Tolerance is a kind of ability, precisely, a kind of wisdom. People are naturally selfish, which is human nature! Just the difference in degree and level.
How small a drop of water is! But it jumped into the sea. Oh! It turned out that Mother Hai put up with it. We should cast a favorable look at the sea, because its broad mind contains a drop of water, so that it is no longer lonely, no longer lonely. Thus, it also fulfilled itself, making itself stronger and having the potential of stormy waves. Why is this not a kind of wisdom?
How insignificant a grass is in front of the earth! The earth could have kept it away, but it didn't. It chose tolerance. It contains the grass, gives it a home, and makes it no longer sad and cry. As a result, it also perfected itself and made itself more beautiful. Why is this not a kind of wisdom?
A rose, without the tolerance and foil of green leaves, may not be as beautiful as wild flowers in the grass. But it is the tolerance of green leaves that makes it look so brilliant. The green leaves chose tolerance and gained a lot instead of losing anything. It understands that tolerance means happiness, and tolerance means happiness. Why is this not a kind of wisdom?
Tolerance is not equal to loss.
Tolerance, like a bright light in the dark, illuminates the journey; Tolerance, like a ray of sunshine in winter, warms people's hearts; Tolerance is like a lost hand, guiding the direction ... it is tolerance that makes the world more lovely.
Just as there are water drops in the sea, grass in the earth and roses in the green leaves, we should learn to tolerate others. The sea, the earth and the green leaves have taught us tolerance, and life is beautiful because of tolerance!
Dear friends, don't let the seeds of "tolerance" sit in your heart for too long. Water it often and let it enjoy the sunshine. It needs to grow up. Long, you will find that you are willing to tolerate others.
Learn to tolerate others, try to tolerate others, and life will be full of wisdom!
Part II: Tolerance
The philosopher Kant said, "Being angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others." We are furious that others have made mistakes, so it is our own fault.
I think tolerance means accepting others in your heart, understanding their ways of doing things and respecting their principles. Although tolerance is not that simple, we should do our best. Start from bit by bit around you, and then you will get closer and closer to tolerance. After continuous accumulation, you will eventually achieve your goal-tolerance.
People should learn to be tolerant. More tolerance means less spiritual separation; More tolerance means more understanding, more trust and more friendliness.
There is a good saying: "Caution keeps you away from disasters, while tolerance keeps you away from disputes." We should treat others like this and learn to tolerate others. Your life will be meaningless if we don't help others when they are in trouble!
There is a fable about two horses walking together. One bit the other's neck, but the bitten one comforted the horse who was ashamed of biting himself. Although the story is small, it reveals the touching character between heaven and earth, that is tolerance.
In fables, tolerance for animals is good for evil, while in Buddhism, tolerance for Maitreya is "the stomach can hold the world". How to understand tolerance in our real life? In fact, tolerance is a realm.
The usual "tolerance" is to forgive others' temporary mistakes, ignore them and be a generous person in a friendly way. Tolerance is often more effective than excessive retaliation when encountering contradictions. It is like a clear spring, slowly erasing the temporary hostility of the other party, making people calm down, so as to see the original reason of the matter clearly. At the same time, I also saw myself clearly. The bitten horse in the fable rationally chose tolerance, and finally they made up. Imagine, if it is tit-for-tat, what can be brought about by fighting back at each other in the same way, in addition to both losses and cross the rubicon? Therefore, it can be said that the legendary national horse is actually very wise, and its wisdom lies in "returning good for evil."
To tolerate others is to understand others, to be generous and to be kind to others. But tolerating oneself is an open-minded, calm and rational, and tolerating oneself is not indulgence.
Tolerance is an extraordinary tolerance and broad mind, and it is the tolerance and acceptance of people and things.
Tolerance is a kind of light of benevolence and love, it is to let go of others, that is, to be kind to yourself.
"Be tolerant and forgive others" and "Calm down for a while and take a step back" both teach us to tolerate others. Because the power of tolerance is enormous. Tolerance can resolve the grievances between people; Tolerance can make a career flourish.
"Why don't you be true to yourself? You always have a big belly when you treat people. " This sentence also tells you to have an inclusive heart. On the other hand, if everyone in the world is not tolerant and only haggles over every ounce, then the whole world may be bleeding all day.
As the saying goes: the prime minister can punt in his stomach! We should be polite to others. Without forgiveness, life will always be controlled by endless hatred and revenge. Only if we are good at unity can we get friendly returns!
A class should be the unity of the whole class and work together. However, on the contrary, it is absolutely unacceptable to judge a person's quality, good and evil just because of his fault. We should have a broad mind to forgive friends and people in life!
On the road of our life, it is not as simple as two horses. Life is often complicated and often boring. It is tolerance like water that makes complicated things pure after filtering.
Chapter three: Tolerance-the flash of truth, goodness and beauty.
The sea is wide and the fish jumps, and the sky is high and birds fly. The beauty of poetry contains the beauty of tolerance.
