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How is a child's good character shaped? Why do people often focus on personality characteristics when talking about children's personality? Because nothing can better reflect a child's personality than personality. The so-called personality is the psychological characteristics shown in people's stable attitude towards reality and habitual behavior.

So, how to shape a child's good character through family life?

First, correct yourself first: the child's personality is often a portrayal of the parents' personality. When analyzing his personality, Lao She said, "My mother passed on my personality." Pay attention to educational methods and attitudes: As the "controller" of family education, parents should always be rational, because some children's personalities are by-products of parents' family education methods and attitudes.

Second, grasp the content of education: parents always shape their children's character according to their own wishes, which requires a good grasp of the content of character training, which is different from temperament. Personality has social evaluation significance, that is to say, the quality of personality marks a person's direction. For example, kindness and diligence are good personality characteristics; Hypocrisy and laziness are bad personality traits.

Third, create a good family atmosphere: children who are lively, cheerful, enthusiastic and optimistic live in a harmonious family atmosphere, and the relationship between parents and family is normal and good. Pay attention to the influence of children's status in the family. Enhance the connection between father and son: psychological research shows that the more opportunities and the longer the children have contact with their fathers at home, the more developed their physical strength and intelligence, and the more sound their personality.

Fourth, we should consider children's own characteristics: the younger children are, the more their personality characteristics are influenced by innate values and physical development.

Therefore, no matter how the child's personality develops, it mainly depends on what foundation family life has laid for him.

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There are thousands of roads in life. Who is the chief designer of our life path? Is it God? No. Is this destiny takes a hand? No, it's our own character. There is an Indian proverb that says: "Sowing behavior, harvesting habit; Sowing habits, harvesting character; Sow character and reap fate. " While we are shaping our own character, we are also shaping our own destiny. Therefore, we should be strict with ourselves and shape a good character.

First of all, we must strengthen our self-cultivation. First, be good at introspection. The ancients emphasized that "I save my life three times a day", emphasized reviewing and checking my behavior every day, and reflected on my personality through inner introspection, introspection and self-defense. The deeper you reflect, the more problems you find yourself, and the clearer the direction of correction. Introspection is a good quality of a person. Through introspection, you can make your personality more perfect and stable, which is the only way for the wise to cultivate their self-cultivation.

Second, learn to learn from the police. Aiming at one's personality weakness, choose relevant famous sayings and epigrams as one's motto to remind and encourage oneself. For example, some people are grumpy and impulsive. To learn to be patient, hold the word "patient" first. There is a big plaque hanging in Lin Zexu's study, which reads "Curing Anger". Lin Zexu looks at this plaque every day, and its transformation will inevitably have a subtle effect over time.

Third, we should know how to motivate ourselves. Self-motivation. Choose an advanced example and always use it to motivate and spur yourself. We can learn from the comrades, hero models and outstanding leaders around us. The so-called "threesome, there must be my teacher", learning from each other's strengths will be conducive to the cultivation of good character. Through self-motivation, consciously hone your strong will and cultivate your strong character to overcome difficulties.

"A leopard cannot change his spots." Obviously, it is very difficult to change his character. However, in the face of difficulties, it is entirely possible for us to be strict with ourselves, strengthen self-cultivation and self-exercise, and shape a good character.

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Psychological research shows that people's personality is basically formed between 3 and 6 years old. For most children, this age is mainly with their parents, who exert a subtle influence on their character. Therefore, the best gift parents can give their children is to help them establish good habits and form a good character. It is necessary to start with children and cultivate from the details of life. As the saying goes, "details determine success or failure"! Here are some ways for parents to cultivate their children's good habits.

It is important to obey the rules of the game when playing games. So many of our families are not like this. It is difficult for parents to stand in their children's psychology to accompany their children and let them play with many toys. There are no rules. Then teaching children to obey the rules begins with games.

Cultivate children's serious and responsible attitude in daily life, cultivate children's serious and responsible attitude in game activities, often praise and encourage children, and educate children to be responsible and serious. Forging children's character in labor: Let children be proud of their labor, parents should form a good habit of loving labor, let children actively participate in housework, consider their interests according to their abilities, and praise their achievements in time.

Don't cheat your children. There are often such so-called white lies in life. If you don't want your child to lie to you, the best way is not to lie to your child, let alone to his face. Because at this time, the biggest feature of children is imitation. Therefore, once children are found to have lied, they should be educated as early as possible and corrected in time.

Communicate with children more, parents should be role models for children, and parents should communicate with children more. Usually, we should communicate with children more, understand their thoughts more and encourage them more. Can understand the child's inner world, promote the feelings between parents and children, let children have more trust in their parents, and at the same time can calmly solve many misunderstandings and contradictions. Active communication between parents and children is essential, which is an important part of family education.

Educate children to keep a positive attitude, let them learn humor, encourage them to communicate with others, discipline them moderately, give them a simple life, cultivate their extensive interests and hobbies, and make them confident. Cheerful optimism is a state of mind and an excellent quality.

In short, parents should consciously cultivate their children's good personality and prevent bad information from being instilled in their children's body and mind. Before the age of 6, what children hear, see and feel should be positive and beautiful, which has a positive impact on children's good character and sound personality. Parents should always care about their children's every move, cultivate their children's good character and habits, and let them grow up healthily and happily.