The sun and the wind are arguing about who is better. The wind says, "I will prove that I am better than you." Did you see the old man in a coat? I bet I can get him to take off his coat faster than you. "So the sun hid behind the clouds, and the wind began to blow, and the bigger it was, it became a hurricane. But the faster the wind blows, the tighter the old man is wrapped. Finally, the wind gave up. Then the sun came out from behind the clouds and smiled brightly at the old man. Soon, the old man began to wipe the sweat and then took off his coat. The sun said to the wind, "you see, it is still gentle and friendly, and it is more powerful than anger and violence." "After reading the materials, please write an article on the topic of' friendliness'. You can write your own experiences, experiences, feelings and opinions, or you can write a story. Note: 1, self-determination. 2, the style is optional. 3, not less than 800 words. Pay attention to the following points when writing this topic: 1, and accurately understand the spirit of the topic. In the form of fable, the title material reveals the truth that "gentleness and friendliness are more powerful than anger and violence" by comparing the wind with the sun. It is best to show such a set of contrast in words, that is, not only to explain the importance of "friendliness" to others, but also to compare it with "anger and violence" 2. We can focus on the overall situation and talk about the necessity of friendly coexistence between countries and nations; You can also start from a small place and talk about being kind to people around you and promoting the harmony of interpersonal relationships; You can also change your starting point and write that human beings should be kind to nature and protect the environment. Be kind to others. I remember that a few years ago, the Chinese teacher read us an article entitled "A Kind Word is Warm in Three Winter", and there was a fragment in it, which is still fresh in my memory. Hoover, a famous American test pilot, flew back to Los Angeles. In the air more than 90 meters above the ground, just two engines failed at the same time. Thanks to his superb skills, the plane landed miraculously. Hoover immediately checked the jet oil. As he expected, the propeller plane he was flying was full of jet oil. When he summoned the mechanic in charge of maintenance, the other person cried with fear. At this time, Hoover did not fly into a rage as everyone expected. Instead, he stretched out his arm and hugged the maintenance man's shoulder. He said confidently, "To prove that you can do a good job, I want you to help me maintain my plane tomorrow. "Since then, Hoover's plane has never broken down, and careless maintenance workers have become conscientious and meticulous. This story is very touching. Although the repairman's fault almost killed him, Hoover, who is kind-hearted, deeply understands the psychology of those who are at fault. When the other party makes a serious mistake, they should be considerate, self-restrained and give unexpected relief to restore their confidence and self-esteem. This is the great power of friendliness. Imagine that if Hoover angrily reprimanded the repairman, or even held him accountable, it would probably completely destroy the repairman. Visible, in the face of the same thing, with two different attitudes to treat, there will be different endings. Friendly, can make big things small, be kind to others and benefit yourself-has Hoover's plane never gone wrong since then? Dealing with anger and even violence often hurts rather than benefits. Whether you can be friendly to others not only reflects a person's moral level, but sometimes even reflects the quality of a nation. It is reported that in Canada, the same traffic accident can be solved smoothly in less than two minutes, and the driver will get off the bus soon. Depending on the actual situation of the accident, the two sides settled it through friendly negotiation, and both sides apologized to each other, so in less than two minutes, they drove away separately. However, in China, it is difficult to settle disputes without spending an hour. There is a simple reason. Once the car crashes, the driver will put down the window. Whether he is wrong or not, he will swear, get angry in the car and get off the bus to accuse the other party. So the vehicles behind could not move forward, and the drivers honked their horns one by one. Until the traffic police came forward to analyze the responsibilities of both sides of the accident, a storm went away, but the parties often had to exchange a few words to vent their anger. In that case, it won't take an hour or two to be strange. A senior researcher once wrote: "In the competition of 2 1 century, we can still overcome the difficulties in production and economy, and we can catch up with them ... but the national quality is not optimistic compared with developed countries, even compared with some developing countries. "In my opinion, failure to be gentle with others, failure to reflect on ourselves and failure to get along with others is a concrete aspect of our low quality. Life is a mirror. When you walk to the mirror with a friendly face, you will find that the people in the mirror are also smiling at you kindly; When you face it roughly, you will find that the man in the mirror is also waving his fist at you. Life is alive, please have a friendly heart and keep a friendly feeling! Being friendly means being healthier, richer and going further. The five forces of the law of friendliness will improve your interpersonal relationship and lead you to success. Being friendly can bring you good interpersonal relationship and health. A peaceful mind can make you richer and luckier. At that time, you will enjoy success and family harmony. Linda Kaplan Taylor and Robin Koval once published a portable book called The Power of Kindness, in which they mentioned: How to use your friendliness to get ahead in business, not just to improve interpersonal relationships. Kindness promotes health, improves your love life and makes you richer. Besides, your colleagues, friends and family will also be affected by it.