Hugo, a literary giant, once said: The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky. Yes, a person's mind can contain everything, just like an old saying: a general can race horses with his forehead and a prime minister can punt with his stomach.
Tolerance means being open-minded and seeking common ground while reserving differences; Be lenient with others and strict with yourself; Harmony is the most important thing, and good for evil is the sublimation of human sentiment and the flash of truth, goodness and beauty.
The world needs tolerance, and people should learn tolerance.
Tolerance is the source of happiness. Learn to be tolerant, not happy with things, not sad with yourself, and life will be full of sunshine. Don't blame the cloudy sky, maybe it just casts a cool shadow on people who are working hard and exploring in the wild; Don't blame the bus for being a little late occasionally. Maybe the driver is using this minute to help an old man get on the bus. Don't blame others for their shortcomings, maybe they are suffering from the same shortcomings as you; Don't blame fate, maybe it is sharpening your will. Only by complaining less and being tolerant more can we sow the seeds of happiness in the world.
Tolerance is the cornerstone of friendship. True friendship begins with sincerity and remains with tolerance. The "reconciliation" between Lian Po and Lin Xiangru is the result of tolerance and friendship. When Lincoln was active in politics, there were often a group of people who opposed him; After he entered the White House, he did not retaliate against this power, but tolerated it as a friend.
Tolerance is an important condition for success. Xiao Bai, his son, put aside the past, let Guan Zhong become the first tyrant in the Spring and Autumn Period. Zhuge Liang won the conviction of Meng Huo and ethnic minorities with his broad mind. People who have made great achievements in ancient and modern times must have a big mind, learn to tolerate, and be able to tolerate victory.
But tolerance is not connivance, not all tolerance. There is also the following sentence: "those who choose good follow it, and those who choose evil change it." We can't tolerate falsehood, evil and ugliness, because that is tolerance for despicable crimes.
Perhaps, with a little more tolerance, there would be no war in Iraq, and there would be no chaos and turmoil in the Palestinian-Israeli situation.
Our great motherland needs tolerance to build a harmonious society and strive for peaceful reunification.
Learn to be tolerant, let the mind sweep away the shadow, unload the burden and gallop in a wider world!
Chapter 4: What is tolerance?
What is tolerance? Tolerance is to learn to tolerate others and to be kind to yourself. What is tolerance? Tolerance is to let the violets crushed by one foot leave a faint fragrance on the hard soles. What is tolerance? Tolerance is to make Lincoln, who was satirized by lawmakers, smile at the party. What is tolerance? Tolerance allows Lin Xiangru, angered by Lian Po, to be calm, still take the overall situation into consideration and put the country first. What is tolerance? Tolerance is a spirit of freedom and liberation, which can make our hearts flexible. What is resentment? Resentment is an emotion that can only keep our hearts in the dark forever.
I also had this experience-one holiday morning, I met a big brother in the elevator. As he walked, he looked at the newspaper in his hand, but he didn't see me opposite. Although I tried my best to make room for him, the space in the elevator was too small and we bumped into it. I said hello, "Are you all right?" He gave me an angry look and strode away. It seems that he hit me without looking at the road, but I accidentally hit him! I looked at his distant back inexplicably and couldn't help being angry: it's not my fault, it's obviously that you don't look at the road when you walk, read the newspaper and blame others! Like everyone owes you! But then I thought, since it's his fault, why should I be angry? No wonder the philosopher Kant once said, "Being angry is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes." Yes, at this moment, it is obviously someone else's fault, but I am furious about it. Isn't it my fault? Thought of here, I forgave him and walked into the elevator without scruple. ...
What is tolerance? Tolerance is a bridge of communication, showing the beautiful side of ugly food; What is tolerance? Tolerance is a science, which tells people that those who learn tolerance are equal to those who learn to live, and those who know tolerance know happiness. What is tolerance? Tolerance is to tolerate others' mistakes, not to appreciate others' mistakes, not to help others make mistakes, not to encourage others to make mistakes, but to allow others to make mistakes and give others a better chance to correct them! What is tolerance? Tolerance is a broad mind, a profound accomplishment, holy water to wash away resentment, a spring breeze to blow away pain, a map to happiness, and a temperature to warm people's hearts!
Chapter 5: Learn to be tolerant.
More than 100 years ago, Hugo of France lamented: "The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky." In the ancient East, there is a simple proverb passed down from generation to generation: "A prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach." The collision between the romance of the French and the reality of China makes people find that tolerance transcends the boundaries of countries, languages, nationalities and civilizations. Tolerance is a virtue shared and praised by people on this beautiful planet.
