Mutual understanding is the foundation of friendship.

There was an outstanding musician Yu Boya in the Spring and Autumn Period. He is good at playing the piano. It is said that even a grazing horse will look up and listen when playing the piano. At that time, Zhong Ziqi was the only one who knew the beauty of Boya. Boya expressed her feelings for the mountain with the piano. Zhong Ziqi said after listening: "Well, I am like Mount Tai." When expressing the mood of flowing water with the sound of the piano, he said, "Good, like a river." Later, when Zhong Ziqi died of illness, Boya was heartbroken and broke the piano and strings, vowing never to play again for life.

New edition of world stories

-Different ways, not friends

In the Eastern Han Dynasty, Guan Ning and Hua Xin were old friends. One day, when they were weeding in the garden, they found a piece of gold in the field. Ning Guan regarded gold as a tile, lingering away, and Hua Xin picked it up and put it aside. Once again, two people were reading at the same table, and some dignitaries passed by by by car. Guan Ning was not disturbed, but Huaxin went out to read as usual, envious. Guan Ning saw that Hua Xin and his friends were not really like-minded, so he cut the table and sat separately. Since then, he has never been friends with Hua Xin.

Friends are more important than champions.

-Friendship is the most important thing.

Bai Minzhong, a politician and writer in the Tang Dynasty, and He Ba, who was free and easy, were very good friends, and they went to Beijing together to catch the exam. At that time, the examiner appreciated Bai Minzhong's talent and wanted to take him as the top scholar, but he was not satisfied with his association, so he sent a letter to Bai Minzhong. Bai Minzhong wanted to be admitted, so he refused to have any contact with him. But he regretted it afterwards, so he ran out to congratulate him, told him about it, and then said, "What's the big deal about being the number one scholar? Is it more important than friends? " Two people to drink, Wang Qi know, accepted the invitation together.

Zhang Taiyan and Zou Rong

-Friends are like-minded

Zhang Taiyan, a modern writer and anti-Qing scholar, and Zou Rong, a patriot and author of Revolutionary Army, are 16 years old, but they have forged an unforgettable friendship because of their similar interests. Zou Rong was persecuted in the Japanese anti-Qing Dynasty and was forced to return to Shanghai to visit Zhang Taiyan. They hit it off immediately and became bosom friends. Zhang Taiyan was arrested for instigating the revolution, but Zou Rong surrendered himself to take responsibility. After being persecuted to death. Zhang Taiyan repaired the grave, inscribed and carved stones with his own hands, expressing his deep mourning for his dead friend.

Lu Xun and Qu Qiubai

It is enough to have a bosom friend in life.

Lu Xun and Qu Qiubai met in the spring and summer of 1932 and hit it off. From then on, they fought side by side, promoted the revolutionary cultural movement and forged a profound friendship. In the white terror, Qu Qiubai took refuge in Lu Xun's home. Later, Lu Xun arranged a residence for Qu Qiubai, and asked him to publish essays under the pseudonym of Bai Zhi. Mr. Lu Xun once personally inscribed Qu Qiubai's couplet "It is enough to have a bosom friend in life;" The world should be presented to Qu Qiubai with "sympathy". After Qu Qiubai's death, he still insisted on publishing Marine Forest for his old friend to express his deep condolences.

The most sacred thing

-Friendship is worth cherishing.

Boccaccio, an Italian Renaissance writer, said: "Friendship is the most sacred thing, which deserves not only special praise, but also eternal praise. It is the mother of generosity and honor, the emotion and the Sisters Of Mercy, and the deadly enemy of hatred and greed. It is always ready to sacrifice itself for others, and it is completely voluntary and does not need others to beg. "

Half of life

Friends are the other half of life.

The great German writers Goethe and Schiller are close friends. Although they are quite different in age and temperament, their pursuit of sameness and love for literature closely link them. Schiller wrote William Tell's plays, and Goethe provided Schiller with all the relevant materials he collected. The writing of Goethe's William Meister was also helped by Schiller. After Schiller's untimely death, Goethe wrote very sadly: "I lost a friend and half my life at the same time."

