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Be good at listening to suggestions and opinions.
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There are two kinds of mistakes: one is your own mistake, and the other is the mistake of others. Most people's own mistakes, in order to save face or avoid responsibility, will work very hard to cover up and conceal their achievements. They refuse to change, so those who always make the same mistake again and again will seize the infinite exaggeration and want to kill the setting. Such people are stricter and more extensive than the law, and there is no need to distinguish right from wrong, which ultimately hurts themselves and others.

How to deal with your own mistakes? People are not saints, and what can and can be changed is itself an amazing achievement. Many mistakes are identified as early as possible and corrected in time, which will not cause too much harm and the responsibility that needs to be borne will not be too great. If you delay the cover-up, the mistake will not stop, and the danger will only get bigger and bigger, which will eventually make it difficult for you to take responsibility, but you have to accept punishment, damage and hurt yourself. For example, there is little hope that the Three Gorges Project can withstand the once-in-a-thousand flood, from "once in a thousand years" to "once in a hundred years". As we all know, this is wrong. Confirming facts is the premise of solving problems and admitting mistakes. In fact, we can stop work and consider the remedial measures of reconstruction or bombing to reflect on the reasons caused by the opaque and undemocratic decision-making at the beginning. This is wrong, so as not to make the same mistake on similar issues in the future. If you don't admit the wrong facts, it is natural to repeat the same mistakes and continue to build. Geological disasters and ecological disasters occur frequently, or one day, people who have devastating floods become fish. The power of nature is definitely not something that an ignorant lie can resist. If you deny it, or try to evade your responsibility and cover up your mistakes, only by repeating the same mistakes, maintaining your dignity, early identification, timely correction and active remedy can you minimize the losses caused by your mistakes; Here we go again. In the worst case, it is harmful to yourself, but it is disastrous.

How to deal with other people's mistakes? If you are willing to admit that they didn't catch it and correct it, you can also consider helping them. After all, no one can guarantee that he will not make mistakes, be tolerant and kind to others, and be tolerant and kind to himself. If a small number of people who don't know their face mistakes don't change, if it's just their own disaster, so be it. If the disastrous consequences of others are even catastrophic, they will be severely repaired, or even attacked with heavy fists and rectified with an iron fist; People's big mistakes, they would rather die than admit it, and they would rather die than change it. Innocent people are poisoned because they can't scream in vain.

Whether others point out our mistakes or not, we take the initiative to reflect on our mistakes, admit our mistakes and correct them, not to explain them to others, but to improve ourselves. A person never doubts that they may be wrong, and usually makes a big mistake, especially a mistake, or even an irreparable mistake. He just accepts criticism from time to time to reflect, three times a day, and learns from his mistakes every day and grows constantly.

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The promising soldier killed his comrade-in-arms by mistake and was extremely remorseful. He applied for retirement and gave up his bright future. However, the tragic death scene of his comrade-in-arms did not leave the military camp to ease his conscience, but it often appeared in his mind. Since then, he has never recovered and lived in a moment of regret and pain. Instantaneous negligence causes irreparable harm. Repentance is the truth, because it should be, but people can't help wondering about the debts my conscience has made me owe in my life, but they have doubts about the soldiers' practices: giving up my career and then giving up my life can bring my comrades back to life? Can it make up for the huge losses caused by the relatives of the deceased? Probably people want to see him pull himself together, learn from a painful experience, face life bravely and try to make up for the harm done to him by his comrades-in-arms with practical actions.

You always make mistakes in life. In the face of inevitable mistakes, some people face them squarely and actively correct them. Such mistakes are stepping stones to success. Learn from mistakes and keep learning. They can laugh at mistakes, so their mistakes become more valuable. Others, however, can't face their mistakes, or try to justify them, ignore their existence, or indulge in them, because one mistake is suspected of losing confidence in themselves, or even self-exile. If the former person has built a bridge between himself and happiness, then the latter person has cut off the road to happiness-even a small step can be happy, and they prefer to be surrounded by sadness itself.

