Success is a habit, so is failure. Why is it successful? Why do you fail because you have perseverance? Because of giving up. Persistence and giving up are both a habit. Good habits are our great strength for success. No wonder some people say that the biggest difference between success and failure comes from different habits. One day, a teacher and his young students were walking in the Woods. The teacher stopped suddenly and looked at the four plants around him carefully. The first plant is a seedling that has just emerged from the soil; The second plant is already a tall and straight seedling, and its roots are firmly entrenched in fertile soil; The third plant is luxuriant in foliage, almost as tall as young students; The fourth plant is a huge oak tree, and young students can hardly see its crown.

The teacher pointed to the first plant and said to his students, "Pull it up." The students pulled out the seedlings easily with their fingers. "Now, put the second plant aside." The students listened to the teacher's instructions and uprooted the saplings with a little effort. "Ok, now, pull out the third plant." The students tried with one hand and then went all out with both hands. At last, the tree fell at his exhausted feet. "ok." The teacher went on to say, "Let's try that oak tree!" " The student looked up at the huge oak tree in front of him, thinking that he was exhausted when he pulled out the much smaller tree just now, so he refused the teacher's proposal and didn't even try. "My child." The teacher sighed and said, "Your actions just tell you how much influence habits have on life!" " "

In fact, our habits are like the plants in the story. The seedlings are easy to pull out. As time goes by, the more deeply rooted they are, the more difficult it is to eradicate. The oak tree in the story is so huge that it is as daunting as a long-standing habit that people dare not even try to change it. It is also worth mentioning that there are differences between habits, and some habits are more difficult to change than others. Not only bad habits, but also good habits. In other words, once a good habit is formed, it will be as loyal and firm as the oak tree in the story. In this process from "seedling" to "towering tree", the more times habits are repeated and the longer they exist, the more difficult it is to change.

Legend has it that a long time ago, a person inadvertently got the secret about the "touchstone" from a book. The book says that on the shore of the Black Sea, there is a magical stone that can turn ordinary metal into gold. It is mixed with thousands of other identical stones, the only difference is that only this stone is warm, and other ordinary stones are cold. So the man came to the shore of the Black Sea to look for this magical stone.

After arriving here, he immediately started the "stone-seeking plan". When he was hungry, he went to a nearby place to beg for something to eat. At night, he slept on the coast and woke up looking for the "stone" piece by piece. He picked up a stone and touched it. If it is not hot, he will throw it into the sea. In this way, he repeated this action day after day. In a blink of an eye, five years later, he continued his work step by step, picking up a stone to make sure it was not thrown into the sea, then picking it up again, and so on ... After a long time, one morning, he picked up a stone, which was very hot, but he threw it into the sea without thinking! In the following days, he continued to look for the sacred stone in his heart day after day. And because he has formed the habit of throwing stones into the sea, he has even forgotten what he is throwing stones for.

Isn't this man's story sad? Any kind of behavior, as long as repeated, will become a habit. By the same token, any kind of thought, as long as it is repeated constantly, will become a habit and affect people's behavior unconsciously.

There is a well-known enterprise that recruits talents and has high requirements for academic qualifications, foreign languages and looks. However, due to the high salary, many high-quality talents apply. Finally, with their own efforts, the three young people passed the last hurdle: the general manager interview.

All three young people think this interview is a shoo-in. Unexpectedly, as soon as we met, the general manager said, "Sorry, everyone, I'm in a hurry. I'm going out 10 minutes. Can you wait for me? " All three said, "No problem, go ahead, we'll wait for you." The general manager left, and young people came in one after another with great pride. They looked around the general manager's desk and found it full of documents, letters and data reports. Look at this pile, young man. I look at this pile. After reading it, exchange views: "Oh, this looks good."

10 minutes later, the general manager came back and said, "The interview is over." "No? We are still waiting for you. " The general manager said, "Your performance just now was an interview. It's a pity that none of you passed the exam. Because our company never accepts people who turn over other people's things. " Hearing this, these young people immediately beat their chests and feet. Why are they so emotional? They said, "We haven't heard of people who don't take things from others."

Habit is a double-edged sword in life. If used well, it will help us get happiness and success easily. If we don't make good use of it, it will make all our efforts very laborious and even ruin our lives. If, unfortunately, you have many bad habits, then when the consequences of bad habits appear at that time or at the end, such bitter wine can only