Marx and Engels friendship

-forging sincere and selfless friendship in the struggle

Since the two founders of Marxism, Marx and Engels, met in Paris on 1844, they have worked hard for the international proletarian movement and forged sincere and selfless friendship in the struggle. Over the past 40 years, they have cooperated sincerely and been close, and maintained a high degree of consistency on all major issues. Together, they wrote many classic works about scientific socialism. Although they live in two places, they communicate, exchange thoughts and feelings and support each other. Both of them are proud of knowing each other, and their friendship has surpassed all the ancients and become a story of the international proletarian movement.

He was dragged into the basin by his friends.

Be careful when making friends.

Chen Jianmin, former vice president of Zhengzhou Xingyang Sub-branch of Bank of China, unfortunately made such a "friend". This "friend" cares more about the president than his parents, sends a car to the villa, and then gets a huge loan through the president. Someone warned this "friend": "You are eating the bank. If your company has no strength and can't afford the bank loan, you are digging a hole for yourself and will die in the future! " Listen to this friend's answer: "I didn't dig a hole, it was a basin." When I die, everyone who has used my money will die with me! I'm not the only one buried in the basin! "The vice president was finally dragged into the basin by" friends "in the form of bribery.

Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei

-Friendship is based on Comrade * * *

Liu Bei was born in Zhuoxian County, Zhuo Jun. My father died early and lived with my mother, weaving mats and selling straw sandals. At that time, at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, the Yellow turban insurrectionary revolted and the world was in chaos. Liu Bei made friends with heroes, joined forces and organized armed forces. Guan Yu was born in Xie Xian County, Hedong. Zhang Feizi Yide, also a distinguished gentleman, went with Guan Yu to be Liu Bei's escort. Liu Bei eats and lives with them, sleeps in the same bed, and is like a brother. Later, Cao Cao captured Guan Yu and tried his best to treat him well. First, he became a partial general, and then he was made a Han Shou Hou Ting, and he was rewarded a lot. But Guan Yu was preoccupied with Liu Bei and finally left Cao Cao. "Riding a thousand miles alone", after five passes and six generals, went through all kinds of hardships and found Liu Bei. From then on, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei fought side by side with Liu Bei and made contributions. Liu Bei has always treated them like brothers. Taoyuan Jieyi, as a much-told story, has been passed down from generation to generation.

Liu's friendship does have a strong loyalty, but behind it, it is Comrade Liu's * * * direction when he became sworn in Taoyuan. This can be clearly seen from Liu's oath in Taoyuan: "Although Liu Bei, Guan Yu and Zhang Fei have different surnames, since they are brothers, they work together to help the poor and help the poor, serve the country and settle down, and do not expect to be born on the same day in the same year, but to die on the same day in the same year. After the death of the emperor, I really learned this heart, ungrateful, heaven and earth. "

Liu Zongyuan and Liu Yuxi

Put yourself in your friend's shoes.

Liu Zongyuan and Liu Yuxi were like-minded friends in the Tang Dynasty. Now, Wang and others launched a political innovation movement. Liu and Liu are the main members of this group, and they show indomitable fighting spirit in the political struggle between conservatives and reformists within the landlord class. After the reform movement was suppressed, both of them were relegated. In the tenth year of Yuanhe, Liu Zongyuan was transferred from Yongzhou Sima to Liuzhou Secretariat. At this time, Liu Yuxi was also transferred from Longzhou Sima to Bozhou Secretariat. Bozhou is located in a wild land, thousands of miles away. Rachel's mother is old, so it is inconvenient to carry her behind her back. If she stays alone, the mother and son may become eternal. Liu Zongyuan decided to solve problems for his friends. He went to the imperial court, so please exchange Liuzhou. As a result, Liu Yuxi was transferred to Liuzhou For this rare friend in need, Han Yuefa commented: "Poverty is justice. Today, the husband and wife treat each other as guests in Curie Lane, and the game of drinking and eating is far away. They take off their vivid laughter, shake hands and talk happily, show their lungs and liver, and swear that life and death will not be negative, if true. Once you have a little interest in your face, it's just like your hair. If you don't know each other, you will save the trap, squeeze and throw a stone. " (Epitaph of Liu Zihou) Two friendships and two situations, once compared, compete with each other.

Sweet-talking "friends"

Evil friends kill people.

