Men will choose a beautiful woman to fall in love and a smart woman to marry. The reason is that the feelings are unstable when they are in love, so some men will choose a woman with high value when they are in love, even if they break up for various reasons later, they will not suffer. But getting married is different. Marriage is a lifetime, so men will be very cautious when choosing a partner. They will not choose beautiful women because they are not at ease at home. In case they have an affair one day, men will regret it.

Therefore, when choosing a marriage partner, men often choose a gentle and considerate woman. Such a woman doesn't have to be too beautiful, but she must be kind to men, know how to take care of the family and always understand men.

Some people may say that men like beautiful women, which is true. Men are indeed visual animals, but this is limited to young men who have just stepped into society. They are full of longing and pursuit for the opposite sex, so they all have a soft spot for beautiful women. Men at this time don't consider getting married in the future, just look at the present.

But once men reach middle age, their views will change. Beautiful women are no longer their first choice, but smart women are their first choice. Because marriage is different from love, love can be reckless, and marriage has more responsibilities and obligations, so they will not be too blind in choosing a spouse.

It is said that when you marry a wife, you should marry an understanding woman. That's true. An understanding woman is a man's right-hand man, who can accompany him when he is tired and be their strong backing when he works. And those beautiful women may be just vases when they get married, and they can't share anything with men.

Therefore, when in love, men will choose beautiful women, and when they get married, they will choose intelligent women. Every man is not stupid, and no one wants to marry a woman with a bad temper and go home.