, I also need to wear uniforms in my career. I still clearly remember the ecstasy of my colleagues when I first put on my uniform six years ago. At that time, I was still attending induction training at the training base. Watching us put on uniforms with ecstasy, the instructor solemnly said: "For us, uniforms are not just work clothes, but also dresses; It is a symbol of occupation, an recognition of identity, and represents our professionalism, discipline and norms! "
Therefore, a serious and dedicated woman is the most beautiful; Strength and authority in the workplace can bring women the greatest degree of self-confidence; This self-confidence from the inside out is a woman's strongest self-confidence in life, work and love. Zhang Ziyi, the movie star, got ahead in the world at a young age, and the subsequent star road was not smooth sailing; But after a period of dormancy,
From 20 13 to 20 14, Zhang Ziyi won more than 12 awards, such as the 50th Golden Horse Award, the 33rd Golden Academy Award and the 32nd Hundred Flowers Award, for his role of "Gong Er" in The Grand Master ... which set a record for a film in China. (Excerpted from Baidu Encyclopedia)
Therefore, in the bizarre entertainment circle, when the scandal between her and Wang Feng was heated up, no matter how ironic the public opinion was to her, I only remember a photo of her circulating on the Internet at that time: dozens of trophies from major film festivals lined up, followed by Zhang Ziyi with a confident smile. At that time, someone commented: "The confidence brought by so many trophies is incomparable to those' carpet stars' who attract attention by hype and scandal."
There is a similar role in TVB's hit Hong Kong drama Acts 20 14. Zhuo Wei, played by Michael Miu, accidentally discovers that Mo Xianxin's sister, Mo Xianqing, has been repeatedly subjected to domestic violence, but she has to swallow it. Full-time nurses who resigned from home endured violence, infidelity and deception from their husbands again and again, except crying and escaping alone. With the encouragement of her sister and Zhuo Wei, Mo Xianqing finally divorced her husband and re-entered the workplace. I put on my robe again and argued in court. I struggled for a little evidence, and I also gained Zhuo Wei's sincerity and my perfect love. Looking at the energetic and thoroughly remoulded sister, my sister Mo Xianxin sincerely praised: "That majestic sister is back …" I have always been deeply impressed by this scene; Really, a woman who works hard, lives seriously and is full of confidence is the most beautiful and lovely.
Secondly, face life and love with hope, but also face it calmly.
As an excellent Korean drama, the hero and heroine staged a standard Korean romantic love for us with extremely high value and touching "teasing each other" techniques; But what does not fall into the stereotype is that when the hostess treats love, she yearns for love and hopes for love, but she is not subject to love and faces it calmly.
In the face of handsome and excellent pursuers, she was moved; So boldly admit, dare to love and hate, not charming, crisp and neat; But she was not carried away by love, and her IQ was still online in the torrent of love-she always remembered that she was a doctor, and she calmly faced the collision of their values and weighed the trade-offs; Realizing the difference, I decided not to continue this relationship. In fact, from the "last words" on the cliff, we know that she still likes Liu Dawei very much; However, she has never lost herself for love.
I appreciate this attitude towards love: looking forward to love without losing myself. In the second episode, she confessed to the male host: "In those bad moments (referring to the frustration of career and the change of professor), I still thought of Mr. YOO SI JIN; However, he is not here. " The subtext is: I need you when I am most lonely and helpless; But I can't complain about your absence, nor can I pester you not to let you go.
For her, love is a beautiful dessert. When it was placed in front of her, she enjoyed it in the best mood and tasted this pleasant sweet and sour taste. But if not, a bowl of instant noodles can reassure her in the harsh environment of uruk. In the face of regrets in love, there is no need to complain or resent; Because, without love, she can live well.
* * * with sisters!