It is a well-known truth that money can't buy happiness (why money can't buy happiness). Although this is true, poverty can't buy happiness. Some people are rich, but they still suffer from unhappiness; On the contrary, others don't have much money, but they spend their lives with satisfaction because they know how to enjoy what they have to the maximum.
Having wealth and happiness is still the most satisfying. In order to achieve this goal, I suggest the following steps:
Cherish the simple and simple life
The purpose of life is not to desperately collect money. We must learn to cherish what we have and appreciate the life we have. For example, if we throw away unnecessary sundries in the room, it will make people feel empty and free.
If you think that happiness comes from the possession of property, you are wrong. If a little property can make you feel satisfied, you can also get happiness. Our happiness lies not in what we have, but in our inner satisfaction.
Don't be a slave to money.
Do you feel heartache because you spend money, if it is to buy something useful? Even Mr. Bill Gates will feel unhappy because of spending money. Some people say that he chose economy class instead of first class by plane. However, the real problem is that if you don't want to spend money, you lose all the meaning of making money.
A good attitude towards money is to regard it as a circular flow-that is, spending money will bring more money to our lives, instead of putting all the money into it like building a dam; We should spend our money on meaningful things. There is no point in storing water unless we use it to generate electricity. Similarly, if we save money because it is too painful to spend money, it is meaningless.
Try not to worry about money.
If we only regard money as a small part of our life and hardly think about it, we will become very happy. In order to achieve this, we must try to avoid debt, because it is usually difficult to get rid of it. Learn to spend as planned, not on impulse. If you really want a loan, you must first have a perfect plan, and then choose an acceptable and reasonable loan project.
Try to avoid complex and high-risk investment plans, which may have high returns, but also have great risk of failure. A good financial plan should be simple and balanced, so that you won't worry about the income. So we need to find a safer way to invest, so that we can let go and not be afraid of getting stuck.
Don't be jealous
No matter how much money you have, are you still jealous of those who have more money? A recent survey asked people whether they were willing to choose a salary higher than the national average. They could have chosen to get a higher salary in a certain country, but the salary is lower than the national average. Surprisingly, however, most of them chose to get a salary in a country with a low average level. Although it is not that high, the salary is higher than the average level.
I don't think it makes sense. Others have more money than you should not be the reason why you are unhappy. It is good for others to live a full life. Don't feel sorry for yourself just because you haven't surpassed the people around you.
Work is not all life
Do you often work overtime at night and weekends? If you spend all your time at work, what time do you spend on your work? Don't feel guilty about letting go of the extra work at hand. Leisure time is as important as working time. It is indeed a pleasure to get satisfaction from work, but if we just bury ourselves in work, our life will lose its proper balance.
Understand why some people are always poor.
I know many people have friends who complain about money. No matter what happens, they never have enough money. They are always complaining. Lack of money makes them unhappy, but they don't know how to change this situation. Even giving them money can't solve their problems, because they always make wrong financial decisions.
Part of the problem comes from their subconscious. They can easily get used to poverty, and even subconsciously hope that poverty will come. With this idea, it is difficult to earn money, but it is easy to feel sorry for yourself and regret. However, if we do nothing, we may still be unlucky, so the secret to solving the problem is to find ways to make him change his habits and ideas. Of course, it is prudent to try to change others' habits, because it is easy to fail.
Ignoring it won't solve the problem.
Another attitude towards money is to ignore it. We ignored the debt problem and the bill problem. We often choose to postpone payment instead of looking for a better solution, which affects our reputation. In fact, such an attitude will only add more trouble to us in the future.
Because when we procrastinate, we actually put the problem in our minds, and our minds are full of such headaches, which will make us fidget. Therefore, such things should be dealt with as soon as possible, so as to forget.
Re-examine money
The following questions related to money are what you should ask yourself:
Am I satisfied with my current financial situation? With more money, can I live happier? Do I always have financial problems in my mind? Has money always been the most important thing in my life? Does the pursuit of money always make me uneasy? Will I give up my principles in order to make more money?
As long as you answer the above questions seriously, it is possible to change your view of money.
LZ: I'm also looking for a paper. This is extra. It can be said that money is not everything in life. I wonder if I can help.
Tisch
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