The physical maturity of middle school students is no longer a strange phenomenon, and the occurrence and development of middle school students' sexual consciousness has also become a physiological law. However, middle school students' heterosexual communication and "puppy love" are still sensitive topics in society, and they are also the direction that parents and schools are paying attention to. Many psychologists are discussing whether it is appropriate to call middle school students "puppy love". "Puppy love", as the name implies, happens prematurely, but what is "early"? The last day of middle school is still early, and the first day of college is not early? This concept is not exact. Social psychologists in western languages call "love behavior between 12 years old and 18 years old" adolescent love. Compared with China and the West, this term not only determines the time of the concept, but also determines its meaning, without any moral evaluation. Therefore, many psychologists have been calling for a scientific definition of middle school students' behavior and psychology. Should we be cautious to label middle school students with the word "puppy love" today? The development of teenagers' sexual consciousness is an inevitable physiological phenomenon. We can't deny its existence, and we can't ignore its existence and deceive ourselves by covering our ears. Society, school, family and every middle school student should face it squarely and spend the most important growth period of middle school students together.

For "puppy love", there are corresponding studies in China and the West. According to a survey in China, about 30% of middle school students aged 13- 17 admitted having close friends of the opposite sex, and 7-8% of them admitted puppy love. In fact, the proportion of heterosexual communication should be higher, because some people hide the facts because they don't want others to know their psychology, because they haven't psychologically realized that heterosexual communication is a normal behavior, but at the same time, we can't deny that some middle school students do have a sense of love because of precocity, seeking warmth and avoiding loneliness. It is their reason to have someone to talk to, and we will also see a phenomenon, in the street and in the park. They are holding hands, shoulder to shoulder, behaving inappropriately, and some people even make out in public places like no one's watching. Advice and guidance to parents and teachers should be ignored. In this regard, educators and parents have a heavy feeling in their hearts. Parents and teachers are thinking about how to make children grow up smoothly. However, in view of all kinds of phenomena, while teachers and parents are thinking, should some students reflect on themselves?

Sexual maturity is a natural phenomenon, but it is not uncontrollable. Everyone has sense, self-discipline and moral values, so do middle school students. Some students are too self-indulgent and willful to listen to other people's suggestions. These are the reasons why "puppy love" cannot be eliminated. So teenagers should have a clear consciousness: 1. Adolescence is a period when everyone is accumulating knowledge and increasing social experience. It is the main theme of this period to prioritize and learn to enrich yourself. Moreover, at this time, everyone is not completely independent psychologically, and the economy depends on parents, and there is no condition for dating at all. In this period, because everyone's thinking ability and observation ability are limited, the understanding of a person can only rely on the surface. At this time, the choice of friends of the opposite sex is relatively simple, and the choice when a person is really mature will be far from the choice at this time. A puppy love girl likes a male classmate just because "he dares to contradict the teacher, but she dare not", and his image is thus "tall". The result of psychological immaturity is immature choice. 3. The personality quality of middle school students is still unstable and in the process of continuous development. How to grasp the life choice of continuous development of personality quality?

Sixteen or seventeen years old is a gorgeous season. Everyone has a beautiful story, which is the scenery of this season. But please don't forget that you are an excellent helmsman in the boat of life. Only by mastering yourself can we have a more brilliant tomorrow. Middle school students, please go!