A person's life has to go through many things. Among them, there are many examples of failure. Facing failure, different people have different attitudes. When some people hear that they have failed in doing something, they will be devastated and give up all day; On the other hand, others are different. In the face of failure, they will always actively look for the reasons for failure and start all over again.
There is a saying: "Failure is the mother of success." Romain rolland once said, "Turn grief into strength." Indeed, when we face failure, we must not be devastated, but learn to smile and face failure. Don't take failure as a major event, because being cruel to the enemy will affect your judgment. We should despise failure. Only in this way can we defeat it. Winning or losing is a common occurrence in military strategists.
At all times, hundreds of millions of people have faced failures in their lives. Some of them flinched in the face of difficulties, some made efforts, and some persisted until the end. Only those who persist to the end will succeed later, while the other two kinds of people are the opposite.
Former American President Lincoln is a very typical example. When he was young, he worked as a businessman and ran for office. He made nearly twenty attempts back and forth, all of which ended in failure. But he eventually became one of the greatest presidents in American history. Contrary to Lincoln, it was General Xue Yue of the Kuomintang army. General Xue has the title of "South China Tiger" in the national army and is one of the right-hand men under the general manager. He planned and skillfully repelled many Japanese attacks. When General Xue was deified by the media, he was defeated by Japan because of his pride. Since then, the South China Tiger has been destroyed and has never commanded any decent battles.
On the long road of life, we will all experience many failures, big and small. Some failures are even too big for our psychology to bear. However, we should not be discouraged and give up failure. In that case, it is equivalent to abandoning ourselves. We should go forward bravely, concentrate only on overcoming the moment of failure or success, and don't have any distractions. Not only are we cruel, but being too happy will also affect our judgment.