Tolerance is a kind of wisdom and tolerance. As the English proverb says, "There is no garden without weeds." There is no shortage of gold, no one is perfect, and tolerance for others is based on understanding and understanding of others. Lin Xiangru's tolerance for Lian Po has made the story of "harmony but difference"; Bao Shu Ya's tolerance for Guan Zhong has achieved the feat of "nine in one, conquering the world with one move"; Li Shimin's tolerance for Wei Zhi made the "rule of chastity" prosperous; However, the Song Dynasty monarch's tolerance for literati's argumentative essays ushered in the second climax of ideological emancipation and cultural prosperity in China's history after the Warring States Period. The meaning of tolerance is not only at the individual level, but also has a great dynamic role in the existence and development of the whole society.
Tolerance is a kind of cultivation and a realm. There is a saying in the Buddhist scriptures: "One thought changes the situation." In the face of other people's mistakes, we are bitter, and revenge will bring spiritual burden. The true benevolent will choose tolerance and calmness. Gou Jian, the King of Yue, can finally get revenge for "ten years of reunion and ten years of lessons". He could bear the pain of eating and drinking, but after destroying Wu, he ordered the destruction of Wu Zongshi. He knows forbearance, but he doesn't know tolerance. Han Xin, the king of Qi, had a "shame on his legs" before he made his fortune, but after reunification, he was appointed as the captain of the city tour and let bygones be bygones. Only from this perspective, Han Xin's personality is much more sound than Gou Jian's.
Lu Xun's "not forgiving anyone" is a bit paranoid, but it is an extreme resistance to the dark reality after he lost his patience. He also said that "the wave-snatching brothers are here, and when they meet, they laugh and forget the enmity", which is his tolerant side. In his works, Ah Q will struggle with others when he hears others say "scar", "scab", "baldness" and "light". Later, even the word "light" was not allowed to be mentioned. "The heavens and the earth are wide, and the light ones are narrow-minded." A narrow-minded person is bound to be a person with many taboos and paranoid temperament. And a society that can't even tolerate "the breeze doesn't read, how can it turn over books" is doomed to be a morbid society. However, tolerance does not mean laissez-faire and connivance. Human society is maintained by hidden rules, and unrestrained connivance will also cause social deformity. Tolerance does not mean forbearance. "forbearance" is a knife in my heart, a deliberately suppressed anger and depression, which will break out sooner or later. Tolerance means being quiet and indifferent without knowing it. Tolerance does not mean silence and forgetting, because "forgetting the past means betrayal." True tolerance should be as Voltaire said to his political opponents: "Although I don't agree with everything you say, I will defend your right to speak to the death."
Tolerance is a hundred rivers, tolerance is a virtue, tolerance is indifferent, tolerance is quiet and far-reaching. Kant told us that "only two things can deeply shock my mind: one is the bright star sky above our heads, and the other is the lofty moral law in our hearts", as I heard; In today's world, ethnic and religious conflicts continue. "As long as everyone is more tolerant, the world will become a beautiful world", so I wish!
Chapter 6: Talking about Tolerance
Albert Einstein, a famous scientist, once said: Tolerance means respecting the beliefs of others, no matter what may happen.
This is tolerance. You may never think that you don't tolerate others, and others won't tolerate you. Always blame others, can only be blamed by others. Living in the world, everyone wants to have a good mood, and the first factor to get a good mood is to learn to be tolerant. Seriously speaking, without tolerance, you won't do anything, communicate, communicate, and succeed in your future career.
Be tolerant when getting along with others, whether it is for classmates, friends, parents or teachers ... In short, it is very important to tolerate each other. Everyone has self-esteem. You respect others, protect others' self-esteem, avoid embarrassment, embarrassment, and even relieve others' embarrassment. He naturally understands your good intentions.
Without tolerance, there is no harmonious, beautiful and comfortable study and living environment, and there is no warm, harmonious and intimate interpersonal relationship. Only in this environment can we succeed in our study and give full play to our creative potential. Think about it, is this a fact? Without tolerance, no matter how great your achievements are, no matter how beautiful your life goals are, no matter how charming and beautiful you are … you will always be lonely and depressed inside.
Of course, it is not easy to learn tolerance. Parents misjudge you, teachers misunderstand you, classmates don't understand you, and even friends betray you. ...
In this case, how will you tolerate them? Can you consider this problem from their standpoint? If you reflect on yourself carefully, you may find that you have actually done something bad, and your point of view is not completely correct.
"There is no shortage of gold, and no one is perfect." There is no one who does not make mistakes, including ourselves. Forgive yourself for your past, present and future mistakes, but also forgive others, tolerate others, tolerate others. Forgive yourself, forgive others, and work hard in the future, and there will be remarkable achievements. Man is not a god, and he must move from imperfection to perfection in order to become a real man.
Some people say, "Tolerance means that others hit you on the left face and you send your right face up." No, it's not right. Tolerance is not an indulgence of sin.
Tolerance is the first step towards maturity and the first step towards the public. From here, you will sympathize with others, understand others and help others. You will lend a helping hand to everyone who needs help. You will give your love to everyone who is eager for your understanding. Your mind will become extremely broad, and you will have a high-quality life!