For "puppy love", there are corresponding studies in China and the West. According to a survey in China, about 30% of middle school students aged 13- 17 admitted having close friends of the opposite sex, and 7-8% of them admitted puppy love. In fact, the proportion of heterosexual communication should be higher, because some people hide the facts because they don't want others to know their psychology, because they haven't psychologically realized that heterosexual communication is a normal behavior, but at the same time, we can't deny that some middle school students do have a sense of love because of precocity, seeking warmth and avoiding loneliness. It is their reason to have someone to talk to, and we will also see a phenomenon, in the street and in the park. They are holding hands, shoulder to shoulder, behaving inappropriately, and some people even make out in public places like no one's watching. Advice and guidance to parents and teachers should be ignored. In this regard, educators and parents have a heavy feeling in their hearts. Parents and teachers are thinking about how to make children grow up smoothly. However, in view of all kinds of phenomena, while teachers and parents are thinking, should some students reflect on themselves?
Sexual maturity is a natural phenomenon, but it is not uncontrollable. Everyone has sense, self-discipline and moral values, so do middle school students. Some students are too self-indulgent and willful to listen to other people's suggestions. These are the reasons why "puppy love" cannot be eliminated. So teenagers should have a clear consciousness: 1. Adolescence is a period when everyone is accumulating knowledge and increasing social experience. It is the main theme of this period to prioritize and learn to enrich yourself. Moreover, at this time, everyone is not completely independent psychologically, and the economy depends on parents, and there is no condition for dating at all. In this period, because everyone's thinking ability and observation ability are limited, the understanding of a person can only rely on the surface. At this time, the choice of friends of the opposite sex is relatively simple, and the choice when a person is really mature will be far from the choice at this time. A puppy love girl likes a male classmate just because "he dares to contradict the teacher, but she dare not", and his image is thus "tall". The result of psychological immaturity is immature choice. 3. The personality quality of middle school students is still unstable and in the process of continuous development. How to grasp the life choice of continuous development of personality quality?
Sixteen or seventeen years old is a gorgeous season. Everyone has a beautiful story, which is the scenery of this season. But please don't forget that you are an excellent helmsman in the boat of life. Only by mastering yourself can we have a more brilliant tomorrow. Middle school students, please go!