In life, we often describe it as not showing weakness-personal courage. We advocate not to be outdone. For your own ideals and beliefs, you should be brave in persistence and struggle. This is certainly good. However, sometimes moderate weakness can make sometimes moderate weakness can make sometimes moderate weakness can make sometimes moderate weakness can make your world wider, your world wider, your world wider.
"The wood in the forest is beautiful, and the wind will destroy it." Weak reed, bent down in the storm, and then straightened. This is a natural phenomenon. As far as our life is concerned, it is counterproductive to try to be brave in anything, anywhere and at any time, and it is difficult to achieve our ideals and goals. Therefore, we should learn to show weakness moderately.
Moderate weakness is a kind of wisdom. There are many contradictions in life that do not involve right and wrong, nor are they matters of principle. Such as misunderstanding between friends, quarrel between husband and wife, estrangement between parents and children, etc. If you try to be brave, sometimes you will lose your rare friendship, which will cast a shadow over the relationship between husband and wife and deepen the gap between parents and children. As the saying goes, "endure a calm moment and take a step back to broaden the horizon". This kind of "forbearance" and "retreat" is a mild weakness. Need a broad mind, a broad mind.
Moderate weakness is a kind of courage. In life, in order to achieve their ideals and lofty goals. It is inevitable that you will stumble, and sometimes you will encounter something that seems unbearable. At this time, moderate weakness can help us tide over the difficulties and accumulate strength to realize our lofty ideals. Han Xin endured "the humiliation of his legs" and eventually became a big star; Xiang Yu couldn't bear to be defeated for a while, and finally committed suicide in Wujiang River, which can be described as "a little reluctance leads to great mischief". If it takes courage to be brave, it also takes courage to show weakness moderately.
Moderate weakness is also an educational principle. In life, which parent doesn't want their children to become talents, and which teacher doesn't want their students to be better than shine on you? Teachers can set an example, parents can talk about it in Kan Kan, and even get involved. And I want to say that moderate disadvantage is also an educational principle that should be advocated. In many things in life, parents can sincerely say "I can't do it", encourage children to develop independent consciousness, and then cultivate their self-confidence and life ability; For many problems in teaching, teachers can also say "I don't understand" in good faith, encourage students to express their views and cultivate students' ability of independent exploration. This weakness can be said that parents and teachers deliberately use their "weakness" to cultivate their children's strength. Why not sigh for it? Life is not a single equation, and there are not only simple choices on the road of life. We praise "courage" and "strength", but we don't refuse to show "weakness" moderately.
All roads lead to Rome, but the world is moderately weak.
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