When the centenarian was interviewed by a reporter, the reporter asked why the voice of the long-lived old man sounded unclear and replied, "Learning is fun. The secret of happiness is: others make mistakes, pay less attention to their own mistakes, think more about whether it is difficult for others, and don't mess with ordinary old people. Then, think carefully, but full of wisdom. Besides how to deal with other people's mistakes, how to deal with our own mistakes is worth grasping. As I said just now, a person will inevitably make mistakes, stop at the road ahead and get along with himself blindly. It's not just a happy life. If he sticks to his past mistakes too much, he may never miss them and never succeed again.

Scientists who have made outstanding achievements, regardless of their subsequent failures, are often countless mistakes. A very important reason for their success is that they face all the mistakes, learn lessons and gain experience. Edison invented the electric light and experimented with thousands of materials. Pierre and Marie Curie discovered radium and experienced many failures. Does their success show a correct attitude towards mistakes? BR/>; Soldiers who have suffered lifelong regret for a long time believe that it will be better to have more centenarians, answer wisely and treat their mistakes correctly. I believe that happiness and success are not far away.

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No one is perfect, there is no gold. It is impossible for a person to make no mistakes all his life. Personally, he has accumulated experience in making mistakes.

& lt/ The future development direction and goal of things are sometimes unclear, and there is often no ready-made reference on how to go in the future. This may be the risk of crossing the river by feeling the stones, or it may be creative, such a natural decision-making mistake, but you can't be afraid, hesitate, explore and explore for the first time because it may make mistakes, otherwise you will miss all kinds of opportunities. Mistakes are inevitable, but the reason for disharmony is that we have made a new mistake. We should be careful, because some wrong behaviors will cause losses and damage to others. We should make as few or no mistakes as possible, at least we shouldn't make the same mistakes. Mistakes can be forgiven, but making the same mistakes is unforgivable.

Making mistakes is not terrible. The key is to recognize it, correct it, sum up experience and lessons, and learn from it. I'm afraid I know I'm wrong, but I still admit that I don't know how to repent after I die, and I will continue on the wrong road. Some people make mistakes, but they are afraid of losing face and self-esteem. They dare not admit their mistakes and face problems. It is very unwise to avoid mistakes, but it is actually very difficult to be afraid of correcting mistakes and showing weakness. This is not conducive to correcting mistakes, and it is also not conducive to the healthy growth and rapid progress of individuals. It is wise to admit your mistake, face the reality bravely, cut the tumor and scrape the bone reluctantly, and the sick body will recover soon.

Mistakes in thought will inevitably lead to mistakes in action. To change our actions, we must first solve our ideological mistakes. On the premise that mistakes must be corrected, some people have made mistakes, but I don't think the reason for the mistakes is that people don't know. Admitting and correcting mistakes requires a scientific attitude and a spirit of seeking truth from facts. You should follow the law of the development of things, adopt the correct way of thinking, fully understand the situation, carefully examine the influence, purpose, motivation, behavior and result of various factors on the development of things, and consider the influence on the overall situation and reality, so as to find the disease and make a logical and regular evaluation on the process and result of the development of things.

You should be strict with your mistakes, insist on self-awakening, self-motivation, self-restraint, and often reflect on your behavior. If the error situation changes, take remedial measures as soon as possible to avoid greater losses and minimize the negative impact of the error. Be good at listening to criticism and other people's suggestions, and seek the attitude omen of "I am glad to hear criticism and suggest' correcting mistakes'". In order to overcome the psychology of facing, let go of unnecessary self-esteem and courage, face problems and correct mistakes.

For those who make unprincipled mistakes, we should be tolerant, considerate and emotional, and help others improve this problem on the grounds of rationality to avoid the recurrence of such problems. Other principled mistakes should also be well-intentioned, realistic, reasonable and subtle, so that others can see the nature of the mistakes and harmful methods and strategies, and enhance their confidence and determination. Those who stubbornly persist in their mistakes and obviously harm the interests of the state, the collective and others need to be given the necessary struggle.

What can be changed is itself a great achievement. In order to let go of the burden and correct mistakes better and faster, so as to improve one's quality and self-cultivation and correct mistakes. Keep discovering mistakes and correcting them, and you will succeed step by step and win.