Wang Dasen, former director of Zhejiang Chemical Plant, was one of the first experts to enjoy the special allowance of the State Council. Supposedly, he is a man with a bright future, but unfortunately, he made a sweet-talking "friend"-the general manager of a company in Shaoxing. When Wang Dasen first took office, the general manager gave him a big envelope containing 30,000 yuan, and said in a friendly way: "You just took office, take this 30,000 yuan and do some shopping first." When Wang Dasen hesitated, the "friend" immediately said, "Are you afraid that the Brotherhood will harm you? Don't worry ... "Later, this" friend "often came to" help "and asked Wang Dasen to guarantee his loan. Of course, this "friend" did not forget to give Wang Dasen a "benefit fee". In the end, the truth came out. Wang Dasen fell into the hands of this "friend" who said "Don't worry" and "I won't harm you" and was sentenced to 16 years.

The life of making friends

Friendship does not lie in superficial enthusiasm.

During the Warring States period, there were two good friends, both of whom worked for Guiguzi at that time. They are the famous lobbyists Su Qin and Zhang Yi.

Su Qin debuted earlier, and his success came smoothly, while Zhang Yichu was more ordinary and depressed when he debuted, and he didn't know what the future would be like. Seeing that Su Qin has become a big event, I want to join my family and find a shortcut to promotion. So he went to Su Qin's house, hoping to have a chance to meet him. For several days, Su Qin didn't come to see him. Later, Su Qin's subordinates arranged for him to stay. Su Qin didn't entertain his former classmates warmly. When eating, he didn't sit with them, but also put him in the last seat and ate the coarse rice that the servants only ate. Su Qin often humiliated him with words, saying, "With your talent, how can you be so poor?" ? I really can't help you, you'd better rely on your own luck! Good luck. "

Yoko, who came from afar, thought he would get warm hospitality and help after meeting his old friends. Unexpectedly, she attracted nameless humiliation. So he angrily left Su Qin's residence, hoping to compete with Su Qin with his talent.

After Yi Cheung left, Su Qin secretly sent someone to help him get money and support him in lobbying Qin. People in Su Qin were surprised and asked Su Qin what was going on. Su Qin said, "Zhang Yi is above me. I'm afraid it's because I'm too complacent about the status quo for short-term interests, so I lost my fighting spirit. Therefore, I insulted him in order to arouse his ambition. "

The two sides of the strait can't forget the friendship of the New Year.

Friends have no age limit.

On both sides of the Taiwan Strait, there are such a pair of friends who forget to make friends. One is Mr. Chen Lifu, a 93-year-old KMT veteran, and the other is Chen Li, a 4-year-old female student of Fuzhou Huaying English School/KLOC. The difference between them is 79 years old, commensurate with their grandchildren, and they communicate frequently. Chen Li first learned Chen Lifu's name in People's Daily on September 7th, 1988. Because "Chen Lifu" has one more word than "David Li Chen", I was deeply impressed. 199 1 On the eve of the Spring Festival, Taiwan Province scholar Chen went to the mainland to visit Chen Li's father. It suddenly occurred to her whether she could bring a painting to Grandpa Lifu for the New Year. So, I picked out the most satisfactory one from seven owl pictures with different expressions and wrote the word "one-eyed". At the same time, I also drew a daffodil, and asked Mr. Chen Lifu to inscribe it. Soon, Chen Li received Chen Lifu's reply and the painting sent back after the inscription. Replied: "You are only 13 years old, and it is really cute to draw such a beautiful picture." "The unique eye you gave me was framed and hung in my bookstore." In his letter, Mr Chen Lifu also hoped that David Jerry Lee would send him a photo. They have been writing letters since then. Chen Lixian received 25 letters and 28 calligraphy and paintings from Mr. Chen Lifu, as well as color photos from Mr. Chen Lifu. On one occasion, Li Chen bought a small and exquisite photo frame with the bonus she won in the essay of Love in the Straits and gave it to Mr. Chen Lifu. Chen Lifu was very excited and wrote, "It means a lot that you spent money to buy me such a lovely little gift. I will put your photo in it, put it on my desk and see you every day, ok? " When he went to the mainland, he specially entrusted his nephew to send a box of luxurious and exquisite Italian chocolate candy to Chen Li, and also sent a copy of only two paintings he had painted in his life to Chen Li.